Ubomi buyinto engapheliyo. Abantu abanakuziphepha, kodwa banokuyicombulula "- ngoko i-Psychologist yaseBamerica eyaziwayo.
Ingquzulwano emsebenzini iqhelekile. Mhlawumbi, ngamnye uyazi kakuhle ukungabikho kwengqiqo yabalingani, ukungafani kunye nokuphikisana emsebenzini. Ngamnye wethu kwafuneka abhekane nemeko enjalo kanye ngexesha lokuphila. Kodwa akusiyo wonke umntu owaziyo ukuxazulula ingxabano emsebenzini, indlela yokuziphatha ngokufanelekileyo nendlela yokuphuma ngokwaneleyo imeko yangoku.
Ngoko, ukuqala oko kuyimfuneko ukuyiqonda, yintoni eyona nto ingabangela ukungahambisani phakathi koogxa. Hayi, kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuxabana emsebenzini:
- Ukungavumelani phakathi komphathi kunye nomphathi wakhe. Lo ngumzekelo oqhelekileyo wokuxabana emsebenzini. Iyokuqala ayikwazi ukuhambelana nobuchule kunye nobuchule bomqeshwa, umvuzo wesibini, umvuzo, ukunyuka kokukhuthazwa kunye nokukhula komsebenzi;
- isabelo esinobukhulu besabelo;
- Ukungqubuzana kweminqweno kunye neembono zokujonga. Le meko ngezinye iimeko iba yinjini yenkqubela kwaye inika amandla ekuphuhliseni;
- ukungazithandi. Iingqungquthela ekuthandweni kobuqu ziyingozi kwaye ziyingozi. Baphazamisa umsebenzi wesikhathi esigcwele.
Naluphi na ulwalamano luyinkimbinkimbi yobomi, ngoko kufuneka iqwalaselwe. Ukuxazulula iingxabano emsebenzini akuyona nje umcimbi womphathi wezabasebenzi, kodwa umphathi ngokwakhe. Umsebenzi walo othe ngqo ukudala umoya apho ukungqubuzana kungeke kwande ngejubane elikhulu. Enyanisweni, akusiwo wonke umphathi owaziyo ukulungisa ingxabano emsebenzini.
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokuphepha ukungquzulana emsebenzini:
- Xa ufumana umsebenzi, qonda ngokucacileyo uxanduva lwakho. Ungashicilela inkcazo yomsebenzi.
- Unganiki isizathu. Ukusebenza ngokuziphendulela, musa ukukhawuleza, velisa.
- Ukuba iingongoma zembono azihambisani, mamela umdibaniselwano kwaye ubonise ngokuzenzekelayo uluvo lwakho.
- Musa ukuhleka!
- Ukuba ubona umona okanye ungakuthandi, hlala uxolo kwaye unakekele iimbilini zakho. Yiphatha ngokunyaniseka kweentlonelo zabasebenzi.
Kuthekani ukuba ndiphikisana nomsebenzi?
Kuhlala kulunge ukuphepha ingxabano. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba eso siganeko senzeke, kufuneka usebenze kakuhle. Nazi ezinye izikhokelo ezilula zokusombulula ingxabano emsebenzini:
- ungaze uhambe kubuntu kwaye ungabandakanyi oogxa;
- Musa ukukhawuleza, ungabonakali. Jonga uzuko;
- "Phula phantsi" kwaye uqale iingxoxo;
- iqela lifuna ukunxibelelana rhoqo. Gcina ithoni yokungathathi hlangothi xa uthetha ngomsebenzi;
- Ukuba ingxabano ithatha inguqu enkulu, xelela inkulu. Ukungavumelani kwangaphakathi kungonakalisa isizathu esifanayo.
Ukuba ufuna, unokuhlala ufumana ukulungelelanisa kwaye ufezekise ukuqonda: ukuphelisa izizathu zokuphikisana nokuxabana, kuyafaneleka ukulungisa ingxabano. Futhi ungakulibali ukuba nehlabathi elincinci libhetele kunokuba ingxabano.