Ngamnye wethu amaphupha obomi obonwabileyo kunye nomntu othandekayo nokuba yonke into ibe njengengqungquthela yomtshato kunye nasemva komtshato, kwaye emva kwayo. Kungenxa yoko, sixhalabele ukuqala kosuku olusisigxina - umhla womtshato okanye umtshato. Kwaye ke, sizama ukufumana iimvumi zolonwabo lwexesha elizayo lobomi bentsapho kwimimiselo yomtshato, apho kukho ezininzi kumtshakazi nomyeni. Kukholelwa ukuba abo baziyo nokusebenzisa iinkolelo ezithandwayo abakwazi ukukhangela inhlanhla kuphela , kodwa banokuphepha ingxaki. Ngako oko, iinkolelo ezithandwayo zifanele ukwazi, kwaye mhlawumbi zikholelwa kwizinto ezilungileyo kakhulu.
Impawu zomtshato ezenziwa ngumtshakazi
Ukuze usuku oluhle lube mnandi, kwaye ubomi bentsapho bufana ne-honeymoon, qiniseka ukuba ufunde izi zilandelayo kunye nezilumkiso:
- Thenga kuphela izindandatho ezipholileyo. Emva koko, ezi mpahla zibonakalisa indlela yakho eqhelekileyo. Ngoko ke, ukuba ufuna ukuhlala kwimpumelelo nokuzonwabisa, indlela yokuphila ifanele ibe yinto elula.
- Ungabonisi umyeni wakho ingubo yakho, kwaye ngosuku lwakho lomtshato awubukeli kwisibuko "kwindawo epheleleyo" ngaphambi kokuba umtshato wakho ube sesikweni. Susa iglavu okanye isicathulo, ngaphambi kokuba ulungise iinwele, ukwacetyiswa yonke impawu yomtshato esichazela ngesambatho somtshakazi kunye nesimo somyeni.
- Izicathulo zomtshakazi emtshatweni kufuneka zibe ngaphandle kweentambo kunye nesithende esivaliweyo, ngoko kunjalo nawuphi na, ucebise iimpawu.
- Musa ukuthenga izicathulo njengezicathulo zomtshato, ngaphandle koko, ubomi bentsapho bodwa buya kuba "bengahlambulukanga," oko kukuthi, ihlwempu.
- Qinisekisa ukuba uthabathe izihlangu ezithengwe umtshato. Oku kuya kukunceda, kokubili ukuhlaziya ngeenyawo zobusuku, kunye neentlungu ezinobomi bentsapho.
- I-omen imbi ibonwa ukuba ngaba abasandul 'ukutshata banxibe iingubo okanye iiparele emtshatweni wabo. Ngokutsho kweenkolelo kuza kuzisa iintlungu kunye nokudumala.
- Musa ukujonga emva, umzuzu xa ushiya indlu ndawonye ukuya kwi-ofisi yokubhalisa. Lo myalelo omdala ogcina umtshakazi nomyeni entweni ekhohlakeleyo, ngoko ke nangona umntu ekubizayo, musa ukuphendula kwaye ujonge phambili.
- Ngaphambi kokuba ube ngumyeni nomfazi, yidla i-tsholeta encinane okanye i-candy. Yenza nje kunye. Ixela ubomi obuhle, uthando kunye nokuvisisana.
Ngaba kufuneka ndikholelwe impawu?
Iimveli ezicebisa ukuba njani kunye nendlela esenza ngayo emtshatweni, ezininzi. Kukho phakathi kwabo abasiprofetayo ubomi obukhululekile kunye nobumnandi bodwa, kukho abo ba khuselayo baze basikhusele. Ngokomzekelo, izikhonkwane ezininzi zikhonkxa kwiingubo ngosuku olusisigxina, njengendlela yokulungisa isohlo elibi, njengeencwadi ezininzi ezicebisa. Okanye qinisekisa ukuba akukho mntu ngaphandle kwezalamane ezisondeleyo ezingalunganga iimpahla zomtshakazi, ukwenzela ukuba angabangela ingxaki. Kodwa ngaba simele sikholwe yonke into eyenziwa ngabagogo bethu? Ngaba kukufanelekile ukuba unenkolelo kangaka?
Iimpawu kunye neenkolelo, kubandakanyekile ukuba zifunde ngaphambi komtshato, kulungile ukuba umtshakazi, kunye nomyeni, kunye nokugcina izithethe zesiRashiya. Kodwa, ngokubaluleke kakhulu, khumbula ukuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni usuku olusemthethweni lomtshato wakho, ubomi obulandelayo uya kuba
Ngako oko, akunandaba ukuba uthenge isanti yezonqanda kunezicathulo, okanye ukhangele ngephanyazi kwisibuko, okanye umyeni wakho wenqatshelwe ukuba adle ithokoleta. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba umntu ngamnye unokuzimela ngokuzimela ngokuphila kwakhe njengokuba akuthandayo, ngaphandle kokuvuma nokuqikelela .
Kukho enye into ebaluleke ngakumbi. Kwaye kukuba abantu abakholelwa ngokukholelwa ekukholweni bayaziqhelisa ngokwabo ukuhluleka. Ngako oko, imiqondiso inokuthenjwa, kodwa umntu akanakholwa ngokungaqinisekiyo.