Njengoko umntwana ekhula, abazali banenkxalabo malunga nokuphuhliswa kwamandla akhe okudala, ukucinga, ingqiqo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha bayaphuthelwa njengento ebalulekileyo njengoko kuphuhliswa kwentetho ehambelanayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali baqala ukuqwalasela ukuba abantwana, ababukeleyo, baya kufunda ngokuzimela ukuvakalisa iingcinga zabo ngokubambisana. Kodwa oku akunjalo, umntwana ufuna ukukunceda ukuseka ukudibanisa kwintetho yakhe. Ngenxa yoko, kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuzivocavoca, esiza kuxoxa ngazo kweli nqaku.
Yintoni intetho ehambelanayo?
Intetho enxibeleleneyo yikhono lomntwana ukuvakalisa iingcamango zakhe eziphilileyo, ngokuqhubekayo, ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka kwiinkcukacha ezingadingekile. Iintlobo eziphambili zeentetho ezihambelanayo ziyingcali kunye neengxoxo.
Kwiingxoxo, izivakalisi ziyi-monosyllabic, zizaliswe ngamagama kunye neengxoxo. Kwiingxoxo, kubalulekile ukukhawuleza ngokuchanekileyo imibuzo yakho kwaye uphendule imibuzo efunwa ngu-interlocutor.
Ngeentetho zolu hlobo lwemizimba, umntwana kufuneka akhulume ngendlela engokomfanekiso, emoyeni kwaye ngexesha elifanayo iingcamango kufuneka zijoliswe ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka kwiinkcukacha.
Ukuqulunqwa kwentetho ehambelanayo kwizingane zasesikolweni
Indlela yokuphuhliswa kwentetho ehambelanayo ayibandakanyi nje ukufundisa umntwana ukuba izakhono zengqiqo yeengcamango zakhe, kodwa kwakhona ukuzaliswa kwesigama sakhe.
Iindlela eziphambili zophuhliso lweentetho ezihambelanayo zi:
- ibali;
- midlalo ye
- midlalo yemidlalo.
Kwizifundo kunye nomntwana, ungasebenzisa iindlela ezifanelekileyo kakhulu kwiminyaka yakhe kunye neminqweno okanye ukudibanisa.
Imidlalo yokuphuhlisa intetho ehambelanayo
Ndixelele, ngubani na? "
Umntwana uboniswa into okanye umdlalo, kwaye kufuneka uyichaze. Umzekelo:
- ibhola-enkulu, ibomvu ebomvu, ukukhanya;
- ikhukhamba - elide, eluhlaza, eliluhlaza.
Ukuba umntwana usemncinci kwaye akakwazi ukuchaza umxholo ngokwakhe, kufuneka ancediswe. Ngokokuqala ngqa, abazali bangazichaza ngokuzimeleyo esi sifundo.
"Chaza umdlalo"
Kancinci, ukuzilolonga kunokuba nzima ngokufaka iimpawu ezintsha zezinto nokuzikhulisa.
Ngaphambi kokuba umntwana afake iimathoyizi ezimbalwa zezilwanyana aze azichaze.
- I-fox isilwanyana esihlala ehlathini. I-fox ineebomvu ezibomvu kunye nomsila omde. Udla ezinye izilwanyana ezincinci.
- I-hare isilwanyana esincinci esiya. Uyakuthanda iidroti. I-hare iyindlebe ende kunye nomsila omncinci.
"Ucinga ukuba ngubani?"
Ukufihla umdlalo okanye into emva kwakhe, umama uchaza umntwana wakhe. Ngokutsho kwenkcazo, umntwana kufuneka acinge ukuba yiyiphi into efanelekileyo malunga nayo.
"Uthelekiso"
Ngaphambi kokuba umntwana kubalulekile ukubeka amathoyizi amathole ezilwanyana, idonsa okanye iimoto. Emva koko, unikwe umsebenzi wokuthelekisa.
Umzekelo:
- Ibhere likhwaza kakhulu, kwaye imouse inezwi elincinci;
- iidodoli ziboya zibomvu, kwaye ama doll ase-Masha alula;
- iloli inamagumbi amakhulu, kwaye iinqwelo ezinemoto encinane.
Ukuzivocavoca ukuzenzekelayo izandi ngentetho ehambelanayo
Ukuba umntwana usakalisa ngokuthe tye izandi zomntu, ngaphakathi kokufundiswa kwabantwana beentetho ezihambelanayo, umntu unokuzibandakanya nezitomenti ezenzekelayo.
Kulo mjikelezo wokuzilolonga, kunye nakwiminyaka edlulileyo, umgaqo uqulethe ukufunda izinto ezilula ukuya ezinzima.
Ngaphambi kokuzenzekelayo isandi esifanelekileyo kumntwana, kuyimfuneko ukuba ufunde ngokuchanekileyo indlela yokubhengezwa ukuba yodwa.
"Shayela"
Umntwana uboniswa amakhadi kunye nemifanekiso. Kufuneka kubekho izinto okanye izilwanyana, egameni apho kukho isandi esizenzekelayo. Ukuba umntwana uvakalisa ngokuchanekileyo, ke kukho ikhadi elilandelayo liboniswa kuye, kwaye ukuba lungekho, umntu omdala ubiza umnxeba.
"Jonga"
Umntwana unikezwa umsebenzi wokumemezela igama ngezwi elizenzekelayo ngokuphindaphindiweyo njengoko itoloya ebonisa iwashi.