Ukuba intombazana yayizibuza ukuba ingaba njani inothando kunye nendoda yamadodakazi, ifuna iingcebiso kwiingcaphephe eziwaziyo iingqondo zontlungu enothando kakhulu.
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba uthandane nomfazi?
Indoda ingaba ngumfazi kumabini amabini: ukuba unesimo esiphezulu sokutshintshwa rhoqo kwamaqabane ezesondo, kwaye kwimeko apho ezinye iziganeko zobomi zenze kuye.
Icala lokuqala ngumfazi womzimba, onokutshata naye, kodwa kuya kusoloko kuguqulwa kwaye nanini na ithuba elifanelekileyo. Isizathu salo ngumsebenzi ogqithiseleyo kwezinye iinjongo zeengqondo okanye iingxaki ze-hormonal. Ukuhlala kunye nomfazi onjalo ukunikela ngengqondo yomntu. Amadoda anjalo ahlala ethanda kuphela awabo kwaye angaqwalasela ukukopela njengento ekhethekileyo.
Icandelo lesibini ngumfazi oye wafana nale emva kwesiganeko. Ngokomzekelo, ixesha elide ukuhamba kwezinto ezikhethiweyo kuhlala kuhamba. Ukukwazi ukuzala intombazana ngesondo kubonwa "kakhulu". Umfana angenalo umnqweno wokutshintsha rhoqo amaqabane, kodwa ukubamba uphawu phambi kwabahlobo bakhe, usebenzise iindlela ezahlukeneyo kwaye ekugqibeleni uba ngumfazi wangempela. Le meko igxininiswa kukuba ayikwazi ukugcina ubudlelwane obude kunye nomnye wabakhethiweyo bakhe ngenxa yenani elikhulayo yengxaki yengqondo. Ukwenza i-femanizer nayo ixinzelelo lwengqondo echaphazelekayo kumthandi ongenanhliziyo. Ukumthethelela, insizwa inokuqala ukuphula iintliziyo zabantombazana abangenacala.
Ngaphambi kokuba uthandane nomfazi, kwakumnandi ukuqonda ukuba uluphi uhlobo aluthetha ngalo. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka wenze izihlobo kunye naye, ulungiselele yona. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, ukusuka kwiziqendu zamabakala kunye namabali aqokelelwe ndawonye, unokwenza izigqibo. Kwaye ukuba le ntombazana ingenayo i-femanizer ye-pathological, ungazama ukumthanda.
Iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokuwa ngothando nomfazi:
- kufuneka ube ngumhlobo wakhe oyinyaniso, umxubushelwano othakazelisayo kunye nentembelo;
- unobtrusively, kodwa kufuneka ngokuzithemba ukuba ubonise ukuba ulwalamano olusondeleyo nolwalamano naye aluphelelanga ngokupheleleyo;
- kuyimfuneko ukujonga rhoqo kwi-100% - isetyhini, ilungiswe kakuhle.
Ngoko "into enhle kakhulu" iya kuba yinto enomdla kumfazi . Kwaye ekubeni "ukukhutshwa" kuya kuhlala kutyhutyha-lo mdla uya kugcinwa ixesha elide, apho indoda iya kukwazi ukuba intombi yakhe ibe ngcono kwaye, ekuqapheliseni ukuba ilungileyo yakhe ihamba phambi kwayo, inokuthandana.