Luhlobo luni lwabantwana ngoku,
Akukho ubulungisa kubo,
Sisebenzisa yethu impilo,
Kodwa oku akunandaba nabo ...
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Akulula kuba ngabazali - akukho mntu uza kuthethana nalo. Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana bethu basabela ekuthandweni kwethu nokunyamekela, njengoko kubonakala ngathi, akufaneleki. Iintlanzi zabo, inkani, ukungqubuzana maxa wambi kubonakala ngathi singenangqondo. Kodwa emva kwakho konke, akukho mntwana othobelekileyo, kwaye zonke iintsapho zihamba ngamaxesha okuhlala uxolo kunye namaxesha enzima, ingxaki. Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba "ukuguquka" okunjalo kuyindlela eqhelekileyo yophuhliso.
Ngenkathazo yomntwana wokuqala, abazali bahlala behlangana ngokukhawuleza - xa umntwana ejika iminyaka eli-1 ubudala (ubudala bakhe buyakwazi ukuhluka ukusuka kwiinyanga ezili-9 ukuya kwiminyaka eyi-1.5). Phantse bonke abantwana kwixesha elizayo baya kwiingxaki kwiminyaka emithathu, iminyaka engama-7 kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ebusheni. Zonke ezi zikhathi ezinzima zihambelana nokuguquka komntwana kwisigaba esitsha sokuzimela, ukukhula: ngo-1 unyaka umntwana uqala ukuhamba ngokuzimeleyo, kwiminyaka emithathu-uphenduka ube ngumdibanisi opheleleyo, njl. Izakhono ezintsha kunye namathuba kufuneka afunyanwe ngumntwana, ukuba agcine entloko yakhe - kuyimvelo ukuba kuphela kwiimeko ezinqabileyo le nkqubo ihamba kakuhle kwaye ingenabuhlungu.
Iimbangela zeengxaki iminyaka engama-7
Namhlanje siza kuthetha ngeengxaki zezingane iminyaka engama-7. Njengoko sele kuthethwe ngazo, ubunzima beeminyaka engama-7 kubantwana, njengawo nawuphi na, unesizathu saso. Ekuqaleni, le nkathazo idibaniswa nokubunjwa kobume bentlalo yoluntu. Ngoku umntwana wakho akayindodana nje kuphela, umzukulu, njl., Kodwa naye umfundi, umfundi ofunda naye. Unendima kawonkewonke ngamalungelo kunye neemfanelo zakhe. Ngoku uya kufuneka akhe ubuhlobo kunye noontanga ngokwakhe, ootitshala. Kwintlanganiso yakhe iya kubonakala, ngaphezu kobazali, amanani amagosa atsha (ootitshala). Uza kuqala ukuvavanya ukuvavanya kwamakhono akhe (amanqaku esikolweni), kungekudala ukufumana imvume okanye ukungafuni ukuziphatha. Uya kufuneka enze ezinye izinto ezininzi, ngaphandle kokukhankanya ukufumana ulwazi olutsha ngqo kwizifundo. Esikhundleni somdlalo njengomsebenzi oyintloko uqala ukufunda. Konke oku kukhokelela ekutshintsheni ekuzileni nasekuzileni, ukuhlaziywa kwemilinganiselo, utshintsho kwilungiselelo eliphambili.
Iimpawu zeengxaki iminyaka engama-7
Xa umntwana wakho eguqula iminyaka eyi-7 okanye eyiminyaka eyi-8 ubudala, kwaye mhlawumbi, xa uneminyaka engama-6, unokufumana kwimpawu zakhe ezicacileyo zeengxaki zeminyaka eyi-7. Inkathazo engeyiyo yesifo seminyaka engama-7 ine, kodwa ke, iimpawu ezithile. Into ebalulekileyo yokuziphatha komntwana ojongene neengxaki zeminyaka engama-7 kukubonakala kokubonakala, ukuzimela, ukungaboni, ukunyanzelisa. Umntwana wakho unokuqalisa ukuthetha ngamabomu ngokukodwa, umzekelo, ukunyaniseka, ilizwi, utshintsho, njl njl. Ukuzithemba kwabantwana kulahlekile: ngoku i-stimulus yangaphandle ayizange ibangele ngokukhawuleza isisiseko sokuqala, esingokwemvelo, ngokukhawuleza, njengokuba kwenzeka kwi-schooling school. Phakathi kweso siganeko kunye nokuphendulwa kwayo, umzuzu wokubambisana "i-wedges", iqela leengqondo libonakala. Umntwana uqala ukwahlula ngaphandle nangaphakathi, unokuqalisa "ukulondoloza" umhlaba wakhe ongaphakathi,
Ndingayinqoba njani inkathazo iminyaka engama-7?
Yintoni enokuyenza xa umntwana wakho enenkathazo yeeminyaka ezi-7? Iingcebiso ezibaluleke kunayo nayiphi na imeko kukugcina ukuzithiba. Ewe, kunzima, xa kubonakala ngathi umntwana ujikeleze iwashi, njengokungathi uzama ngokukodwa ukuqhuba abazali ngaphandle kwabo. Kodwa nangona kunjalo umsebenzi oyintloko womzali kule meko akayi "ukudubula i-fly", ukugcina ukulinganisela kobuthakathaka nobunzima. Musa ukukhupha umntwana, kodwa, ukubeka endaweni, zama ukungazivumeli ukuba udibanise, phuthuma. Khumbula ukuba ubunzima besikhashana, kwaye ukungabikho komntwana wakho okwangoku kuyindlela echaseneyo yeenguqu eziqhubekayo ebuntwini bakhe, uphuhliso lwakhe.