Ngaphambi kokuba sisebenzise uncedo lwamagunya omlingo, umntu makaqonde ukuba nayiphi na inyathelo inokuqhuba nemiphumo ethile. Ngamanye amaxesha amazwi angenanto anganikeli iziphumo ezingalindelekanga. Eyona nto ingenabungozi yintlanzi yenzalo , kuba akukho miphumo ukuba yonke imithetho ilandelwa. Ngaphandle koko, isiko nje asiyi kuzisa umphumo ofunwayo.
Iziphumo zeqhinga lokufa
Ukuba ukubuyiswa kukuncinci xa wenza imiyalelo emilingo emhlophe, ukusetyenziswa kwamnyama kuhlale kufuna "ethile". Akubona wonke umlindi onayo ngokupheleleyo okwazi ukuchonga umhlaba, ukufumana ubumnyama. Ukuba isithethe asiqhubekanga ngokufanelekileyo okanye ukuba yonke imithetho ayilandelwayo, unokuzibulala. Ukongezelela, ezinjalo izenzo zinokubangela isifo esiqinileyo kwaye sithumele isiqalekiso kuwo wonke uhlobo lwayo. Ngako oko, imikhosi enjalo kufuneka yenziwe ngokuqaphela okukhulu.
Imiphumo yothando uthando kunye noqheliso kwiimeko ezininzi kuxhomekeke kwisithethe ngokwayo, ngokuchaneka kokuziphatha kwayo kunye nokugcinwa kwazo zonke izinto ezinobunzima. Kwezinye iimeko unokulindela:
- ukuvela kwesifo okanye ukunyuka kwexesha elikhoyo;
- ukungabikho komphumo oyifunayo emva kwesithethe;
- into yesipelingi ingaba nezilingo kunye nezinye iingxaki.
Iziphumo zentlondi yothando
Iimfundiso ezinjalo, nangona zinika iziphumo ezifunwayo, akunakwenzeka ukufumana uvuyo ngale ndlela. Ngokutsho kwabantu abasebenzisa ezinjalo izenzo zamagqirha, umonakalo uba ngumnye umntu. Imiphumo emva kokuba iqhinga elinjalo lingahluke ngokupheleleyo: abakhethiweyo banokugwenxa, bazikhethele ukuzibulala, babe nomona, baqale ukusela okanye ukutshaya, njl njl. Ngenxa yoko, iimvakalelo ezinjalo aziyi kuzisa novuyo kwaye zikhokelela ekuhleni kwebudlelwane nobuntu.