Abambalwa kuphela abazi ukuthetha ngokufanelekileyo, ngoko kwiimeko ezininzi kunzima ukuba abantu baqonde. Ukuze uphephe iimeko ezinjalo, kuyimfuneko ukufunda ukufunda ngokuchanekileyo iingcamango zakho kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, ukuziveza.
Umgangatho wokuthetha wokuthetha
Igama elithi "ukunxibelelana" lithetha ukuhanjiswa kolwazi kwisithethi kumphulaphuli. Ukuze i-final ikwazi ukuqonda kakuhle intetho kwaye uyiqonde, kuyimfuneko ukucacisa ukuba zeziphi iimpawu ezithethiweyo zithethi zithethi. Kukho iimpawu ezikhethekileyo ezinempembelelo engcono kumphulaphuli. Masizi kakuhle.
Impawu zoqhagamshelwano ezisisiseko zokuthetha
- Ingqiqo yentetho . Iziphakamiso mazibe zihambelana. Kukho amaxesha apho umntu ekwabelana ngengcamango yakhe ngesihloko esithile, kodwa ke ukhumbula enye into, ukuyelela kwezinye izihloko kwaye uqale ukuthetha ngento ehluke ngokupheleleyo. Lo mqondiso ngumqondiso wesinambiso esibi. Ubungqiqo bentetho njengemgangatho wokuthetha kubonisa ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuzisa kwisigqibo esisinye isihloko, unike ilizwi kwi-interlocutor yakho, uze uqale ukuphuhlisa isibini.
- Ukubaluleka kwentetho . Njalo ixesha ibali lixelelwa ngento ethile, umntu kufuneka acinge ukuba ngaba kufanelekile ngeli xesha. Ngelishwa, abantu abanako ukuhlola rhoqo imeko ngexesha. Ngokomzekelo, umntu akanako ukwazi ukuba ngubani odibanisa naye empilweni, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo uvakalisa ukugxeka kwakhe phambi kobugcisa bakhe. Ukongeza, ngexesha lomsebenzi, akudingekile ukuba uxelele oogxa bakho kunye nabo ukuphazamisa. Kwakhona, akufanele ukhulume ngexesha lokusebenza. Ukubaluleka njengendlela yokuthetha yentetho kubonisa ukuba kufuneka uhlalutye ngamazwi akho phambi kokuba uthethe nantoni na.
- Ukucaciswa kwentetho . Ukuze umphulaphuli alondoloze umdla kwiintetho zesithethi, kuyimfuneko ukusebenzisana kunye nesigama, ukubiza, ukuvakalisa, njl njl. Ukubonakalisa njengendlela yokuthetha yokukhulumisana igcinwe ngeendlela ezizodwa-amanani kunye neendlela zokubhala. Zinceda ukwenza umbhalo ucacile, uchanile kwaye awukhumbuleki. Umzila ukusetyenziswa kwegama ngomqondo ongokomfuziselo, kunye nomlinganiselo wokubhaliweyo ukuqiniswa kweempembelelo zengqondo kulaphulaphuli.
- Ukuchaneka kwentetho . Lo mbandela uquka ukuchaneka ngokuchanekileyo kwezivakalisi, ukwakhiwa kwezivakalisi ezichanekileyo ngegrama, ukugcinwa kwamatyala. Ukuchaneka kwentetho njengemgangatho wokuthetha kubonxibelelwano kwiimigaqo zemihla ngemihla. Ukuthetha kakuhle nangokuchanekileyo, kuyimfuneko ukwazi kakuhle imithetho yesiqhelo yolwimi apho umntu uthetha rhoqo. Ngenxa yoko, kukho izichazili, izikhokelo zegrama kunye nezixhobo ezahlukeneyo zokufundisa.
- Ubutyebi bokuthetha . Amagama angakumbi umntu angayisebenzisela, kulula ukuba avelise iingcamango zakhe. Oku akuthethi ukuba intetho kufuneka izaliswe ngamazwi anzima kwaye aninzi. Ukuze ufunde indlela yokubonisa iingcamango zakho ngokuchanekileyo, kufuneka ufunde indlela yokukhetha amagama. Akuyi kuba yinto engathandabuzekiyo kwaye umnqweno wokufunda iincwadi ezininzi zobugcisa bohlobo - amagama achanekileyo aya kuhlehliswa ngokwawo kwaye akudingeki ukuba azikhumbuze. Ubutyebi bentetho, njengomgangatho wokuthetha, kuya kunceda ufunde kakuhle kwaye ngokufanelekileyo wenze izivakalisi kwaye ubenxibelelane nabanye.
- Ukucoceka kwentetho . Kunconywa ukurekhoda ingxoxo yakho nomnye umntu kwirekhodi, uze uhlalutye iziphumo. Kwintetho akufuneki kubekho amagama angamazwi, izilwimi kunye namazwi aphilileyo. Kufuneka uyikhulule kuyo nayiphi na into engcolisayo, phulaphula, njengoko abantu bathi, kwaye bazama ukuthetha nabanye. Ukungcola kwentetho njengomgangatho wokuthetha kuya kukunceda ufunde ukuba nabantu abanokukhawuleza ufumane ulwimi olufanayo nabo.
Iimpawu zokuthetha zonxibelelwano ziya kunceda ukuququzelela unxibelelwano kwaye lwenze luphumelele. Kuba oku kuyimfuneko kuphela ukusebenzela nganye iimpawu.