Ukuziphatha kakubi kwabantwana

Abantu abaninzi baqhelana nekota efana nokuziphatha kakubi, oko kukuthi, ukuphambuka. Ichaza umnqweno womntwana wokususa eso sigaba esahlukanisa iinkqubo zentlalo kunye nezenzo ezingabonakaliyo. Kubalulekile ukufumanisa ukuba yeyiphi indlela yokuziphatha okungahambiyo kubantwana nakwishumi elivisayo, indlela abazibonakalisa ngayo. Kukholelwa ukuba ukuphulwa ngokuqhelekileyo kwemimiselo eyamkelekileyo, abafana bazama ukutsala ingqalelo.

Iimpawu zabantwana abanokuziphatha okubi

Iingcali zihlela ukuphazamiseka kuxhomekeke kwimimiselo ephulwa, kwinqanaba lomonakalo owenzelwa umntu kunye nabanye. Kuphakanyisiwe ukuba kuhlukaniswe ezo ntlobo zokuphulwa:

• ukuziphatha okubi, oko kukuthi, ehamba ngaphaya kwemigangatho eyamkelekileyo, kodwa ingozi ibangelwa kumntu ngokwakhe, umzekelo, i-masochism;
• ubume bodwa - buyingozi umntu kunye noluntu, oko kukuthi, intsapho, abahlobo, abahlobo (utywala, ukutshaya iziyobisi );
• engekho mthethweni, oku kuthetha ukuphulwa kwemimiselo esemthethweni. Oku kubandakanya ukuphanga, ukungabikho kobuhlanga.

Kwimizuzu nganye kukho ukubonakaliswa okubonakalayo kwezi mpazamo:

1. Abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka engama-7. Ukuziphatha okungahambi kakuhle kwabantwana besikolo samabanga asekuqaleni kunye nesikolweni esiprayimari kudlalwa ngokungahambelani, ukuphoxeka, inkqubela ephambili. Kananjalo kumntwana onjalo unokubona uhlazo, ukungabi nakwenzakala.
2. Abantwana 7-10. Ulwaphulo luya kubonakala ngakumbi, siyakwazi ukunyamezela, ukuxabana. Ukulumka kufuneka kube lukhuni olunzulu lomntwana, ukulahleka kwesidlo.
3. Abantwana abaneminyaka engama-10 ubudala. Umzekelo wokuziphatha okungahambi kakuhle komntwana wale minyaka ungabizwa ngokuthi i-vagrancy, ukweba, ukungahambisani.

Ezinye iziganeko zobomi, iingqondo, iingqondo zengqondo, zibhekwa njengezizathu zokungaphambuki.

Ukuthintela ukuziphatha kakubi kwabantwana nakwishumi elivisayo

Umsebenzi obalulekileyo kubazali kunye nootitshala ukukhusela ukuphambuka okunjalo. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukwenza umsebenzi obanzi ojolise ekuphuhliseni ukuqonda iinkqubo zentlalo nezindlela zokusombulula iimeko ezinzima.

Imisebenzi kufuneka ibandakanye abantwana babo bonke amaqela kwaye ibandakanye inxaxheba yabazali kunye nootitshala. Ezi ndlela zendlela zokukhusela zingabonakala :

1. Ingxoxo kunye neentetho. Kwifomu eyimfihlo, kuyafaneleka ukuxelela abafana ngeendlela zokusombulula iingxaki ezahlukeneyo, kubalulekile ukunika imizekelo. Kwakhona, iintetho kufuneka zijoliswe ekukhuthazeni iindlela zokuphila ezinempilo, ekukhuthazeni ukuchithwa kotywala kunye neziyobisi.
2. Umbutho wokuzonwabisa. Kufuneka sifundise abafana ukuba bathathe ixesha labo elikhululekile kunye nezifundo ezinobulumko. Kufanelekile ukulungelelanisa ukuhamba, ukutyelela iziganeko zenkcubeko.
3. Ukuqeqeshwa kwengqondo. Baya kunceda ukuseka ubudlelwane kwiqela, ukufundisa umntwana ukuba abeke phambili kwaye abhekane neengxaki.
4. Iinkqubo zemfundo. Baza kuvumela ukuba benze isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kwindlela yokuphila ebomini phakathi kwabantwana, kuya kunika ukukhusela ukuphambukiswa kwezesondo.

Kubalulekile ukuba umsebenzi uqhutywe ngendlela echanekileyo, kwaye imisebenzi iyathakazelisa kubantwana.