Abantu abaninzi abazi ukuba yintoni ukugweba , nangona le nto ibonakala iyinto eqhelekileyo kuluntu lwethu kunye nakwimilinganiselo ethile malunga nabantu bonke. Oku kukhankanya, ukugxilwa kwezinto ezibalulekileyo eziza ku funeka zenziwe. Ngenxa yoko, oku kubangela iingxaki ezinzulu, zombini ebomini nasemisebenzini yobugcisa.
Kwaye akunjalo ubuvila?
Hayi, ubuvila kunye nokuzinyameka izinto ezihluke ngokupheleleyo. Ukuba umntu akenzi nto ngenxa yobuvila, uziva kakuhle, uzonwaba ngokuphumla. Ngokuchasene noko, umntu ojongene nokuvavanya amava, ukwesaba, okwexesha elide elibangelwa uxinzelelo.
Ngamanye amazwi, umntu ongenamdla uyavuya, engenzi nto, kunye kunye nohlwempuzekileyo kunye nokunyanzelisa ukuhlala ecatshulwa yesazela, ukufuna ukuba kuthathwe inyathelo ngokukhawuleza, kodwa umntu "akanamandla" oku.
Iimpawu
Ngenxa yoko, ukuba kukho ingxaki - ukugweba, - iimpawu zayo kufuneka zaziwe ngabantu bonke.
Umntu ojongene nale ngxaki yengqondo, ufuna ukuhlehlisa zonke iimeko ezibalulekileyo "kamva", ngakumbi ukuba kukho ixesha elide lokuphunyezwa kwazo. Usebenzisana nantoni na, kodwa ayimfuneko. Uxhoma i-VKontakte okanye kwi-Odnoklassniki, ubeka i-solitaire, uxelela oogxa bakhe malunga nokukhula onogwaja okanye ukusela itiye. Ngamanye amazwi, kunzima ukulibaziseka ixesha xa kusadingeka ukuba uye kwi shishini.
Ngenxa yoko, unganqongophala ukuba enze wonke umsebenzi ngexesha elikhawulezileyo, elithintela ngokusemgangathweni umgangatho walo kwaye kubangele ukugxekwa kwabasemagunyeni okanye ukungathandeki kootitshala, ukuba ngumbuzo othi ubani ofundayo.
Le meko ayenziwanga ngezinye iinkqubo (umsebenzi othile awuthandiyo), kodwa rhoqo kwaye ngenxa yoko kubangela ukuba kube nemiphumo emibi yengqondo.
Yintoni endiyenzayo?
Ngokuphathelele izizathu zaloo nto, izazinzulu zineengcinga ezifanayo. Bambiza abahlukeneyo, kwaye akukho nhlobo enye ichaza zonke iinkcukacha. Ngoko, ngaphandle kokungazi ukuba kukuthintela ukuthini njengengxaki yengqondo, yintoni imvelaphi yayo, akunakwenzeka ukuqeda imbangela yayo kwaye kubalulekile ukusebenza nemiphumo yayo.
Ukuze unqobe ukukhawuleza, ngokuqhelekileyo kucetyiswa ukuba kusetyenziswe iindlela zokulawula ixesha , ziyafumaneka kwi-Intanethi. Isitshixo sawo sibheka kwinto yokuba yonke into iyimfuneko - yonke into, enkulu kunye ncinane, - ukwahlula ishishini kumaqela amane:
- Kubalulekile kwaye kungeyona ingxamiseko (ukuphumelela kwiziko, ukuba yintloko yeSebe ...).
- Kubalulekile kwaye kuphuthumayo (gqibela idiploma, yithenge iyeza, thabathe ingxelo ...).
- Akubalulekanga kwaye iphuthumayo (uye kumbhiyozo, jonga ifilimu yakho oyintandokazi ...).
- Ingabalulekanga kwaye ingeyona ingxamiseko (ngokuphindaphindiweyo "chronofagi" (abadli bexesha): ncokola kwifowuni okanye ncokola enetheni, ncokola kunye neentengiso, ukudlala amakhadi ...).
Ngokusekelwe kuhlalutyo lwamaxesha, uluhlu lwamatyala ludwetshiwe, luqala ngokubalulekayo kwaye oluphuthumayo. Yaye iyazaliseka, kodwa ivela kuyo nayiphi na ukubala ukuba amacala avela kumaqela ahlukeneyo ahlukile. Ngexesha elifanayo kuyimfuneko ukuhambelana nemimiselo uze uqiniseke ukuba unike ixesha lokuphumla.