Ukukhulelwa kwintsholongwane yinto ebandezelekileyo kwiintsapho zentwazana. Emva koko, oku akukona nje ukuhambelana nendlela yokuphila yomntwana eyongezelelekileyo (imisela kwimida yokufumana imfundo, ukukhula komsebenzi), kodwa ibeka ingozi kwimpilo yakhe. Ukukhulelwa kwangaphambili kwiintsholongwane kuyinselele kulo lonke intsapho. Kuthetha ukuthini oku kumbono wenyama nangokwengqondo?
Umxholo wemibuzo yombuzo
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukukhulelwa nokubeletha kwabaselula kuyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu kunabantu abadala, ukusuka kwindawo yokujonga. Ngenxa yokuba umzimba womfazi osemthethweni osebenzayo awunakuliswa ngokupheleleyo, ukubeletha ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunabantu abadala kunzima ukuxhatshazwa kwezitho zangasese (ubulili kunye nokuzala ngesondo), kunye nokuzalwa kwangaphambi kwexesha kubakho rhoqo. Abantwana abaselula abasakhulayo banokukhula okuncinane, ubunzima, bahlala behlushwa yi-hypoxia.
Icandelo leengqondo lombuzo
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukukhulelwa kwentsha kukuchaphazela ukuhlalisana kwabo, indlela abajonga ngayo oomama ootata kwintsapho, kunye nezihlobo.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuxhasa umntwana kwimeko yangoku, nangona ucinga njengento engalunganga, oko kuthetha ukuthintela abazali abancinci bodwa ngengxaki yabo, kodwa bengayinyamekeli umntwana. Kubalulekile ukubonisa ukuba umama kunye nosana ozalwe luvuyo nakwiimeko ezinzima, kwaye zonke iingxaki ezikhoyo ziyimfuneko yexesha kwaye ziya kuba negalelo ekutshatsheni ngokukhawuleza kwe "boyboy school".
Ukukhusela ukukhulelwa kwentsha
Ingxaki yokukhulelwa kwentsha inokuthintelwa yinqanaba elisezantsi lemilinganiselo ejoliswe ekukhuliseni umntwana isimo sengqondo esinzulu kwiimpawu zentsapho. Akwanele ukuxelela umntwana malunga nobukho beendlela ezininzi
Ku luncedo ukutyelela iintsapho apho abantwana abancinci bekhula khona, banike abantwana rhoqo ngamaxesha ukuba basebenze, badlale, bahambe kunye nabantwana, kuphela ke umntwana angakwazi ukubona ukuba unyamekele umntwana, kunye nokuzimisela kwabo okanye ukungafuni ukwenza loo mfanelo.
Impawu zokuqala zokukhulelwa kwabafundi abakwishumi elivisayo azifani neempawu zokukhulelwa komfazi omdala. Ngexesha elilukhuni ukusuka kwindawo yokujonga ngengqondo yobuntutsha, kuyimfuneko ukujonga ngokukhawuleza utshintsho kwisimo somzimba wentombazana eselula. Nangona kunjalo, kuya kuba ngcono ukuba ungalindelanga iimpawu zokuqala zokukhulelwa, kodwa ukuthetha ngeengxaki zobomi bentsapho kunye nomama ngaphambi kokuba le mpawu ifunyenwe.