Ukugubungela - iindlela, ubuchule, ubuchule kunye neengxaki

Amaqabane ahlala esetyenziselwa imidlalo esondeleyo yamanje, phawula ukuba ukugqithisa kunokuba luhlobo oluhle kakhulu lwesini, into ephambili kukulandela imithetho ethile. Isimo sengqondo esithintekayo sinobuninzi kunye nesisimo sengqondo sithintela umdla wabantu kwizo zesini, kodwa ukuba unqotshwa, umntu unokufumana unonwabo oluninzi kunye novakalelo olutsha.

Yintoni ekutsaleni?

Ukuxhaphaza ngesondo kunye noncedo lwe dildo, kwinqanaba leklasi lithetha isixhobo esinesiseko seplates-strapon. Eli bhinqa lingena kumntu, olu hlobo lwesini eselungileyo luzuze udumo, ngenxa yeDan Savage, owamemezela umncintiswano kwikholam yakhe Uthando lwe-Savage ngo-2001 kwisihloko salo mkhuba omtsha. Kwakhona kuthiwa "ukuguqa, intombi," ngegama levidiyo. Olu hlobo lwemidlalo yothando ludinga indlela enengqiqo kumlingane kunye nokukwazi ukusebenzisa ngokufanelekileyo izixhobo.

Ukukhawuleza - i-pros and cons

Njengawo nawuphi na uhlobo lwesini lesandulela ngesondo, ukugubungela kunobungozi kunye nobutyebi. Into ephambili xa usenza isigqibo: ukuzama olu hlobo lwesini okanye kungenjalo, ulinganise zonke iingxaki kunye neengxaki, ukuze kungabikho ukuphoxeka okanye iingxaki zobomi zesondo. Kubalulekile ukukhetha amathoyizi afanelekileyo kumdlalo wothando, ngokuqhelekileyo umfanisi ongeyiphutha okanye ukuziphatha okungafanelekanga kwamaqabane kubangelwa iimeko ezimbi. Ukuze ube nesilwanyana esifanelekileyo, kuyafuneka kwakhona ukuba ube nomonde.

Imiba emihle yokupakisha:

• ithuba lokutshintsha iimbopheleleko kwingqesho;
• ithuba lokuhlola ubulili bakho;
• ukufumana uvakalelo olutsha;
• ukukhushulwa kwemimandla engafanelekanga;
• ukufumana amava amatsha.

Imiba engathandekiyo yokupakisha (kunye neyeza ezingenayo):

• ukuvuvukala kwe-sphincter;
• umonakalo kwi-rectum;
• ukungabikho kwe-stool okanye iigesi;
• fissures;
• buhlungu.

Ukuqala

Ukubanjwa kwexesha lokuqala kukudlala indima ebaluleke kakhulu, kuba iimvakalelo ezimbi zingasondla ngonaphakade isibini sabantu besini. Amaqabane athile axhaphazela ukuba into ephambili kukuba ukhethe i-strapon efanelekileyo. Ukuqhawula abaqalayo banikeza iingcebiso ezimbalwa:

1. Ngethuba lokuqala, kulunge ukuthenga intambo yomtya, ikhuselekile ngokuqinisekileyo kwinqeni lomlingani kwaye ikuvumela ukuba ulawulwe ngokupheleleyo kwinkqubo.
2. Iziqulatho ezifanelekileyo kakhulu - kwi-silicone okanye kwesikhumba se-cyber, zithatha nayiphi na igrisi . Imveliso esuka kwiglasi ukuthenga ngokukhawuleza kwingozi, ngenxa yokungazi kakuhle, kulula ukulimala.
3. Ubungakanani be-strapon lungcono ukukhetha umgangatho oqhelekileyo, kubaqalayo isixhobo asikho ngaphezu kweesentimitha eziyi-14 ubude kwaye ubude bufike kumitha angama-4 ububanzi.
4. Xa uthenga i-dildo, kukufanelekile ukunikela ingqalelo kwiinkcukacha ezongezelelweyo zezinye izinamathiselo. Xa lo mbini ufumana amava, unokuzama nokugqithisa kakhulu.

Indlela yokuziqhelanisa?

Ukukhawula: iindlela, ubuchule. Izenzo ziye zavelisa iimeko ezimbalwa ezihamba phambili, apho kungcono ukuqala amatsha:

1. Isitayela sezinja . Le ndoda ikuzo zonke ezine.
2. Emile . Umlingane ugoba phambili, unako ukuncedisa i-masturbation.
3. Jongana . Le ndoda ilele emhlane wakhe, imilenze yakhe inotshitshiweyo esifubeni sayo.

Iingcebiso ezimbalwa ezongezelelweyo:

1. Sebenzisa ngokuqhelekileyo i-lubricant.
2. Qinisekisa ubunzulu kunye nesigqi esilungeleyo iqabane.
3. Kungcono ukuxubusha kusengaphambili ukuba yeyiphi indawo engcono ukuqala, kwaye ngaphandle kokuba kungcono ukwenza ngaphandle.
4. Hlanganisa inkqubo kunye ne-caresses enobubele.
5. Ungesabi ukusebenzisa ezinye izesekeli, ziya kukunceda ukujikela kwi-spectator.
6. Ukugcina ucoceko. I-Strapon hlamba ngaphambi nangemva kwesenzo ngamanzi ashushu kunye nesepha. Ukuze uphephe iingxaki ngamathumbu omlingane, kungcono ukwenza i-enema kusengaphambili.

Iifilimu malunga nokucima

Amava abalulekayo anikezwa kuphela ngeencwadi, kodwa nakwabhanya-moya, ngesihloko sesini lesandulela ngculazi, ezi zilandelayo zikhanyiswa kakuhle kwaye zikhawuleza. Ngoko ke, amaqabane abanobuchule acebisa abaqalayo ukuba baqhelane neefilimu ezininzi. Abafaki be-pegging baya kufumana kubo ubuninzi bexabiso kumava abo okuqala. Iimvumi ezithandwa kakhulu kule ngqungquthela:

1. "Bhinqa phezu, ntombi . " Isakhiwo sezemfundo, esiqhelana neziganeko zeli qhinga.
2. "Ukunyathela i-101" . Ifilimu ivela kumlawuli uJeffrey Warren, odibanisa izinto zemfundo kunye neengcamango zobugcisa.