Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, ukufa kwabangela abantu abaninzi imibuzo kunye nomdla. Amangcwaba uthathwa njengendawo yomeleleyo yamandla, enobungozi obubi, ngoko abantu bamphatha ngokukhathazeka. Konke oku kuchaza ubukho beenkolelo ezahlukeneyo ezihambelana nale ndawo. Ngokomzekelo, baninzi abanomdla ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba batyelele emangcwabeni emva kwemini. Ukuqonda esi sihloko, kubalulekile ukubuyela emva emininzi kwiminyaka edlulileyo xa iinkolelo zaziba ngathi imithetho.
Ngaba ndingaya emangcwabeni emva kokutya?
Izibonakaliso zangexesha la mandulo zivela ngenxa yokugcinwa kwabantu, kodwa zibaluleke kakhulu kwaye zinezinto eziyimpumelelo, kunye neentlobo ezahlukeneyo zokucwasa. Yingakho kungekho nkcazo ecacileyo kunye nokuqinisekiswa kwangempela sokuba kutheni bangena emangcwabeni emva kokutya, kwaye omnye unokukwazi ukucinga ngokuthethelekileyo.
Ingqungquthela eqhelekileyo yoko kutheni abantu bangayi emangcwabeni abantu abafileyo badibene nenyaniso yokuba kusihlwa, imiphefumlo engaxhaswanga, kunye nemimoya embi eyahamba emangcwabeni kunye nomntu onokungafani neengxaki. Kwaye kunqabile uya kudibana nabantu abaza kuhamba ukuya kwindawo enjalo ebumnyameni.
Ukufumanisa ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba uye emangcwabeni emva kokudla, kubalulekile ukuphawula into enomdla, ngokubhekiselele kuyo ukuba kusetyenziswa iiyure eziyi-12 ukuya kweyesi-6 ukutshintshisana kwamandla angqongqeleko, ngenxa yoko abazingeli, ukunyuka kwamanqaku kweli xesha kumangcwaba kunqatshelwe. Ixesha apho ukutshintshwa kwamandla kukuncinci - ixesha ukusuka kwiiyure ezingama-6 ukuya kwe-12. Mhlawumbi, yingakho isahlulo sokuqala sosuku kuthathwa njengexesha elihle kakhulu lokuvakashela amangcwaba nezihlobo kunye nabahlobo.
Enye inkcazo ngezizathu zokuba ungeke uhambe emangcwabeni emva kokutya ngenxa yokuba imiphefumlo yeentsapho ezifayo zilindele ukutyelela kwisiqingatha sokuqala sosuku.
Ngokubanzi, umntu ngamnye unelungelo lokuthatha isigqibo ngokuzimeleyo nokuba ukholelwa kwiimpazamo okanye kungenjalo. Kukhona ingxabano engakholisa abantu abanenkolelo-xa indawo ikhethwe kumangcwaba, ingcwaliswa ngumbingeleli, ngoko, kwindawo yokungcwaba, zonke iingcwaba zihlanjululwe, kwaye ngeziganeko ezifanayo le nkqubo iphindaphindiwe. Yingakho amangcwaba angaqwalaselwa njengenye yeendawo ezikhuselekileyo ezivela kwimimoya emibi.