Isikhumbuzo somtshato sihlandlo esikhulu sokuqokelela izihlobo kunye nabahlobo bethu, kwaye kulo moya ofudumeleyo kufuneka sibhiyozele esi siganeko esihle. Ukongezelela, umkhumbuzo womtshato ubonisa ubungqina bunyunyano lwentsapho kunye noluthando phakathi kwabatshatileyo. Kwiintsapho ezininzi, le holide iphathwa ngokuhlonipha okukhulu.
Ngonyaka ngamnye olandelayo, usapho luyaqina kwaye lunamandla. Kwimimandla yanamhlanje, kuyisiko lokubhiyozela imihla yomtshato - 5, 10, 15, iminyaka eyi-25. Ukuphawula okanye ukungaqwalasela eminye imihla yinto yangasese yabatshatileyo.
Yintoni enokuyinikela ukukhumbula umtshato? - lo mbuzo uceliwe ngumntu wonke owamkele isimemo kulo mbhiyozo obalulekileyo obusapho. Isikhumbuzo ngasinye somtshato sinegama layo, esineenkcukacha zento yokunikela. Oku kunceda kakhulu ukukhangela umboniso kwaye kukuvumela ukuba unikeze isipho esihle kunazo zonke zomcimbi womtshato.
Yintoni ongayinika umcimbi wokuqala womtshato?
Umsitho wokuqala wonyaka ubizwa ngokuba ngumtshato wekotoni. Igama lifanekisela ukuba isilikhi yatshintshwa ngu-chintz, kwaye imicu edibanisa abafazi isomelezwa. Kwakhona, igama lithetha ukuba kulo nyaka lo mbhangqwana sele sele uqhotyoshelane, njengokuba ikotoni yinto yokutya kwansuku zonke.
Isipho sokukhumbula umtshato wokuqala kufuneka sibe yimpahla. Iilinen zebhedi, iimpahla zokulala, amathala kunye nezinye iirakhi eziyimveliso zona khetho olukhethekileyo kulo nyaka.
Yintoni ongayibonisa umcimbi wesibini womtshato?
Umhla weminyaka emibini yomtshato kuthiwa ngumtshato wephepha. Ngaloo mini kuyinto yesiko ukunika izipho kwiphepha nekhadibhodi. Izipho ezilungileyo kunomdla wesibini lomtshato ziincwadi.
Njengomhla wokuqala nowesibili, akukho kunzima ukukhetha isipho seminye imihla. Ngoko, ngomnyaka wesithathu (umtshato wesikhumba) kuyinto yesiko ukunika izipho esikhumbeni. Ngosuku lwesine (umtshato welinen) - iimveliso ezenziwe ngefelk kunye neentyantyambo. Ngomnyaka wesihlanu (umtshato womthi) - iimveliso ezivela emthini, iintlobo ezahlukahlukeneyo zokukhumbula. Kwaye njalo.
Ngomhla wokukhumbula umtshato, unokuza nesinye isipho sokuqala. Kuye wonke umntu ugcina isithethe kunye nezipho kulezi zipho zomhla eziqaqambileyo, ngokusekelwe kwigama lomkhumbuzo. Njengesipho sokukhumbula umtshato, abahlobo banokunika kunye nezixhobo zasemakhaya, nemali, kunye neemkhumbuzo, kunye nezinto eziyimfuneko zekhaya. Ngezantsi zizinto ezahlukileyo neziqhelekileyo zezipho zokukhumbula umtshato:
- uhambo lomtshato. Ukuba unako iindlela ezifanelekileyo, unako ukunika abahlobo bakho umkhosi wokutshata umtshato okanye iholidi ehostela. Ikhetho elincinane kunamathokiti ekhonsathi, iqela okanye i-movie;
- isipho sobugcisa. Isipho sobuhle singaboniswa kunye nesipho esisisiseko. Izinto ezihlekisayo okanye ezihlekisayo zokubomi bemihla ngemihla, isikhumbuzo esilumkiso, umfanekiso wesithokozo kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi ziya kubangela ukukrokra ebusweni babenzi bokubhiyozela. Izipho ezintle ziyakuthengwa kwiivenkile ezizodwa;
- isidlo sothando esitokisini. Esi sipho siyabakho nawuphi na umcimbi womtshato. Kulo mcimbi, umntu kufuneka akhethe iziko apho abakhethiweyo bakhetha ukuhamba ngaphambi komtshato wabo. Kubo, oku kuya kuba sisihlandlo sokukhumbula ezo zihlandlo xa bebathandana kakhulu kunye kunye nobudlelwane babo baqala ukuphuhlisa;
- isipho ngezandla zakho. Apha ungabandakanya ukucinga kwakho ngokuzeleyo. Into ephambili kukuba isipho sibonakalisa amandla omanyano osapho kunye nobunye bomtshato.
Iimbono ezilungileyo zezipho zokukhumbula umtshato zingatholakala kwiivenkile ze-intanethi, kwaye wabelane ngeengcamango zakho kwaye uxoxe ngezipho ezingcono kakhulu ongayenza kwi-forum yethu. Into ephambili, ngexesha lokunikezwa kwesipho somtshato womtshato kubangani, baxelele entliziyweni isilwanyana esihle-ke isipho siya kunika into enomdla.