Kungekudala, abantu baninzi beva izenzo ezintle zamagunya omlingo. Ngenxa yoko, baninzi abanomdla wokususa isiqalekiso ngokwakho. Kukho iindlela ezininzi ezahlukeneyo, imfundiso kunye nemithandazo eya kunceda ekujonganeni nale ngxaki.
Ungasusa njani isiqalekiso?
Ukwenza oku, unako ukubamba isithethe kwenyanga epheleleyo ekuqaleni kosuku olutsha. Ngokwesiko, udinga izibuko ezinkulu ezi-2 kunye nekhandlela ezi-2 ezimhlophe nakumnyama. Fumana ikhaya eliphantsi kweengubo zangaphantsi, ezimele zigqitywe ngeveki ngaphambi kokuba kufike umkhosi. Ngomhla wesiko, faka izibuko ezimbini ezibhekiselelane komnye nomnye, ngakwesokhohlo kufuneka kube nekhandlela, kwaye ngakwesokudla kukho amanzi angcwele. Ukuma phakathi kwezibuko, zithetha la magama alandelayo:
Ubusuku obumnyama, ikhandlela elimnyama, isibuko somlingo, kubonakalisa kum ilizwi eliqalekisiweyo, elibi. Ngokuqala, ndikucela. Ubusuku bubumnyama, ikhandlela ibumnyama, isibuko siyimilingo, gxotha yonke into endiyibonayo kum. Kwesihlandlo sesibini ndicela kuwe. Ubumnyama obumnyama, ikhandlela elimnyama, isibuko somlingo, ugxeke isiqalekiso somntu kum. Ukusuka kwam kubonakalisa, kumntu odaleyo, buyela. Ngexesha lesithathu ndikucela. Yiba njalo! "
Ngoku uthetha ngamagama afanayo, uguqula ihlombe lakho lesobunxele kwisibuko esilandelayo. Geza ngamanzi angcwele, thintela iingubo zangaphantsi eziphezu kwakho, zicime kwaye uziphose phantsi. Xa uhlambuluke ngokupheleleyo, hlangana iimpahla uze uzibambe phezu kwamakhandlela kude kube yimida yeengubo ziqala ukugubha. Ugqoke ilineni elitsha, umnqamlezo, ukhangela kwisibuko sangasemva, funda "uBawo wethu". Thatha ikhandlela elimnyama uze ulidibanise kumanzi angcwele. Phinda isenzo ngesinye isibuko kunye nekhandlela. Yiya kulala kwaye ungakhulumi kwanoma ubani kwada kwasemini isidlo sasemini. Ngentsasa kususa amakhandlela ukusuka kwamehlo, kwaye emva kokuhlwaya ukuya ecaweni. Faka ikhandlela kwimpilo yomntu othukile. Kuphela emva koko, sinokucinga ukuba isithethe siphelile, zonke izinto ezimbi ziza kubuyela kumnini kwangoko.
Ungasusa njani umama uqalekise?
Isiqalekiso sikamama ngenye yezona zinto ezinzima kakhulu kumlingo ongekho ixesha lokuthatha isenzo kwaye ubhubhise ubomi bomntu kude kube ngumzuzu wokususwa. Ukuze ulahlwe, kufuneka ufike ecaweni xa kungcwatywa khona umngcwabo apho. Thatha ikhandlela uze ume eduze kweentsapho zomntu ofileyo, omi kufuphi nebhokisi. Xa umngcwabo wenzeka ngokwayo, zithetha ngamaxesha angama-13 ngala mazwi alandelayo: "Ukuthintela ngokutsha, ebomini obunzima, ulele ebhokisini, ungakhange usikhangele. Thatha isiqalekiso sam. E gameni likaBawo noNyana kunye noMoya oyiNgcwele. Amen . "
Qiniseka ukuba uye esontweni ngomhla we-9 neye-40. Kukhona ukubeka ikhandlela ezi-3 kwaye uthi: "Ngesinye isiqalekiso sam".
Ungasusa njani isiqalekiso sokuntuleka kwemali?
Thatha umshanelo omtsha uze utshitshise indlu yonke, uhlebezela ngamazwi alandelayo: "Ngeli golik zonke izinto ezimbi ziza kuhamba." Cinga ngeso lengqondo indlela umshanelo uthatha ngayo yonke into engalunganga, uze uyilahle. Ngenxa yoko unokuhlambulula indlu yakho nomphefumlo kwizinto ezimbi.
Ungasusa njani isiqalekiso seentsapho?
Ngenxa yesi siko, kufuneka uthabise amakhandlela angama-33, ekubeni ziza kuthatha iintsuku ezininzi. Kungcono ukuqala umkhosi ngokuhlwa kweSabatha yokuqala kwiinyanga ezinqabileyo. Khanyisa ikhandlela elilodwa uze ufunde "uBawo wethu", kwaye emva kokuba uphawu lukaMama kaThixo la mazwi alandelayo: "Mama kaThixo, nciphisa iintliziyo zabasiqalekisayo! Ungavumeli uhlobo lwam lufe! Nkosi, sindisa usisindise, abakhonzi bakaThixo! "
Ngomhla we-34 weemali zeekhandlela, yenza enye uze uyibeke ebandleni kwimpilo yomntu othukile. Yishiye iminikelo kunye neyokuqala, indlela yakho, uqoke imali kunye negama elithi "hlawulwa". Musa ukuxelela nabani malunga nento eyenziwe.
Ungasusa njani isiqalekiso somhlolokazi omnyama?
Ukuba uthembele kulolu hlobo lwesicatshulwa, kufuneka ukhangele ngeefestile kwinyanga ephilileyo ukuthetha
"Ndiguquka uKayin noAbheli,
Ndikhothamele kwaye ndibhaptizwe,
Ndikhala kwaye ndiyathandaza.
Abazalwana Nina nizalamane, ngaphambi kwecawa ingcwele,
Ndithathele kum umfazi ongumhlolokazi,
Ndikhulule wena kumagcini omnyango wam.
Njengoko le nyanga iyancibilika kwaye iwa,
Ngoko ukuba isipelo siphume kum.
Ngoku kunye naphakade naphakade. Amen. "