Izibonakaliso zokulahla zibonakala zicacile: umntu ulandela imbuyiselo, ufumanisa kunzima ukwenza nayiphi na umsebenzi, impumelelo ekugqibeleni uyamshiya, uhlala egula kwaye eziva ehle kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, ungayifumana njani ukuba ngubani owenze umonakalo? Ukwenza oku, kukho iindlela zabo, kwaye siya kuziqwalasela.
Indlela yokuchonga umntu owenza umonakalo?
Ulwaphulo - lo lukhulu lokugeleza kwamandla angalunganga, onokusikhokela ngokuchanekileyo kuphela umlingo oyingcali. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuhlaselwa kufuna ukuba ubukhona bento yomntu obanjwe ngendwangu. Uyakhumbula ukuba izinto zakho zomntu zalahleka? Ngaba uye wakhonza ukutya endlwini yomntu ongendawo? Ngaba abazali bakho bakutshilo ngeengxabano ezinobundlobongela nabanye abantu? Ulwaphulo-mali alukwazi ukuphela kwakho, kodwa nokuzalwa.
Ukuba awukwazi ukukhumbula into ekhethekileyo, akukho bantu abanobukhwele okanye iintshaba, kuya kufuneka ujike kwezinye iindlela. Nangona, ukuba uchithekile, into yokuqala uyenzayo ukuyilahla, kwaye ungakhangeli umntu onetyala.
Ubuqhetseba: indlela yokuchonga ngubani na?
Kukho imilingo emilingo evumela ukuba ubone ukuba ngubani ohlaselayo. Umzekelo, kukho indlela yokubona umntu onjalo ephupheni. Ngomhla weliphi na iholide (okanye nokuba ngeCawa) ngaphambi kokuba ulale, tshela iqhinga elikhethekileyo:
"Ndiya emigqeni, ndijonga ngamehlo am. Phakathi kwabangcwele kukhona uSamson oNgcwele. E gameni likaThixo, ubomi obungunaphakade kunye nokuphila, ndithetha ilizwi elingcwele: "USamson oyingcwele, ndibonise iphupha lesiprofeto." Masivumele uSamson ongcwele ambonise intshaba yam, Ephupheni, ubuso obuprofetayo buya kubonisa kum. Phila kunye noBathathu Emnye, uncedo, Nkosi Yesu Kristu, ubonge ubuthongo bam. E gameni likaBawo noNyana kunye noMoya oyiNgcwele. Ngoku kunye naphakade naphakade. Amen. "
Emva koko, uya kulala, kwaye ephupheni uya kuba ngumntu obangela umonakalo. Qiniseka ukuba ufake iphepha kunye neepeni kufuphi nombhede ukuba ubhale phantsi ngokukhawuleza igama okanye iimpawu zomntu. Le ndlela ayisebenzi kuwo wonke umntu, kodwa kulungele ukuzama.
Ulwaphulo: indlela yokufumana ngubani owenze?
Ukuba ufuna utshaba ufike endlwini yakho kwiintsuku ezimbalwa, sebenzisa isithethe ngekhonkwane. Kufuneka uhambe emangcwabeni okanye kwisevisi yomngcwabo kwaye uthathe isikhonkwane, esetyenziselwa xa uhamba ngesigqubuthelo somkhumbi. Kungcono ukuyichukumisa kuphela ngeiglavu okanye iingubo.
Shayela isikhonkwane kumbindi wendlu yakho uze uthi: "Ngubani na ondibandezele, oye wandichukumisa, ndibiza ngekhonkwane. Ukuba awufiki kwiintsuku ezintathu, emva kwesiqingatha sonyaka uya kufa. Amangcwaba, i-coffin, isikhonkwane, elinde wena, wamenywa ngumenywa. Amen, Amen, Amen . "
Utshaba luya kubonakala okanye lubize kwiintsuku ezintathu ezizayo, kwaye mhlawumbi uya kuba neentloni. Le ndlela ivelisa ububi obuhle kumntu owonayo, kwaye kufuneka uyisebenzise ngokucophelela.