Abazali bahlala bexhalabele ukuba umntwana wabo ukhula ngokuqhelekileyo. Xa umntwana engenalo ukukhula okuhlukeneyo kunye nokulinganisa ubunzima beetafile ezichazwe ngamatafula ahlukeneyo, oomama baqala ukwesaba, baye kubantwabantwana abaneembuzo malunga nokuba kutheni umntwana ngokungahambiyo okanye ngokuchasene nokuzuza ubunzima, ngokukhawuleza okanye ngokukhawuleza uyongezelela ukukhula.
Imigangatho: imfundiso okanye impawu?
Into ephambili ekufuneka ikhunjulwe ngabazali abachaphazelekayo yinto yokuzalwa. Ukuba utata ude, ubaleke, ugxininise, ngoko ukuphakama nokulingana komntwana kwiminyaka emi-2 kunokugqithisa kakhulu imigangatho ebekwe ngabadokotela bezilwanyana. Yaye isondo somntwana wakho kulo mbandela asinandaba. Enye into ukuba ezi mpazamo zibalulekile, kodwa akukho zizathu ezibonakalayo. Kule meko, ugqirha kufuneka aqonde.
Kukho imimiselo enemiqathango evumela ukuba uqikelele ubunzima bomntwana. Ngenxa yoko, ubudala bomntwana kwiminyaka kufuneka bwandiswe ngamabini kwaye bongezelelwe ezisibhozo. Ngokomzekelo, umgangatho wesisindo kwiminyaka emi-2 ngeli fom i-12 kilogram (2x2 + 8). Uluhlu lwezilwanyana zasekhaya lwasekhaya luchazwe ngale ndlela:
- ubunzima benkwenkwe kwiminyaka emi-2 buyahlukahluka ukusuka kwi-11 ukuya kuma-14,5 kilogram;
- ubunzima beentombazana kwiminyaka emi-2 - ukusuka kwi-10.8 ukuya kwi-14 kilogram.
Ubude buhluka phakathi kwama-83.5-93 ngamasentimitha kubafana kunye no-84-90.4 amasentimitha amantombazana. Iingcali ze-WHO zandisa le mijelo ngenye indlela. Ngoko, ubunzima obuqhelekileyo bomntwana kwiminyaka emi-2 bunokuhluka ukusuka ku-9.7 ukuya ku-15.3 kilogram kumakhwenkwe kunye no-9 ukuya kuma-14.8 kilogram yamantombazana (ukukhula kwama-81.7-93.9 kunye no-80-92.9, ngokulandelanayo).
Kucacile ukuba, ukuba ukuhlawula kwakho kuzo zonke iiparamitha kufanelwa kwisakhelo esichazwe apha ngasentla, akukho nto ebangela i-alarm. Kuthekani ukuba umntwana akafumani ubunzima besisindo okanye akafumani isisindo ngaphandle, ekhula ngokukhawuleza?
Iimbangela zokufumana ubunzima obuphantsi kunye nokukhula okubi
Ngokuqhelekileyo kukholelwa ukuba umntwana oneminyaka emibili okanye emithathu ubudala kufuneka abe yinto enhle. Izilonda ezibonakalayo, iiplamu kunye ne-skladochki kwimilenze zihlala zibangela uthando kwabanye. Yingakho ukungabikho "kokuxhamla" kukukhathazeka ngamama.
Ukuba iimpendulo zakho azihambelani nemigaqo eqhelekileyo, indlela umntwana kufuneka ayenze ngayo, ahlolisise ukutya kwakhe. Ukunceliswa kwesisu kunokuthi kungagcwalisi ubisi, ukuba unina uzama ukulahlekelwa isisindo emva kokubeleka kwaye ahlale kwiidlo eziqinileyo. Ngaphambi nangemva kokusondeza okulandelayo, umntwana kufuneka alinganiswe ukuqonda ukuba wayesela kangakanani ubisi. Ezi rekhodi kufuneka ziboniswe konyango lwabantwana. Mhlawumbi umntwana uya kufuna ukuqaliswa kokutya okudibeneyo kunye nefomily complementary formula. Ngendlela, abenzi bezobugcisa batya inani eliphakanyisiweyo lomxube banokungondleki. Ukuba umntwana unesidambiso sokukhawuleza, ngoko-ke isondlo singanyuswa.
Isizathu sesibini sokunciphisa umntwana ongaphantsi kweminyaka emi-2 sinokuzalwa, okukhankanywe ngasentla. Umntwana ongeyena unobungozi, uyabetha, agule? Emva koko akukho sizathu sokukhathazeka kwabazali!
Nangona abantwana abancinci abakhange bafumane ixesha lokuba baqhelane nalo lonke umdlalo wezinto zokutya, basuke benesithakazelo sabo kunye nama-antipathies. Omnye i-karapuz uyayithanda imifuno yemifuno, kwaye enye ikwenzela ukuzama. Udidi kunye nokukhawuleza apha
Inyaniso enomdla: i-calorie enjalo kwaye ayinakuncedo kubantwana bashukela empeleni kubangele ukuxutywa kwezinto eziwusizo emzimbeni, kunye namafutha, okuvela kuwo umama ukusindisa iintsana, kuyimfuneko.
Phakathi kwezona zizathu eziphambili zokuba ngaphantsi komzimba, kunokukho ukuhamba okuphezulu. Abantwana abanjalo abanako ukuhlala kwindawo enye ixesha elide, bahlala behamba, ngoko ke iikhalori zidla ngokukhawuleza.
Nangona kunjalo, kwiimeko apho ubunzima buye baqashwa ngokukhawuleza, kuyimfuneko ukuba nxamnye nxamnye nogqirha, kuba ezinye izifo zingazibonakalisa ngokwazo (isifo se-celiac, i-cystic fibrosis, i-helminthiasis).