Uqeqesho lwangaphakathi

Njengoko uyazi, ukuba umntu unento yonke efanelekileyo entloko yakhe, ngoko ebomini uya kulungela. Ukuxanduva lwakho kunye nabanye, ukukwazi ukulawula ukuziphatha kwakho kunye neemvakalelo, ukukwazi ukuzivumelanisa nehlabathi elitshintshayo kuthetha ukuqeqeshwa kwangaphakathi. Umntu onengqeqesho yangaphakathi unenzuzo ngaphezu kwabanye abantu, kwaye kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bakhe-umsebenzi, intsapho, idumela, njl njl. Yilungelelaniswe kwaye iqokelelwe, ngokuqhelekileyo kubantu abanjalo, kukho rhoqo "icwangciso sokwenza isenzo" kwaye abazange banakekele ukungena kwidayari yabo. Zama ngokwakho, qalisa ishedyuli yemihla ngemihla uze uhlele yonke imicimbi yakho. Uya kubona, uya kulawula yonke into okanye ulawule ukwenza oko kubaluleke kakhulu. Akusebenzi? Ngoko ke kunengqiqo ukusebenzela indlela yokuhlakulela ukuzimela.

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Uqeqesho olufanelekileyo okanye ukuzinza kuthetha uxanduva lwakho olupheleleyo kunye nokuzilawula. Ukuphuhliswa kokuzimela kufuneka kuqala kuqala ukuba yinjongo eyaziwayo, kubalulekile ukwenza isigqibo kwaye ungayitshintshi. Uqeqesho lwangaphakathi luvumela umntu ukuba ahlakulele amandla, asebenze kwiintlobo zakhe, anqobe ukwesaba kunye nokungaqiniseki.

Ngokuphathelele indlela yokufunda ukuzimela, indlela yokuhlakulela ukuziphatha, ngoko yonke into iqala ngezinto ezincinci. Qala, qalisa ukuvuka imihla ngemihla ngexesha elifanayo. Akunandaba nokuba usuku okanye usuku lokusebenza, kufuneka ulandele umgaqo "we-21". Ngokweengqondo zeengqondo, le ndlela isekelwe kwinto yokuba nayiphi na umkhwa uphuhliswa kwiintsuku ezingama-21. Ukuba ngeli xesha, yonke imihla yenza into efanayo, ke lo msebenzi uza kuba ngumkhwa wakho. Kwimeko yokuba "ukuhluleka kwenkqubo," qalisa kwakhona. Khumbula, ukuba unqumle ukuzithoba, yinto enzima, ungazami ukuzikhohlisa. Ngaphandle koko, ngubani owenza okubi ngakumbi?

Isinyathelo esilandelayo kukucwangcisa usuku lwakho, ngoko qi niseka ukuba uthenge idayari. Bhala ubusuku bonke ibhizinisi elizayo ngomso, ukuqala ngokubaluleke kakhulu.

Yiba nexanduva kwiimeko ezicwangcisiweyo kunye nexesha lakho, kuba ixesha liyimithombo ebalulekileyo kakhulu. Inhlanhla!