Ixesha leentlanganiso kunye nokutyelela, mhlawumbi ixesha elihle kakhulu nelinomdla ebomini ngamnye wesifazane. Le mizila engapheliyo, ingxoxo eninzi malunga nento, iintyatyambo nezipho, ngegama-uthando. Ndicinga ukuba nganye intombazana ikhumbula umhla wakhe wokuqala. Umsindo weemvakalelo kunye nombuzo ofanayo rhoqo, yintoni ukugqoka ngomhla?
Ewe, kuninzi kuxhomekeke kumhla wokuqala, ngoko kuyaqhelekileyo ukuba intombazana ihamba nayo, kuba ufuna ukukholisa wakhethayo. Ngoko, ungayifaka njani umhla?
Yintoni enxiba ngomhla ohlobo?
- Ihlobo libhekwa njengona xesha liphumelele kakhulu ekuthandaneni, xa kukho amathuba amaninzi. Enyanisweni, naphi na apho uya khona, ewe, ukuba ayikho ikhonkethi yedwala, ngoko unokugqoka ngokukhuselekileyo i-sarafan ekhanyayo eya kugxininisa ubufazi bakho kwaye ikunike ububele.
- Ungalibali malunga nomgaqo omnye obalulekileyo - musa ukudibanisa imibala engaphezu kwemibala emfanekisweni wakho, ngaphandle koko unamathuba onke okubukeka ngathi i-parrot. Ukuba uhamba ngomhla wokuqala, kungcono ukuba ungazami, kodwa ukhethe izinto ozizithembayo.
- Izithende zihlala zigxininisa imilenze emihle, ngoko ukhethe izicathulo ezifanelekileyo zeesanti zakho.
- Ukuhamba ngosuku ehlobo, khetha ezo zixhobo eziza kugxininisa ukukhanga kwakho. Kodwa, ungagqoki ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba awufuni umntu ukuba acinge ngawe njengenqabileyo kwaye efikeleleka kalula.
- Kwakhona, amadoda ayamthanda kakhulu amantombazana athile, ngoko uzama ukubheka nje kuphela, kodwa ucocekile. Indlela oyazi ngayo ukudibanisa imibala, izinto kunye nezixhobo kubo ziya kukuxelela ngentsingiselo yakho enhle.
Zama ukuchukumisa iqabane lakho kuqala uze ulinqobe ngelizwe lakho elithe tye.
Yintoni enxiba ngomhla wokuwa?
- Ukuba unamenywa kwiintlanganiso ekuwa, ngokokuqala kufuneka ufumane apho kuya kwenzeka khona, ukuze ube nethuba lokuthabatha ingubo efanelekileyo. Ukuba imozulu ifudumele, ngoko ngokuqinisekileyo intlanganiso iya kwenzeka kwindalo, ngoko ke ukhethe ingubo yemozulu.
- Ukuba imozulu igqamile kwaye insizwa iyakumema kwivenkile yokudlela, ngoko akufanele ugube ijee kunye nejira. Gqoka ingubo egqwesileyo , izicathulo ezintle eziphezulu , kunye neengubo eziphezulu zokugqoka, zibeke i- bolero , iingubo okanye iingubo zokukwindla.
- Ukwenza ukukhanya kunye nekhanda elimnandi liya kuhlala longezelela kwicala lakho. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ungazenzeli iinwele ezinkulu, ukuba unqwenela ukuya kwikhenkethi, kuya kubonakala kukukhohlakele. Kodwa ukulungiswa kakuhle kweenwele kunye neenwele ezenziwe ngendlela efanelekileyo kuyimfuneko efunekayo.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni ndifuna ukukhankanya enye into ebaluleke kakhulu, yintoni iimpahla zokubeka umhla?
Okokuqala, uhlamba kufuneka lukhululekile, ukuze kungabangeli nto. Okwesibini, enhle. Izambatho zangaphantsi ezimnandi ziza kukunika ukuzithemba eziza kuthintela ukuziphatha kwakho ngexesha leentlanganiso. Ngoko ke, xhobisa ngokuzeleyo kwaye uhambe ngemini ngokuzonwabisa!
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