Abantu bachaza ukutolika kwamaphupha ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo: abanye bacinga ukuba buqhetseba, kanti abanye, ngokuchaseneyo, bakholelwa kwizibikezelo. Kukho nawuphi na, cacisa iphupha liyolonwabo kwaye lihle. Ukufumana ulwazi olunzulu, kufuneka uqale uhlalutye oko wakubonayo, ukuqwalasela zonke iinkcukacha kunye neemvakalelo eziye zenzeka.
Kutheni iinto ziwela ngaphandle kwegazi?
Ngokuqinisekileyo, amaphupha okulahleka kwezinyo awananto, kodwa ukuba inkqubo ingadlulanga ngaphandle kwegazi, ukuchazwa kuya kuba yinto encinci. Kwiimeko ezininzi, iphupha elinjalo libonisa uhlobo oluthile lokulahleka, umzekelo, lunokuchaphazela amandla, impilo kunye nabantu abasondeleyo. Ukulahlekelwa kwamazinyo ephupheni ngaphandle kwegazi kubonisa ukuzithemba ngokweqile, okwezinye iziganeko kuya kwiqhayiya. UDreambook uncoma kwikamva elikufutshane ukuba angagxothi ngaphezu kophahla, kuba kukho umngcipheko omkhulu wokungaphumeleli, ekugqibeleni uya kuwela zonke iindawo eziphakamileyo.
Ukuba inyolo yangaphambili liye laphupha ephupheni ngaphandle kwegazi, eli li-harbinger yezinye iintlungu ezinxulumene nezihlobo eziseduze. Kweminye yeencwadi zokuphupha kukho izibonakaliso ukuba isalathiso esinjalo siyimpawu zokufumana iindaba ezimbi kunye naluphi na ulwazi oluya kuphazamisa isimo sengqondo ixesha elide. Ubungakanani beengxaki luxhomekeke kwinani lamazinyo aphelile, oko kukuthi, ngaphezu kwazo, ngakumbi iimvavanyo zikulindele ngaphambili. Enye inyo i-harbinger yokufumana iindaba ezimbi. Ukuba onke amazinyo akho aphelile, kufuneka ulindele ukuqala kweqela elimnyama elichaphazela zonke iindawo zobomi.
Kukho olunye ulwazi, ngokubhekiselele ukuba ngaba amazinyo angaphambili alahlekile ephupheni ngaphandle kwegazi, ngoko, ngokuzayo, kulindeleke ukuba uhlukane nabantu abasondeleyo, okanye kunoko, ngabazalwana, odade okanye abazalwana. Kukho ukuchazwa kakuhle kwephupha, apho iphupha lalahlekelwa ngamazinyo, ngoko ukuba le nto yenzeka ngaphandle kwentlungu kwaye ingabonakali, ngoko sinokulindela ukufumana inzuzo enkulu. Kwabesetyhini abatshatileyo, lo mbono wobusuku uveza ukukhulelwa. Enye yeencwadi zokuphupha inikeza ukuchazwa kwakhe kokulala, apho amazinyo akhe awela khona, ngokubhekiselele kulowo mntu kulindeleke ukuba abe nolonwabo kunye neminyaka emininzi yobomi. Ukuba ufanele ulahlekelwe ngamazinyo akho ephupheni ngaphandle kwegazi, ngoko unokuthembela ukuba uya kuba nako ukulahla abantu okanye izinto eziye zenza ivakalelo lexesha elide.
Kubantu abanobudlelwane, iphupha apho bafanele balahlekelwe ngamazinyo yi-harbinger yokuhlukana. Nangona iphupha elinjalo lingaxela ukuphuka kobudlelwane nomhlobo osondeleyo. Ukubona ephupheni ukuba inyosi yaphuma ngaphandle kwegazi, ngoko, ngokwenene, kukho umngcipheko wokulahlekelwa intlonipho kunye nabantu abasondeleyo. Ezinye iincwadi eziphuphayo ziyavuma ukuba amaphupha okulahlekelwa ngamazinyo ngaphandle kwentlungu isilumkiso esicacileyo malunga noshintsho olukhulu ebomini olunokuba nolunye uhlobo olulungileyo nolungalungileyo, umzekelo, lunokuba
Umbono ebusuku, apho inyolo egulayo, eyayikhupha, iyisimboli esilungileyo esithembisa ukusombulula iingxaki ezikhoyo kunye nokuphelisa iingcamango ezimbi. Ukuba iqhinga liphukile, ke lixesha lokuthatha ikhefu kwaye uphumule ukubuyisela amandla. Xa ukulahlekelwa kwamazinyo kwenzeke ngenxa yokushayiswa kwesibalo kukubonisa ukuba umphuphi ukhokela indlela yokuphila engalunganga kwaye lixesha lokuphinda acinge ngemibono yakhe kwimicimbi. Ukuba amazinyo akhutshwa ngaphandle, ke kukho umngcipheko wokulahlekelwa isihlobo esiseduze.