Iingcamango malunga nabathandekayo abathandekayo aziqhelekanga, ngakumbi ukukhathazeka ngendoda, ekubeni kubandakanywa kakhulu kulo mntu. Ukuba loo maphupha aqala ukukhathazeka emva kokuhlukana , mhlawumbi, awuzange uvumeleke ukuhamba kwimeko kwaye uhlale ucinga ngendoda. Ukuba ixesha sele lidlulileyo kwaye uzuze ulwalamano olutsha, la maphupha kufuneka acaciswe ngokuchanekileyo ukuze aqonde isizathu kunye nemiphumo yento oyibonile.
Yintoni umyeni owayengumyeni ophuphayo ngaye?
Iphupha liza kukuxelela ukuba kwixesha elizayo uza kufuneka ubhekane nexesha elidlulileyo, mhlawumbi, njengentlanganiso kunye nomyeni ongaphambili, kunye nokuhlangana kunye nabahlobo ongazibonanga ixesha elide. Ukuba uphupha ukuba iqabane elide lifuna ukubuyela kuwe kwakhona, oku kungabonakalisa inyaniso, mhlawumbi ukhangele intlanganiso. Ephupheni ubetha umlingane wangaphambili, mhlawumbi, phakathi kwakho kukho ukungavumelani, ngenxa yokuba kukho ukuphuka.
Iingqumbo zokulala ngesondo nomntu owayengumyeni, kodwa ungazivumi ukuzonwabisa, lo luhlobo lwesilumkiso sokuba ukukhawuleza kwakho kunokuba nefuthe elibi kulwalamano nabanye abantu. Ukuba ufuna ukumanga ephupheni, kodwa into eyenqatshelwe - yinto ebonisa ukuba empilweni yangempela ufihla iimvakalelo zakho, ezichaphazela kakubi nabanye abantu. Ubusiso buyenzeka - lindela iindwendwe ezintsha zothando, ezinokukhula zibe yinto enkulu.
Kubalulekile ukufumanisa ukuba kutheni indoda yangaphambili iphupha lokuphuza. Kule meko, ubuthongo bubonakalisa ukuziphatha kwakho. Ingcaciso yephupha ikhuthaza ukuba uqaphele, kuba unokonakalisa kakhulu igama lakho. Ukuba ubona umtshato womntu owayengumyeni, ngokokude ubomi bakho buza kutshintshwa ngokukhawuleza, kodwa incwadi yephupha ayibandakanyi ukuba ubudlelwane nabangaphambili bungaqalisa kwakhona. Enye iphupha liza kukuxelela ukuba uza kufezekisa lula umphumo oyifunayo, nangona oku kuya kuthatha ixesha elide.
Ephupheni, ubona umyeni owayesakuba ngumfazi omtsha-oku kuyisixwayiso sokuba ngeli nqanaba, umngcipheko wokuba ube yimeko ehlazo. Isitoliki sephupha sincoma ukuba ungenzi izinto ngokukhawuleza kwaye ucinge ngemiphumo. Ukufa kwendoda yangaphambili ngumqondiso wokuba kukufanele ukuhlaziya ubuhlobo kunye nomyeni wangaphambili, kodwa kwindlela entsha, umzekelo, unokuba ngabahlobo abalungileyo. Ukuba ubona iphupha apho uphinde uhambe phantsi kwe-aisle kunye nomlingani wangaphambili, lindele iingxaki ezinkulu, ama-scandals kunye nokwehluleka ebomini bakho. Iingcamango zephupha zincoma ukuba unomonde okwaneleyo ukunqoba zonke iintlungu. Iphupha apho indoda yangaphambili idlala igitala ithembisa ukungonakaliswa kwimpilo yakho.
Iphupha malunga nomyeni wangaphambili unokudibanisa ngqo kunye neqabane elitsha. Umzekelo, ukumomotheka kombono wangaphambili ubusuku kunokubonakalisa ubukho bokuthelekiswa kokuzibandakanya kunye neqabane elitsha naye. Iingubo zengqondo zicebisa ukuba uziqonde kwaye unye kunye nokuzo zonke ukuzithethile kwixesha elidlulileyo.
Ukusoloko uphupha ngomyeni ongaphambili, odibana naye, ngoko kusasa kukulindela ukulunga
Kutheni ngokuqhelekileyo indoda yangaphambili iphupha?
Ukulala kunokufanekisela into yokuba uqokelele ubuninzi bezoshishino ezingapheli kwaye oku akudingeki ukuba uthintele ebomini bakho. Iingcamango zephupha licebisa ukuba ungadluli kwaye uphumele yonke imicimbi yakho ekupheleni. Ukuba uhlala uphupha ukuba umyeni wangaphambili uyakuncenga, mhlawumbi, ngokwenene uziva unesizungu.