Ingxaki yobunxila obunomntwana inzima kakhulu kwimimandla yesithuba seSoviet. Kudala ixesha elide, abasemagunyeni bazama ukulwa nayo yonke indlela. Ukuvimbela ukuthengiswa kotywala ebusuku, ukukhawuleza ukuthengisa, ukunyanzelisa ukusela utywala kwiindawo zoluntu. Yonke le miqathango imane ilulaze iimbombo, ingasombululi intsingiselo yenkinga. Namhlanje, abantwana, ngomzamo wokuxelisa abantu abadala kwaye babe njengabo, bathatyelwa kwibhotile ukusuka kwiminyaka eyi-10-12. Ngexesha elidlulileyo, utywala lwaqalisa umdla kubantu abancinci, ukususela kwiminyaka yabafundi.
Iimbangela zokunxila kwabantwana
Kubonakala sengathi abatsha baye bathabatha iglasi yezinto ezitshisayo ezandleni zabo, babonakala bekhulile, banamandla ngakumbi kwaye bafanelekile phakathi kwabo ontanga. Akwazanga ukubeka phambili phambili kwaye ukhethe abahlobo "abalungileyo". Ngenxa yoko baninzi bafumana iinkampani ezimbi.
Umntwana othabatha ibhotile ezandleni zakhe unokulawulwa ngumnqweno wokubalekela iingxaki, ukuzikhohlwa. Imvakalelo yabantwana abaselula idlala indima enkulu. Khumbula wena kule minyaka. Zingaphi iinkxalabo ezazenza ingxabano nabazali bakhe? Kwaye kuthatha ixesha elingakanani uthando olungathandabuzekiyo? Ngoko umntwana wakho, mhlawumbi, ufumana amava anamandla. Ayikwazi ukuyicombulula ingxaki, okanye ixoxe ngayo nomntu, inxila kutywala. Ngokombono wakhe, le ndlela yindlela yokulibala ukuba ihlabathi aligqibekanga.
Ukunyusa umntwana ukuba athenge utshwala unokufumana imali eninzi ephakamileyo. Ngoko ke, ulawula ngokunyanisekileyo iindleko zomntwana wakho kwaye uqinisekise ukuba imali enikezelwa isidlo sasemini ayichithwanga ngokuhlwa ebusuku.
Esinye isizathu sinokuba ngumnxila wabazali. Okokuqala, lo ngumzekelo. Ukuba unyana okanye intombi ekhulayo ibona loo mama, okanye ubaba, okanye asebenza rhoqo kwibhotile, uya kuba nesimo sengqondo sokuthi ukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo. Kwixesha elizayo, uya kwenza ngendlela efanayo, ulandele umzekelo ohloniphekileyo kuye. Okwesibini, umntwana unokufumana umlutha ngisho nasesibelekweni ukuba wayetyenzise utswala ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Emva kokuzalwa, umzimba womntwana uya kucela i-dose eqhelekileyo yotywala. Kwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu, kukho ne-withdrawal syndrome.
Iimpawu zobunxila boonyana
Into ebalulekileyo yokunxila komntwana kukuba ikhula ngokukhawuleza ngakumbi kunabantu abadala. Ngamanye amaxesha usebenzisa iziphuzo eziphuza utshwala, umntwana oselula uya kuba ngumlutha. Eyona nto iqhelekileyo kubantwana bokusela utywala. Ubhiya lubonakala njengesiphuzo esingenasiphelo sokusela utywala, kodwa kubonakala nje. Enyanisweni, ingozi evela kuye ayikho ngaphantsi. Yaye ukuba uthe wagxininisa ukuba uyaphuza ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ungatsho ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba le ngenye yezixhobo eziyingozi kakhulu.
Iziphumo zobunxila bomntwana
Utywala ngumxinzelelo omkhulu kumzimba womntwana. Ubangela ukuphazamiseka kwiinkqubo zokutya kunye neentsholongwane. Kwaye kwiimeko ezinzima zenza ukuba utshintsho olungenakuguquka kwi-isibindi (cirrhosis) kunye nengqondo (utywala obunxilisayo).
Unyango lotywala obuntwaneni lwenziwa esibhedlele. Ngenxa yobudala, akunakwenzeka ukusebenzisa zonke izilwanyana. Ngoko ke, ukusetyenziswa kwezindlela zokulwa nezi sifo kusetyenziswa.
Ukuthintela utywala komntwana
Okona kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthintela ubuhlobo obusondeleyo, othembekileyo kunye nabazali. Ukuba umntwana wakho unokwabelana naye nayiphi na ingcaciso ngaphandle kokwesaba, xelela ngeengxaki zakhe namava, ngoko akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kumkhumbula ngaphandle kokulawula. Kananjalo unokumchazela "okulungileyo nokubi".