Kulungile, xa unina unethuba lokuhlala nomntwana ubuncinane ukuya kwiminyaka emithathu-into ebizwa ngokuthi "sadov" ubudala. Kodwa iimeko kwiintsapho zahluke, kwaye abazali abaninzi banyanzelekile ukuba banike umntwana kwi-kindergarten ngaphambili kunokuba bafuna. Kodwa ngaphezu komnqweno kunye nokufuneka, kukho imilinganiselo yobudala, kunye nezinye iimfuno, ezimele ziphendulwe ngumntwana ongena esikolweni esikolweni sokuqala.
Ziyiphi na iminyaka yobudala emkhombeni?
Kwimibuzo yenani leminyaka ngoku bayithatha i-nursery impendulo ayikho nzima, kuba amanye amaziko alungele ukunyamekela nakwiimvumba ezinyangeni ezili-9, kanti abanye bazama ukuhambelana neminyaka eyi-1.5 yobudala. Le ngenye yezihlandlo eziphazamisayo ebomini bomntwana, xa efuna ukuba khona kobuzali kunye nokugcinwa ngumzali ngokukodwa, ngoko ukulungelelwa kokutya kufuneka kuqalwe ngaphambi kwexesha.
Yintoni enokuyenza umntwana akwazi ukuyenza phambi kwontanga?
Kwiindidi ezininzi, kukho iimfuno zezakhono zomntwana ongena kwiqela labafundi, ikakhulukazi bajongana nococeko kunye nokuzinakekela: umntwana kufuneka ahambe ebhodweni, adle yena ngokwakhe, azame ukuthatha iingubo zakhe. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ezi zakhono kwiminyaka eyi-1.5 ziya kuba zigqibeleleyo kwaye wonke umntu uyaziqonda, ngoko ke, ukuba intsana ayinakuzidla ngokuzimeleyo, akayi kuhlala elambile. Okufanayo kuya kubhodeni - ekuqaleni abantwana abasemkhombeni bangaba kwi-diaper. Kodwa oku akukho nto inika abazali ukuba banikezele ngokugcwele umyalelo womntwana wokuzimela kubasebenzi bokufundisa.
Ukulungelelwa komntwana kwisidlo sokutya akuqinisekanga kuphela ngokubunjwa kwezindlu eziyimfuneko kunye nezakhono zokucoceka, kodwa kubandakanya iinkalo zengqondo. Umntwana kufuneka alungele ukuyeka unina usuku lonke, ngoko kufuneka uqale "ukuqeqesha" ukusuka kanye
Kwakhona, umntwana makamele akwesaba abantu ngaphandle, kuquka nabantwana. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kule minyaka, abantwana bahlala benelungelo lokudlala kwiqela, kodwa amanye amava okusebenzisana noontanga angeniswa ngokuvakashela iindawo zokudlala zabantwana, izikolo zokuphuhliswa kwangaphambili, kumema abahlobo nabantwana ukuba batyelele kwaye bawatyelele.
Ngaloo ndlela, isigqibo sokuba ninike umntwana kwi-kindergarten kufuneka siqinisekiswe kungekudala kuphela, kodwa nangesilinganiselo sokulungela komntwana ukuba utshintsho olunjalo endleleni yokuphila.