Indlela yeGlen Doman

Wonke umzali ufuna ukukhulisa umntwana ovela kumntwana wakhe. Yintoni engazange ifike kunye nootitshala kunye neengqondo zengqondo ukuze bancede kulo mbandela. Amanyathelo amaninzi anamhlanje avumela ukuvelisa iintsana eziphantse zivela kwi-diapers. Kwaye enye yezona ziwayo ziza kuthiwa ngumhla weGlen Doman. Ugqirha wezobukhosi uG. Doman kwiminyaka engama-40 uvule ithuba lokuqinisa umsebenzi wengqondo kumntwana. Isiphumo somsebenzi wakhe saba yimpumelelo enkulu, xa abantwana beqhuba inkqubo yakhe, baqala ukukhupha abaontanga babo ekuphuculweni kwengqondo ngama-20%. Njengazo naluphi uphuhliso lwezemfundo, ubugcisa bokuqala bokuqala bukaDoman bunemiphumo emihle kwaye engalunganga. Masizame kwaye siyiqonde le nkqubo kwaye sivavanye ukusebenza kwayo.

Indlela kaDoman - "amakhadi" amakhadi

Akusiyo imfihlo kunoma ubani ukuba umsebenzi wokwenyama nengqondo womntwana ukuya kwiminyaka emithathu uhambelana kakhulu. Ngokwenza ukunyuka kweentlobo ezahlukeneyo, umntwana usakhula ngengqondo yakhe, kwaye ngokufunda inkqubo yokucinga, umntwana usebenza kwaye uhlala emzimbeni. UGlen Doman, ekubeni ngumzimba we-physiotherapist, wayekholelwa ukuba abantwana ukuya kunyaka banakho ukukwazi ukufunda. Ngako oko, ekudaleni indlela yakhe, wacetyiswa ngokuqalileyo ukuba aqalane nokujongana nomntwana ngokuqhelekileyo kwi-diaper. Amakhadi okuphuhlisa aseDoman adalwe ukuba asebenze ngeendlela ezimbini-ukuphuhlisa ulwazi lweelwimi kunye neemathematika zomntwana. Umlobi wezobugcisa wayenesiqiniseko sokuba ezi ntlobo ezimbini zomsebenzi wengqondo zingenangqondo. Izenzo ezininzi ziye zabonisa ukuba abantwana abaye baqulunqa ngokwale nkqubo baba ngabantu abaphumelelayo nabaphumelelayo. Ukususela ebusheni, xa ingqondo iqhubeka, abantwana baqala ukuqonda ukuba akukho mda wokuphelela. Yingakho ubugcisa kufuneka busetshenziswe kusebuntwaneni, xa ingqondo ingekaqulunqwa ngokupheleleyo.

Indlela yokwenza amakhadi akwaDoman kunye nendlela yokusebenza nabo?

Enye yeenzuzo zobugcisa kukuba ungenza amakhadi kaGlen Doman ngezandla zakho. Ukwenza oku, uzakufuna ikhadi eliqhelekileyo elimhlophe, okufuneka unqunywe kwizikwere ezingama-30x30. Ukuba uceba ukuphuhlisa ubuchule beelwimi zentsana, iiplate kufuneka zibe ngxantathu. Masinike umzekelo wendlela yokwenza amakhadi kunye namanani ukuya ku-10 ngendlela yeDanan:

• kunye nepeniti ebomvu evezwayo kunye nentonga enamandla, sebenzisa kumakhadi kwinqanaba ukusuka ku-1 kuya ku-10. Ziyakwazi ukufakwa kwisitya ngendlela ekhuselekileyo;
• emva kwekhadi, bhala inani elilinganayo nenani lamaphupha;
• Kwiimida zamakhadi ushiye amasimu ukugcina ikhadi alivale amanqaku.

Umgaqo ofanayo usetyenziswa xa ufundisa amagama. Kwimakhadi, amagama abhaliwe kwiileta ezinkulu, kwaye kwicala eliphambene liphindaphindiwe ukuze ubone oko ubonisa umntwana. Ukuba unomshicileli, oku kuya kwenza kube lula ngamanye amaxesha, kuba unokushicilela amakhadi ngokukhawuleza kunokuba uwadwe.

