Ubhaptizo lomntwana - kufuneka uwazi ntoni?

Ukuba ukholelwa kuThixo, mhlawumbi uyazi ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani umntwana ukuba abe nengelosi yakhe yokugcina kwaye abe phantsi kolawulo lwamagunya aphezulu. Kule nto, i-crumb ezalwe imele ifakwe ngokukhawuleza kunokwenzeka kwisifubeni secawa, kodwa ukuba yenze ngokuvumelana ne-canon. Khawuqwalasele oko kufuneka ukwazi ngokubhaptizwa komntwana ukuze uqhube lo mcimbi ngokuchanekileyo.

Iibakala ezibalulekileyo malunga nokubhaptizwa

Ukufezekisa umntwana kwikolo yamaOthodox ngumcimbi ovuyisayo kwaye obalulekileyo ebomini kwintsapho nganye. Ngaphambi kokuya ecaweni, qiniseka ukuba ufunda ulwazi olulandelayo ngokubhaptizwa:

1. Ukuba usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa aluva kakuhle, kufuneka abhaptizwe kwiintsuku zokuqala zokuphila: oku kuya kunceda ukuqinisa impilo yakhe. Xa kulungile umntwana, kungcono ukubala iintsuku ezingama-40 ukususela ngomhla wokuzalwa. Ngokutsho kweBhayibhile, ngeli xesha kuya kuba nokuhlanjululwa komama kwaye uya kuba nako ukuya kwixesha lokuzilungiselela. Abanye abazali banqwenela ukulinda de kube umntwana eqina, aze abhaptizwe xa ejika unyaka okanye amabini. Nangona kunjalo, khumbula ukuba umntwana okhulile angaba noluncedo, kuba umthendeleko uhlala malunga neyure, kwaye kunzima nakakhulu ukudibanisa kwifolda.
2. Ulwazi malunga nomhla walo myalelo ongcwele yiloo nto kufuneka ukuba wazi ngaphambi kokubhaptiza umntwana. Ngaye ungavuma malunga naluphi na usuku kunye nexesha, nakwieholide ezifana nePasika okanye iThathu Emithathu.
3. Ngokukodwa ngokucokisekileyo kuyimfuneko ukujongana nomcimbi wokukhetha oothixo. Akufanele nje ukuba basondele emoyeni, kodwa banokholo lokwenene kuThixo, ukuba babekhokelo lomoya kuThixo. Kuba umntwana kuyimfuneko ukuba abe nesigxina sesini esifanayo kunye naye: ngenxa yenkwenkwana - indoda, kunye nentombazana - ummeli wesini esilungileyo. Ngokukhethekileyo, kunjalo, ukuba kunokwenzeka ukhethe zombini kunye ne-kum. Oko okufuneka ukwazi xa ubhaptiza umntwana kunye no-godfather, bathetha ngokugqithiseleyo ngumfundisi. Ngako oko, abazali bokomoya bokamva baya kubakho kwingxoxo ethempelini, apho baya kuxelelwa khona ngeenkcukacha zabo ngemisebenzi yabo yesikhathi esizayo, iSidlo seNkosi, iVangeli, njl. Akunakho oothixo abanokuba ngabafazi, abantu abanengqondo engaqinisekiyo, abangakholelwa kuThixo, aboni (izidakwa, izilwanyana ezidakisayo, njl njl. .).

Iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo malunga nokubhaptizwa

Ngaphambi kokucwangcisa uhlanga, kubalulekile ukuba ucinge oko kufuneka ukwazi ngokubhaptizwa komntwana. Ukuze yonke into eyenziwe ngokwale migaqo, kufuneka:

1. Ukuthenga i- kryzhmu (lo msebenzi unikwe u-godfather), umxokelelwano kunye nomnqamlezo (kukholelwa ukuba bathengwa ngu-godfather) kunye nekhati yokubhaptizwa okanye i-suit.
2. Yenza umnikelo wokubhaptizwa. Akuvumelekanga, kodwa kufuneka uqonde ukuba icawa yintlangano engenzi nzuzo kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo umthwalo weendleko zokulondoloza itempile uwela kumahlombe ebandla. Kodwa ukuba awufuni ukuhlawula, awukwazi ukunqanda ukwenza isakramente. Ukuba ujongene nemeko enjalo, qha ga mshelana - umbingeleli, ogcina umyalelo kwiparadesi.
3. Ngaphambi kokuya ecaweni, qiniseka ukuba uyazi yonke into oyifunayo ukwazi xa ubhaptiza umntwana kubazali. Ukugqoka ngoku ngokufanelekileyo: amabhinqa eengubo ezinde, amaqabunga agubungela amahlombe, okanye iingubo ezide, amadoda eempuphu ezinde. Akuvumelekanga ukwenza isithethe ngexesha leenyanga zomama okanye unina. Qiniseka ukuba wonke umntu unomnqamlezo. Ukuba unomdla kwimithandazo oyifunayo xa ubhaptiza umntwana, ungakhathazeki: yiSimbolo Sokholo. Amagama akhe oothixo mabafunde ngaphambi kokusebenza kweSakramente.

Ngoku kunokwenzeka ukufotela okanye ukudubula ividiyo kwicawa ezininzi kwiimeko ezininzi, kodwa abanye oobawo abathandi, ngoko jonga kwangaphambili.