Ukwabelana ngesondo ngenye yezinto ezibalulekileyo zobudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nomfazi. Ngombulelo kuye, abaninzi abameli besondo obuthakathaka banokubopha indoda kuye ixesha elide. Kodwa ukuba akukho mvelaphi yendalo, ungasebenzisa ukupasa ngothando kumntu, nangona okokuqala kufuneka ucinge ngemiphumo engenzeka.
Ziziphi i zihlunu?
Ukupelwa kwendoda ngesondo kuthathwa njengesithethe esingenasiphelo, nangona kubhekisela kumlingo omnyama . Ngokubanzi, kukho iintlobo ezimbini zokupela:
- Inketho yokuqala - isinamathiselo yesondo ijoliswe ekubambiseni iqabane elikhatywayo ngokwesondo, kodwa akukho. Kule meko, akuyi kuba neengxaki.
- Uthando olunamandla ngakumbi ngesondo lubizwa ngokuba yiYiputa. Ndiyabulela kuye, indoda iya kuba nomnqweno kuphela into ethile, kwabanye abesifazana abayi kuba khona. Enyanisweni, olu khetho lubangela ukungabi namandla kumadoda ngokumalunga nabanye abafazi. Oku kunokubangela ukuvela kweengxaki ezinzulu, umzekelo, ukuxilongwa kweziyobisi, utywala, njl njl
Uhlobo lokuqala lwesipelo, ezinye iingqondo zincoma ukuba zisebenzise kuwo onke amabhinqa abavakalelwa kukuba iqabane lawo likhulile kubo.
Uthando oluqinileyo luchaza ngesondo ngokukhula kwenyanga
Isithethe siyakulungeleka uLwesihlanu. Kuye kufuneka uthabise amakhandlela obomvu obisi-2 kunye nesithombe somntu oza kuba mnandi. Ukomeleza ukupela, ungasebenzisa into eyenziwa ngumntu. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale isithethe, uthathe ibhotile yokuphumla kwaye uqinisekise ukuthula okupheleleyo endlwini.
Ukukhanya kwekhandlela elinye uze uyibeke ecaleni lakho, faka isithombe eduze kwayo, okufuneka ukhangele njalo. Ikhandlela lesibini kunye nento yendoda ethatha kwaye ngexesha lokuzibethelela, njengokungakhathaliseki ukuba uchukumise umthandi wakho. Ngeli xesha, yithi:
"Olwandle, iinkomo kwisiqithi saseBuyan zitshisa ilitye likaAlatyr, ukutshisa akutshisi, ngokunjalo umkhonzi kaThixo ... (igama) litshisa, livutha, aliyikutshisa, kum, inceku kaThixo ... (igama) alilibali indlela. Yiba lizwi lam ngonaphakade naphakade. Amen ยป
Ukupela ngokuchanekileyo usebenze, phinda upelo uze ukhanyise ikhandlela ngokupheleleyo. Ikhandlela lesibini kufuneka litshiswe phambi kobuqili kwaye ngokukhethekileyo kusasa elizayo. Ukufudumala umnqweno womthandi wakhe, ulungiselele ukuba usondele ngothando kunye neentlungu zesini.