Ehlabathini lethu kukho izinto ezininzi ezingaziwa, kubandakanywa kukho ukukhuseleka kwethu okanye, ngokuchasene noko, kuyingozi. Ukuba umntu uhlaselwa yinto engonwabiyo, inkathazo eqhubekayo ayimvumeli ukuba aphile ngokuthula, ngoko mhlawumbi, ngumbuzo wokuphazamiseka kwemilingo. Ukufumana indlela yokubona ukuphanga nokufumana ukuba ngubani owenze, kulo mzekelo, kufuneka kube yinto ephambili. Emva koko, ukuba awuyikuyeka impembelelo yangaphandle kwimpilo yomntu, inhlanhla ayiyi kubuya, kwaye iingxaki ziza kwanda.
Ungaziqonda njani ukuba kukho umonakalo kuwe?
Enye yeendlela ezilula ukuzisa ukungaphumeleli komnye umntu ukufakwa, oko kukuthi, izinto ezifihliweyo okanye ezifihlakeleyo kwigumbi. Ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukuba nayiphi na imicimbi yomlingo, kuyadingeka ukuba ukhumbule ukuba ukuqala kwendawo yelungileyo inxulumene nesiganeko esithile. Kungaba yinto yokubonakala kwindlu, okanye ukutyelelwa komntu kwizalamane okanye omaziyo.
Kwakhona indlela yokubona umonakalo uphupha ifulethi ngekhandlela ecaweni. Ukuba utshaya aze enze ukuphazamiseka, ngoko, mhlawumbi, kukho into ekhoyo endlwini, eyilungelelaniswa ukusilela.
Esinye isibonakaliso sempembelelo yomlingo sinokuba ngumnyama wegolide. Yisinyithi esivakalayo esabela ngokukhawuleza kwizame ezimbi kunye nokuchazwa kunye nokubanceda ukuba baqonde. Ngoko ke, ukuba i-ring or chain of silver ngesiqupheko yaqala ukugqutywa ngamacaka amnyama, kubalulekile ukukhathazeka.
Ungaziqonda njani ukutshabalalisa nokususa?
Emva kokuba umntu ejikeleze indlu ngekhandlela okanye ephawula ukungaphumeleli okungaqhelekanga okuphindaphindiweyo, kuphuthumayo ukuthatha umlinganiselo ukususa ukuphangwa. Okokuqala kufuneka ufumane kwaye ulahle izinto ezingaqhelekanga. Kungaba izipho, okanye akucaci ukuba izinto zivele njani kwindlu. Ukumisela into enjalo ilula - yibambe ikhandlela ngaphaya kwalo, ubone ukuba ilangatye iyotshisa okanye ifake.
Awukwazi ukuphosa iipasiti ezifunyenweyo. Kumele zitshiswe okanye zingcwatyelwe emhlabathini. Emva koko, kulufanelekile ukucoca indlu, ukufafaza iimbombo ngamanzi angcwele kwaye ufunde umthandazo omnye.
Ukuba emva koko loo nto ayizange ibuyele eqhelekileyo, kufuneka kwenziwe oku kulandelayo. Kunokwenzeka kwaye kuyimfuneko ukuya ecaweni , ubeke amakhandlela ukuthula komphefumlo weentsapho zabo ezifikile kwaye ubacele uncedo emthandazweni. Kwakhona uzame ukuthetha nabantu abanekhono kule miba. Kodwa apha kufuneka uqaphele, kuba kukho ezininzi izigameko. Ngako oko, ukukhangela olo ngcali kuphela kwiingcebiso ezizimeleyo.