Okwangoku, umntwana oneminyaka ezisixhenxe ubudala usemncinci, kwaye ebomini bakhe, ngaphandle kokufunda, kufuneka ukuba kukho zonke iintlobo zeemidlalo kunye neentlobo. Abantwana kule minyaka banokuchitha yonke imini kwisitrato ukususela ekuseni ukuya kusihlwa, bedlala badlala kunye nabahlobo babo. Kodwa yintoni enokuyenza xa kubanda kakhulu ngaphandle okanye ithululela imvula? Kule nqaku siza kukuxelela into onokuyenza kumntwana oneminyaka eli-7 ekhaya, kuquka nawe, ukuze angaphoswa kwaye achithe ixesha kunye nenzuzo.
Kunokuhlala ezindlwini zenkwenkwe okanye intombazana engama-7?
Kukho iindlela eziliqela ezinokuthi uthathe ikhaya lomntwana iminyaka engama-8, umzekelo:
- Ngokumangalisayo, enye yeendlela ezilula ukufunda incwadi enomdla. Ngokuchasene neenkolelo ezithandwayo, abantwana abancinane banomdla wokufunda, into eyona nto kukufumana uncwadi olufanelekileyo. Ukongezelela, ukufunda kuveza ingqiqo, ukucinga, ingqiqo, ukuqonda, ukunyamezela nokunyamezela.
- Mema umntwana ndawonye ukwakha indlu encinci yezinto eziphuculweyo. Ukwenza oku, thabatha ibhokisi enkulu, umzekelo, ukusuka phantsi kweefowuni zasekhaya. Sika kuyo imingxuma emikhulu, emele umnyango kunye neefestile. Ngasentla unako ukumboza indlu ngengubo encinci, kwaye uyihlobise izindonga zayo nantoni na ngokuthanda kwaye upende ngeempumlo ezikhanyayo. Ngokwakha indawo efanayo, unokuchitha ixesha elithile,
kuba umntwana uya kuvuya ukuyidlala ngokuzimela. - Ukongezelela, abaneminyaka engama-7 ubudala banomdla wokuhlambalaza ngeentsimbi ezahlukeneyo. Nika umntwana iphephancwadi efundisayo eneempawu ezizodwa, kwaye uya kuvuya ukujongana nayo.
- Ekugqibeleni, unako ukunikela unyana wakho okanye intombi yakho ukuba enze isipho kuwe , umzekelo, ngosuku lokuzalwa kukagogo. Kule ndlela ungasebenzisa amapende, ipensela, iplastiki, inhlama ekhethekileyo yokwenza imodeli nokunye okuninzi. Ngoko akakwazi nje ukuhambisa iimvakalelo ezintle kumntu osondelene naye, kodwa nokuhlakulela amandla akhe okudala.