Ii-aples azikho nje iziqhamo ezinonophelo kwaye ziphilileyo, kodwa kunye nesimboli esoloko ifunyenwe kumaphupha ebusuku. Enyanisweni, akungathathi hlangothi, kodwa ngezinye iinkcukacha engqondweni, inokuthwala ulwazi olufanelekileyo nolungalunganga.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuqokelela iipulo kwiphupha?
Ngokuqhelekileyo iphupha elinjalo lichazwa njengokuqala kwexesha, xa unokufumana umvuzo ofanelwe ngumsebenzi wakho. Iipulo oziqokeleyo azivuthiyo, oko kuthetha ukuba ebomini bobomi unesaba ukuthatha uxanduva. Iziqhamo ezitshintshileyo zibonakalisa ukuba ufuna ukucinga kwakhona ngesimo sakho sengqondo kubantu abathile kwimeko yakho.
Ukulala apho uqokelela ama-apula ehlabathini kukusixwayiso sokuba kufuneka uqaphele inkohliso kubantu abangena kwindawo yakho. Kumantombazana amancinci, iphupha elinjalo lingahunyushwa njengengozi eyongeziweyo yokungcatsha nokunyeliswa ngabakhethiweyo. Isiqhamo esihle siyabalumkisa ukuba ngokukhawuleza uya kudumala kumhlobo wakho osondeleyo okanye kumthande wakho.
Iphupha apho kwakudingeka ukuqokelela iipulo kumthi, liqikelele ixesha eliyimpumelelo yokuqala kuyo nayiphi na indawo. Isitoliki sephupha sincoma ukuba ucinge ngokucokisekileyo yonke into ngaphambi kokuqalisa ukucwangciswa kwezicwangciso zakho. Ukuba isiqhamo sixhomekeke kwisebe ongeke ukwazi ukuyifumana, kuyisimboli sokuba unokufuna ukucinga kwakhona ngeenjongo kunye neenjongo zakho. Ukuqokelela kwiipulo ezibomvu zephupha, ibhuku lephupha liguqulela ukuze ngokwenene unokwenza ukuthengiselana okungathandabuzekiyo. Ngeli xesha, kungcono ukuba ungayityina nawaphi na amaxwebhu. Kubafazi, iphupha apho aqoqa iziqhamo zombala obomvu, uqikelele ukukhulelwa . Ukuqokelela ii-apula eziluhlaza kwiphupha kukubonakalisa impilo enempilo. Kubantu abagulayo, iphupha lithembisa ukubuyiswa ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba loo nto iphupha ibonwa ngumfazi, ngoko uya kukwazi ukuqonda amaphupha amade.