Isipho somthandi woNyaka omtsha

Unyaka omtsha uyiholide ekhanyayo neyobubele, apho ufuna ukukholisa umthandayo wakho ngengqalelo yakho, uchazwe ngesipho. Nangona kunjalo, kuthekani ukuba naye unomfazi, ukuba anike izipho kumthandi kule ngxaki? Emva koko, ukuba unika into efanelekileyo, unokwenza umonakalo umntu, kodwa akukho nto iya kunikwa nantoni na. Kufuneka ukuba unikele yonke into ukwenzela ukuba okwangoku ngokufanayo ibe yintliziyo ethandekayo, kwaye ingathathi hlangothi ukusuka kwimbono yabalingane.

Izipho zesipho somthandi otshatileyo, okufuneka uwakhumbule

Umntu otshatileyo malunga naziphi na izinto zakhe ezintsha kufuneka akwazi ukusho "owenziwe emsebenzini" okanye "ovela kumhlobo". Ngokusekelwe kulo, umthandi woNyaka ontsha unokunikezelwa njengesipho into eyimfuneko kunye nengqiqo. Umzekelo, i-DVR kwimoto, isikhwama, incwadi, izixhobo zeekhomputha, idayari , isikhala, ikhalenda, isethi yamapenki amahle. Uluhlu lunokuqhubeka ngonaphakade. Kwaye akunandaba ukuba konke oku kukhangela kuqala kubonakala kungabonakali, kodwa umthandayo uya kukhumbuza ngawe, esebenzisa ezi zinto imihla ngemihla.

Kodwa isipho esinqwenelekayo nesisisiseko sokuthanda umNyaka omtsha ngumhlangano wothando nomdla. Into ephambili akuyi kukulibala malunga neendwendwe ezintle, kwaye akufuneki ukuba ufune ukuchitha ubusuku kunye naye, kuba le nqwenela ayikwazi ukuzalisekisa ekuqaleni. Ngoko ke, musa ukuzilimaza kunye nomoya womntu, kungcono ukuyichitha kakuhle kunye ngempumelelo kunye nomnyaka omdala.

Yintoni enokuyinika umthandi, ongekho mbopheleleko kuye?

Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba uthando lwengqondo alukude nokudlala ngothando kwaye akuthethi ukuba nobudlelwane obunzulu. Ukuba kunjalo, ukucinga ngesiphakamiso esikhulu, isipho esibi kakhulu sisisidenge kwaye asifanelekanga. Nangona kusenokwenzeka ukukholisa indoda, ngokulungiselela isipho esincinane, kunoko isimboli. Ngokomzekelo, Isipho esihle kakhulu somthandi sinokuba ibhotile yesiselo esinxilisayo (i-rum, i-whiskey, i-tequila), amadoda afana nokuba nebar efanelekileyo ekhaya. Kwakhona i-mood iya kuphakanyiswa ngombala omhle, obizayo, ocoliweyo wekhofi. Ukuba umntu utshaya, unokumnika uNyaka omtsha isethi yeeksiyi, iteksi yehaokah kunye nezinto ezinjalo.

Ukucinga ngomthandi otshatileyo, kufuneka akhumbule ukuba umthunzi womfazi uya kuhlala emlandela. Ngoko ke, ukuba akukho mnqweno wokumlimaza, kodwa, ngokuchaseneyo, ndifuna ukukholisa iholide, kubalulekile ukuba ukhethe isipho esingaze senze nayiphi na insolo. Ngokuqhelekileyo ezi zinto zilula, izinto zansuku zonke, kodwa, ziyakwazi ukuzisa uvuyo lokukhumbula kwakho yonke imihla.