Ndiyakhumbula umhla wokuzalwa kwam-14, xa mna kunye noba kunye nathi siya e salon ukuze ndibethe iindlebe zam. Oku kwakuyimi, mhlawumbi, yokuqala yokuqala, ithathe isigqibo! Kodwa xa ndandinentombi (kakuhle, uyayiqonda umntwana wokuqala - idlonda yokugqibela), ndandicinga ngokukhawuleza malunga nexesha elibhetele ngayo ukwenza le nkqubo, kwaye ngokubanzi, ngaba abantwana banokubetha indlebe zabo? Kulo mbuzo, mna, njengomama wanamhlanje, ndize ngenyameko kwaye ngamabomu.
Ndiyakubetha nini iindlebe zomntwana?
Ukhangeleke kakhulu kwaye ukhangele ngokunyanisekileyo iintsana kwimigqomo kunye neentlobo ezindlebeni zazo. Kwaye, mna, kuqala ndavutha ukuze ndinike indodakazi yam iminyaka yamacici ubudala, kodwa yatshintsha ingqondo yakhe. Enyanisweni, xa kunokwenzeka ukubetha indlebe zomntwana ngesibhamu ngokuzenzekelayo kungekho ntlungu kunye nesandi, isilingo sikhulu. Kodwa asikho isidingo sokukhawuleza, kuba abayi kuzisa nayiphi na indlebe-entle-makhonkco kwiimvuthu (ezingenakutsholwa ngabazali babo). Ukongezelela, umntwana omncinane ufunda umzimba wakhe rhoqo kwaye unokwenzeka ukuba uya kuzama ukususa amacici aphezulu ngokwaneleyo. Kukho elinye ilanga elingaphantsi kwamanzi: emva kweminyaka, kunokuthi iip punctures ayilinganisani.
Ngoko xa ukhetha iminyaka efanelekileyo, xa kukulungele ukubetha iindlebe zomntwana, gxininisa kwimimiselo emibini yombuzo: ngokwengqondo nangokwenyama. Ukufikelela kwiminyaka emine nesiqingatha, abantwana abayikhumbuli intlungu kunye neengqondo zengqondo bathi kunokwenzeka ukubetha indlebe zomntwana ngaphandle kwengozi yokugula ngengqondo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukugqiba ukuba ungaphila iindlebe zomntwana, cinga malunga nokuba ngubani lo myalelo kufuneka ube nonke (ndinezihlobo ezininzi kwaye ndingafuni ukubetha indlebe zam, ukucinga ukuba zingabonakaliyo). Ukuba usenokugqiba ukubetha ebusheni, cela abahlobo bakho ngoomama apho kungcono ukubetha iindlebe zomntwana. Yiya kwi-hairdresser elisondeleyo ayikufanelekanga, musa ukuvila ukufumana i-salon kwisixeko esinomntu owaziwayo, uye "ukukhangela" kumphathi kwaye uqinisekise ukuba unobungqina benkqubo yokuphamba. Ngaphambi kwenkqubo, cela ukuba luhlobo luni lompompo oluya kusetyenziswa (ubunzima beedaliti kunye nokukhwaza kwengxolo), ngoko uya kulungiselela umntwana kwaye ugweme ukwesaba.
Oomama abaninzi banesaba ukubetha indlebe ngenxa yezinto ezininzi ezibizwa ngokuba yi-reflexogenic points. Kodwa akusiyo nto into esiyibetha ngayo i-earbe yeendlebe: iingongoma zikhona kwinani elincinci, kwaye nangona xa sitshitshisiwe, "sibaguqula". Ngoko le ngcamango ingaya kwi-salon nanamhlanje.
Ngelixesha elingcono kukubetha iindlebe zomntwana?
Ukongeza kwi-salon enhle kunye nenkosi, kufuneka ucinge ngexesha apho inkqubo iya kwenziwa. Ebusika kunye nehlobo, kungcono ukulondoloza i-"sipho" esinjalo, ebusika isilonda sizakonzakala ngentsimbi, ehlotyeni, ithuba lokusuleleka ngenxa yokushisa liphezulu. Gcina umntwana: ungakhangeli amazinyo, ungakhathazeki ngezinye iingxaki. Xhumana nogqirha wasekuhlaleni, kunokwenzeka kwindlela yokugonywa rhoqo. Ngaloo ndlela, kuya kuba lula ukulandelela imbangela yengxaki yomntwana kunye nokuxhalaba, kwaye ngokungathathi nangoko kuthatha amanyathelo okuwaphelisa. Ukukhetha ukuba yiyiphi imini ukubetha iindlebe, qaphela ukuba kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezilandelayo isingqimba sesiganeko sokuphila kweemvumba asitshintshi (ukuhamba okunokwenzeka okanye imisebenzi ehambelana nezinguqu kwiimvakalelo), kuba indlebe iya kugula kwaye ekhaya kwaye kwimeko eqhelekileyo kulula ukukhohlisa umntwana kwaye ukutshintsha ingqalelo.
Ngendlela, ukuba ungumama wenkwenkwe, ungalindelanga ukuba imibuzo enjalo ayinakukukhathalela. Abafana abancinci (kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ngaphezulu) kunamantombazana abathanda ukuxelisa izithixo zabo. Ewe, ukubetha iindlebe zendodana, akufani neentombi, kwaye abantu abaninzi bayabazaza (kwaye abantu baya kuthetha ntoni, bazakwenza njani). Kodwa ingxaki ingabalulekanga. Njengomthetho, kungowona nje ukukhwela kwisihlwele, ukuba ube njengezithixo zakho, mhlawumbi nokuba ngumvuzo kwifashoni, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo esikolweni abafana bayabakhupha, ukuphulukana nokuphilisa kwaye loo nto iphelile. Mamela ngokucophelela iingxabano zendodana, uze wenze isigqibo sokuba uqhubeke njani, mhlawumbi uya kufumana indlela efanelekileyo yokunelisa umnqweno wakhe (inwele entle ezithandekayo okanye i-backpack).
Unokunyamekela njani iindlebe ezigqithisiweyo?
Ngona i-salon eyona nto ayinakuqinisekisa ukuba uyaphulukiswa, kodwa ukunyamekela iindlebe ezigqithisiweyo, kwaye nangakumbi kubantwana, kuyimfuneko ngokunyamekela nangokucokisekileyo. Ukusoloko uphatha i-anti-antiseptics, ezingcono ezingenalo utshwala (hydrogen peroxide, chlorhexidine). Zama ukuqokelela iinwele eziphezulu, ugweme amanzi okubhukuda, uhambo oluya olwandle lungcono ixesha elithile ukuba lihlehlise. Iimvalo iintsuku zokuqala neyesigamu asinakususwa nonke, kodwa rhoqo ukupheqa nokuhamba kuzo kuyimfuneko. Xa ugqiba ukutshintsha amacici ezonyango kunye nezisigxina, yenze ngokukhawuleza, kuphela ngezandla ezicocekileyo kwaye uphathwe ngotywala kunye namacici, kunye nesayithi lokuqhawula.