Icandelo lobugcisa lombuzo, indlela umntu angalahlekelwa ngayo ubuntombi, ukungathandabuzeki, kufuneka acinge, akenzi mntu, kodwa kukho ukwesaba okukhulu okunxulumene nenkqubo. Oku ukwesaba intlungu, nokwesaba ngokungazi kakuhle kwakhe, kunye nokunye okuninzi. Ngokomzekelo, abaninzi banamahloni ngenxa yokuba banqatshelwe ubuntombi babo, becinga ukuba sele bephuzile. Oku mhlawumbi yintlupheko yenzatha - xa ukuqala ubomi babo ngokwesini ngumcimbi wabantu bonke, kwaye uluvo loluntu aluhlangani nento.
Kungcono njani ukulahlekelwa ubuntombi bakho?
Okokuqala, siza kuqonda oko kudla ngokubhekisela kumbuzo wendlela engcono ngayo yokulahlekelwa ubuntombi. Kubonakala ukuba asikhulumi ngophandle kombambano, indawo yothando kunye nezinye iimpawu, ezifana neepalesi zama-rose kunye namakhandlela. Kungenzeka ukuba kuqondwa ukuba ulahlekelwe ubuntombi ngokukhawuleza kwaye kungekho ntlungu kunye negazi. Nangona isantya asikwazi ukuqikelelwa, akusikho konke oku kwenzeka emva kokuqhagamshelana kokuqala ngokwesondo. Kodwa kwintlungu, ubuncinci, ukusuka kwomeleleyo, ungasindisa.
Ngoko, into yokuqala okumele uyenze ukuyeka ukuzityhafisa ngokucinga malunga nokulahleka kobuntombi kunye nokuyeka ukuyixhala, kuba, okokuqala, akusiyo yonke intombazana evakalelwa intlungu (ngeendlela, ukuphuma kwamanzi, kungekhona wonke umntu) okanye nayiphi na ingxaki kwisondo lokuqala. Kwaye, okwesibini, ukwesaba ngale nto, ukulindelwa kwentlungu kuya kwenza izinto zibe zibi nakakhulu. Ngenxa yokwesaba rhoqo, okubangela ukunyamezeleka kwentlungu, iintlungu zesivumelwano sesini, okwenza intlungu ekulindelekileyo ibe yinyani. Ngoko ke, ukuphepha intlungu, kufuneka uphazamise ukucinga ngako, kwaye uzame ukuphumla ngokukhulu kunokwenzeka. Ewe, oku kufuneka kukuncedise iqabane, umsebenzi wakhe ukuphumla nokuvuyisa intombazana. Kungenxa yokuba xa unomdla kwi-vagina, kukhutshwa i-lubricant, eya kunceda ukunciphisa intlungu okanye ukuyiphepha ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha, kwakhona, ngenxa yokwesaba okungafaniyo, akukho lubisi olwaneleyo, kulo mzekelo unokuthi utshintshwe ngetyulo olukhethekileyo oluthengathengwa kwikhemistri, ivenkile elisondeleyo okanye iyalwe kwi-intanethi. Ukuba, nangona kunjalo, izilwanyana zesisu ekungeneni kwancinci, unciphisa, uzama ukuphefumula, kunye nesisu sakho sonke. Xa kukho intlungu, kulungele ukubuyela kumlingane kwaye uxoxe naye ngaye, mhlawumbi ukhawuleza, kwaye ufuna enye i-caresses kwaye kufuneka uhambe ngokuthe ngcembe. Nangona kukho enye inketho - iqabane kufuneka lifake ngokukhawuleza, ukuze loo ntombazana ingenalo ixesha lokwesaba, kwaye idibanise izihlunu zesini. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, ukuba kukho into engalungile, kungcono ukuyeka nokuthetha. Ukuba, kungakapheli inyanga yokuzama rhoqo, akukho nto eyenzekayo, ngoko kukufanelekile ukujika kumfazi wesifo somzimba, mhlawumbi i-hymen ixakeke kakhulu, kwaye ukutshatyalaliswa kwayo kuyakufuneka.
Ungathini ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa ubuntombi bakho?
Njengoko kwavela, ukulahlekelwa ubuntombi bakho ngaphandle kwentlungu, akumele uloyike, kodwa yintoni omele uyenze ukuyeka ukuziva uloyiko? Okokuqala, khumbula ukuba yonke into idlula kule nto, ngoko, ubuncinane, kuyisiqhayisa ukuba uloyike le nkqubo ngokwayo. Kwaye ke, kufuneka ucinge ngokhuseleko. Ewe, unokuziphumla njani xa ucinga ngezinto ezingaphandle? Ngoko ke, kufuneka ucinge ngendlela yokulahlekelwa ngobuntombi bakho ngokukhuselekileyo kwimpilo yakho. Ngokomgaqo, yonke into ilula - musa ukulibala ukuzikhusela, kwaye okokuqala ngcono
Kwaye, emva kokulahlekelwa ubuntombi bakhe, kufuneka uqonde ukuba konke kulungile, ngoko emva kwexesha ufanele uvakashele umfazi wesifo somzimba. Emva kwesondo sokuqala, umjikelezo wokuya esikhathini uya kuguquka, kuya kuba mfutshane, kwaye ukulibaziseka okungapheli kweveki kunokwenzeka.