Ingcamango yesipho somhlobo kufuneka ibe yintsusa, engavamile kwaye imangalisa yona. Ubuninzi bexesha lentombazana lifana nesinyathelo kwixesha elitsha lobomi. Bayiqonda loo mini ngokuxhalabele kwaye kakhulu. Into ephambili kulolu suku yinkxaso yabathandekayo, ubuso obonwabileyo kubahlobo kunye nokuhleka kwabantu abasondeleyo.
Isipho kwiintombi kumntu omdala akufanele kube yinto emangalisayo kuphela, kodwa ikhunjulwe. Kumele ligcinwe kwaye likhunjulwe ngalo mhla ixesha elide. Mhlawumbi akuyi kuba yinto ebonakalayo, kodwa inomdla kakhulu. Kwaye kuya kukhunjulwa okubonakalayo kwiminyaka eyi-18.
Yintoni engafanelekanga ukuyinikela?
Ukukhetha umhlobo iminyaka engama-18, kulungile ukulahla ngokukhawuleza imemori, i-banal postcards, imvulophu ngemali , umdlali. Kwakhona, ungacingi ukuba intombi yakho iya kuthanda ukubhalisa kwi-gym okanye i-massage. Nangona ucinga ukuba ufuna enye into ekulungele ukubonakala kwayo, akufanele uyenze ngokunyanisekileyo ngosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa. Kungcono ukwenza oku kamva, ukubhala, umzekelo, kunye naye ehholo.
Musa ukunyanzeliswa ngamandla ngeengcamango zaseNtshona, xa umntu omdala ehlelwe ukuba ngumntu omdala. Intombi yakho inokuthi ingabi nemvakalelo, ayiyi kufuna ukushiya indlu kwaye ingasabela ngokungahambi kakuhle.
Khetha isipho sokuzonwabisa
Ewe, ukuba sele ube ngumhlobo nomntu, ngoko kufuneka ukwazi izinto ezithandwayo, izinto ezithandwayo kunye nezinto ezithandayo. Kwakhona, ukukhetha isipho somfana oneminyaka eyi-18 ubudala, kuyafaneleka ukuqwalasela umlingana wentombazana yokuzalwa. Ukummangalisa kwaye wenze usuku lwakho lokuzalwa lube luhle kakhulu, lufanelekile ukunikela ingqalelo ngokukhethekileyo kwisipho esiya kuhlangabezana nomlingiswa wentombazana.
Ukuba uyakuthanda kakhulu, ke ucinge ngebhola ebhalini, ukuxhuma kwibhulorho (ukugquma-ukukhwela) okanye ukuqhuba umqhubi kwimoto yanamhlanje. Ingcamango enomdla kwisipho isenokubhabha kwi-tunnel yomoya. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ususe kwaye ukhumbule kwikhamera emva kweminyaka emininzi, njengokuba ulutsha luya kumnandi.
Ukuba intombi yakho ikhetha ukuphila okuzolile kunye nokulinganiswa kokuphila, ke ukhethe izinto ezizolile, eziqhelekileyo, kodwa ezingaqhelekanga. Ukukhwela kwehashe, ukubhalisa kwi-salon eyabizayo yokusilalisa, ukunqumla izinwele okanye enye inqubo enokumnceda (mhlawumbi yena ngokwakhe wakuxelele ngale nto, khumbula).
Isipho esipheleleyo kumhlobo othanda ukufunda siqinisekiso sokuthenga inani elithile leencwadi kwivenkile enkulu. Okanye, ukuba uyayazi kakuhle into engenazo kwiqoqo, unokuthenga ikopi yakho. Mhlawumbi kuya kuba ngumqulu onqabile we-encyclopedia okanye umphenyi osanda kutshilwa ngumlobi wakhe ozithandayo.
Lowo othanda umculo angakwazi ukuthenga isixhobo esibiza kakhulu apho adlala kuyo, ukuhlawula izifundo ezimbalwa zokufunda ukucula okanye ukudlala ithuluzi eliyintandokazi (ukuba intombazana eninzi iphupha malunga nayo, kodwa ayikwazi ukugqiba isigqibo).
Kwimeko apho umhlobo wakho, obhiyozela umntu omdala, uyakuthanda ukudansa, ke unike isigqebhezana kwiklasi yeklasi kwimidaniso yangoku.
Iingcamango ezinomdla zesithandwa isipho singazifihla kwivenkile zeefashthi. Kuya kuba lula kuwe ukuba ukhethe umnikelo wokwenene we-fashionista. Namhlanje, iivenkile ezininzi zinika izatifikethi somlinganiselo othile, okuvumela ukuba uthenge into oyithandayo kwi-boutique. Unokwenza okufanayo kunye namafutha kunye nezimonyo. Isingeniso sesipho sokuqala singaba ngolu hlobo lulandelayo: uthenge isikhwama, kwaye kuyo ukubeka amakhadi ambalwa kwiivenkile.
Into ebalulekileyo kwiminyaka eyi-18 kukumangalisa intombi, nceda ujabule. Ukuba isipho sikhethwa ngomphefumlo kwaye siqwalasela iimfuno zentombazana yokuzalwa, uya kufumana i-100% kwinqanaba.