Mfutshane ubalethe umbhalo - ubuchule obuyimfuneko kumntwana kungekhona esikolweni kuphela, kodwa nakubomi bemihla ngemihla, njengolu buchule olunceda ukuba wenze iingcamango zakho. Enyanisweni kaninzi kunabantwana abancinci abangakwazi ukuphendula ngokufanelekileyo iindaba ezivezwe kwintsimi okanye umcimbi. Ngako oko, ukuze ulungiselelwe ngokupheleleyo isikolo, kubalulekile ukuba abazali bahlakulele izakhono zokubuyisela ngomlomo umntwana ngaphambi kwelo xesha.
Indlela yokufundisa umntwana indlela yokubhala ngokuthe tye?
- Okokuqala, khetha isicatshulwa esiya kufana neminyaka yengane yakho. Abafundi besikolo samabanga aphezulu kunye nabantwana abasesikolweni abancinci baya kuhanjiswa ngedaleko okanye ibali elincinci lokubhala. Kwaye xa umntwana wakho sele ekwazi ukufunda, kuya kuba ngcono xa efunda ngokwakhe.
- Yahlula ibali kwiindawo eziliqela kwaye uhlalutye ngamnye nomntwana, ngelixa ugxininisa ibali eliphambili, abalinganiswa kunye nokulandelelana kweziganeko. Emva koko ubuze umntwana imibuzo malunga nomxholo wesicatshulwa. Zama ukungamthandi umntwana ithuba lokuba wakhe umxholo, kwaye ukuba unengxaki - xelele.
- Kwiinkqubo zengxoxo, yenza isicwangciso sokubuyisela - amabinzana amancinci achaza ngalinye leengxenye zetekisi oziphakamisile.
- Buza umntwana, ngokusekelwe kwisicwangciso, ukuqokelela isishwankathelo esifutshane. Musa ukufunwa kakhulu kwintsana, makabe mfutshane kwaye i-monosyllabic. Emva koko buyele emuva kwibali oyifunayo kwaye uhlaziye impendulo.
- Funda kwaye uxoxe ngesicatshulwa okwesibini. Nika imizekelo ecacileyo yeenkcazo ezichaza nganye ngeplani yesicwangciso sakho. Tshela iinkcazo ezicacileyo zomntwana, imifanekiso, imifanekiso - yonke into eya kumnceda ukuba enze iinkcukacha ezingakumbi
ngcebiso. Ngoku, unokucela umntwana ukuba aqokelele ukuphindaphinda isicatshulwa esicatshulwa ngokubanzi, ngelixa esamnceda ukuba acwangcise iingcamango zakhe ngokuchanekileyo. - Ukuqonda okungcono kunye nokukhumbula, funda kwaye usebenze ngokubhaliweyo okwesithathu. Gxininisa kwimisebenzi yesibini, kodwa ungangeni kuyo, kuba umntwana unokudideka phakathi kweenkcukacha ezibalulekileyo kunye nezinto ezingabalulekanga. Ekugqibeleni, hlaziya umxholo wesicatshulwa entloko yomntwana, makhe aphendule imibuzo elula: ngubani okanye yintoni, phi, kutheni na kutheni.
- Ngoku kunokwenzeka ukuba unikeze umntwana kwakhona, kodwa sele sele ngokuzimeleyo, ukuqokelela isishwankathelo esifutshane.