Indlela yokuzonwabisa nabaselula kwiqela lokuzalwa: iingcebiso eziwusizo
Ukuba unyana wakho okanye intombi engenakukwazi ukwenza isigqibo ngandlela-thile into abayifunayo, kodwa elambile into engavamile kwaye ayikhunjulwe ubomi, ungakhathazeki. Zama nje ukubamema ukuba baqwalasele ezi ngcamango ezilandelayo:
- Hlela i-party themed ekhaya. Ngokuxhomekeke kwinto yokuba umntu wokuzalwa kunye nabahlobo bakhe banomdla kuzo, banokugqoka njengamabhayisikobho avela kwi-movie "iTwilight", kwiinkwenkwezi zaseHollywood okanye ukulungiselela ukuhlanganisana okungaqhelekanga. Into eyona nto kukuba abantwana bayithande, kwaye ke i-hour-hour squeal kunye nokuhleka kunikezelwa kuwe. Ukuhlekisa kakhulu kukho iintlobo zemincintiswano yokuzalwa komntwana osemtsha, kubalwa njengento yokunyamezela nokunyamezela ngokomzimba, kunye nobuchule.
- Yiya kwipaki yamanzi, i-bowling okanye i-rink skating. Le yona khetho engcono, ukuba awunagqiba,
apho ukubhiyozela umhla wokuzalwa kwentsha, kwaye ixesha sele livele liphela. Umntwana uya kufumana iimvakalelo ezintle kumaninzi amakhulu emilayidi okanye ukukhuphisana nabontanga abaza kuwuphonsa ibhola ngaphezulu okanye bangawa ngexesha lokuhamba. Ukongezelela, kumaziko anjalo kukho phantse i-cafe apho unokuyalela khona isidlo sesidlo. - Hlela umbuzo. Ukuzalwa okunjalo kwentombazana kuya kuba yodwa: abathathi-nxaxheba baya kuziva ngathi babe ngabalingiswa bomsebenzi owaziwayo okanye ifilimu kwaye ngokuzithandela baya kuthatha ukukhangela ubuncwane okanye omnye umvuzo ngelixa beqeqesha ukucinga kwabo.