Amakhadi kaDoman Glenn, njengawo nawaphi na amanyathelo, afuna ukuthotyelwa kwemithetho emininzi. Kubalulekile ukuba uzikhumbule ngaphambi kokuba uqale uqeqesho kwaye ungalibali xa usebenza nomntwana.

Khumbula, umntwana omncinci, kulula kakhulu ukuba afunde.

1. Dumisani umntwana ngenxa yakhe yonke impumelelo. Emva koko uya kuba nokulungele ukujongana nawe.
2. Bonisa umntwana wakho ikhadi elingapheli kweyimizuzu engama-1-2. Ngeli xesha, ufuna kuphela ukuthetha igama elibhalwa kwikhadi okanye kwinombolo, ukuba ufunda izibalo.
3. Ukubonakaliswa kwamakhadi ngamagama afanayo akumele kuphindwe kathathu ngosuku.
4. Olunye ulwazi olutsha oluthatha ngalo lonke usuku loqeqesho, umntwana wakho uya kukwazi ukukhumbula. Ukuba umntwana ucela amanye amakhadi, yenza okungakumbi.
5. Musa ukumphoqa umntwana ukuba akwenze ukuba akafuni. Khumbula ukuba umntwana unako ukukhathala, unokungaxhalabisi, njl njl. Ukuba uqaphela ukuba umntwana usuphazamisekile, mvalela uqeqesho ixesha elide.
6. Ungalibali ukujongana nomntwana wakho nsuku zonke. Kucetyiswa ukuba ukhethe ixesha elifanayo, ukuze umntwana sele esazi ukuba kuya kuba nomsebenzi kwaye ulindele.
7. Lungiselela iklasi kwangaphambili. Sula amakhadi ukuze ixesha ngalinye ukulandelana kwamagama kunye namanani ahluke, kwaye kwakhona izinto ezintsha zivela phakathi kwabantu abadala.
8. Akuyimfuneko ukuvuza umntwana ngenxa yeempumelelo zakhe kunye nawaphi na iikotyhi kunye nezinto ezihamba phambili. Ngaphandle koko, uya kuba nobudlelwane ukuba uqeqesho ludibene nento entle.
9. Qala iiklasi xa umntwana ehlala entle. Khumbula ukuba ukuphuhliswa kwengane akufanele kuguquke. Kufuneka athathe izenzo zakho njengomdlalo. Emva koko izifundo zakho ziya kumnceda.

Iingxaki zeendlela zikaGlen Doman

Ekugqibeleni, kukufanelekile ukukhankanya ukuba ubuchule bukaGlen Doman bunemiqobo. Eyona nto eyona nto kukuba umntwana akahambanga ngexesha leeklasi. Inkqubo ifundisa kuphela ukukhumbula, kodwa ingabonakali. Ngaloo ndlela, umntwana usulela ubuninzi beenkcukacha, kodwa ukuqonda kweemvakalelo zezinto ezifundwayo akubandakanyi. Akayiboni emva kwamagama kunye namanani afundiswayo. Ngoko ke, ukwenzela ukuba ungayiguquleli umntwana "kwi-encyclopedia engabonakaliyo", ngaphezu kweklasi kunye namakhadi, kubalulekile ukubonakalisa nokuxelela indlela ibukeka ngayo, yintoni eye yafundiswa, kwaye kwimeko yamanani, kuyafaneleka ukuba uqale ukufunda iipropati zokulinganisela zamanani ngokufana.

Khumbula ukuba uphuhliso lomntwana lufanele luvisisane. Yaye ukuba unquma ukuphakamisa indoda enkulu, umntu akanakuzikhawulela kumakhadi. Ukuba ngumzali ngumsebenzi omkhulu. Kodwa iziphumo zalo aziyi kugcina ulinde kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ziya kuba nethemba.