Ukuphathwa kwexesha kubafazi

Umntu wanamhlanje uye wasetyenziselwa ukugcina phantsi kokulawula konke, okokuphela kuphela kunokwenzeka - iimvakalelo zakhe, ukuphendula kwiingcinezelo. Kwaye ngoncedo lolawulo lwexesha unokuziva ngathi ungokoqobo lwenkosikazi.

Ulawulo lwexesha lamadoda kunye nabasetyhini, ngaba kukho ukumahluko?

Kubonakala ngathi iindlela zolawulo lwexesha zifana nomntu wonke, ngoko kutheni kubekho ukwahlula kumlawuli wabesilisa nabafazi bexesha labo? Inyani kukuba ukuphathwa kwexesha kumadoda kubandakanya ukucwangcisa iiyure zokusebenza. Kwaye abafazi baquka imibandela yasekhaya apha, ixesha lokulawulwa kwabasetyhini akuyona indlela efanelekileyo yokulawula ixesha, kodwa indlela yokuphila.

Iisiseko zolawulo lwexesha kubafazi

Imigaqo ephambili yolawulo lwexesha iya kuba yinto efanayo kwinduna kunye nomfazi wendlu.

1. Qinisekisa ukuba uceba ixesha lakho. Bhala ubusuku ngaphambi kokuba konke okufuneka uyenze ngosuku olulandelayo. Kwaye, fundani ukucwangcisa ngempumelelo: musa ukubamba inani elikhulu lamatyala, khangela ezinye iindlela. Okokuqala uzenzele uluhlu "olunzima," oko kukuthi, yintoni okufuneka uyenze ngexesha elithile. Ngokomzekelo, iintlanganiso kunye nabaxumi, ingxoxo yeprojekthi kunye nabasemagunyeni, ukulungiselela isidlo sakusihlwa (isidlo sakusihlwa, isidlo sakusasa), tyelela kwi-stomatologist. Yongeza isicwangciso sohla ngemihla "uluhlu" lwemiba, oko kukuthi, umsebenzi ongenziwa nanini na. Amatyala alungiselela ngokubaluleka.
2. Ukuba uphazamiseka kwisicwangciso esicwangcisiweyo, imibuzo yomsebenzi, uncedo lunokuthi "ifulegi ebomvu". Uyavuma ukuba malunga neeyure ezingama-2 ngosuku awukwazi ukuyichukumisa, kuba ngeli xesha ulungiselela ingxelo (uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali, hlola uqikelelo). Ukuze abasebenzi babone ukuba uxakeke, faka uphawu lwesimo etafileni (ibhokisi yokukhangela, ikhadi leposi, inqaku "andiyiyo"), kwaye ufake ifowuni kumatshini wokuphendula.
3. Ukucwangciswa, abasebenzi bayalumkisa, kodwa ixesha alaneleyo? Khangela oko "idla" imizuzu yakho, gcina iirekhodi zokusetyenziswa kwexesha lokusebenza. Mhlawumbi ukhangelelana nge-imeyile rhoqo, unomkhuba wokuncibiliza ingubo yakho yangaphantsi kwaye uxoxe nentombi yakho kwifowuni, ngaloo ndlela ukulibazisa umsebenzi ophezulu. Khangela oko kukuthintela ukusebenzisa ixesha ngokufanelekileyo, wakhe umsebenzi wakho ukuze kungabi nanyathelo eliphindaphindiweyo. Ngaba ufuna ukuxoxa ngxaki - makabe bonke abasebenzi (amalungu omndeni) bathatha inxaxheba kwingxoxo, banomdla kuyo, ukuze bangabi nciphisa ixesha eliphindaphinda zabo iinkcazo.
4. Igunya lokudlulisa. Mhlawumbi ubeka ingqalelo kwizinto ezincinci abanye abakwenzela zona. Ngokuvisisana, ekubeni yintloko yesebe, akunakulungele ukufumana yonke into encinane kule projekthi ngokwakho, kungcono ukwabela umqeshwa onoxanduva oya kuqokelela yonke inkcazelo ebalulekileyo kuwe. Yenza yonke imisebenzi yesikolo ayimfuneko - ukuhlamba isitya emva kokuba indoda ingakwazi. Ngokufanayo, umntwana kufuneka afunde ngokuzimela, awuyi kugijima emva kwakhe kude kube seminyaka.
5. Ngexesha lolawulo kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokufundisa ezikunceda ukuqonda kangcono imigaqo-siseko. Omnye wabo uphakamisa ukujongana ubuncinane kunye ne "grog" ngosuku. "I-Frog" ngumsebenzi ongenakuthandwa kakhulu, esihlala siwuyeka "ngomso" - ukucoca, ukuthetha nomthengisi onobungozi. Funda ubuncinane kanye ngemini ukususa kwiingxaki zengxowa enye "enje".
6. Qiniseka ukuba uzidumise ngokwakho okwenzileyo. Emva kwentlanganiso ephumelelayo, siphuze ikhofi kunye nekhekhe, ubhale ingxelo ngeqela lamanani, uphume emoyeni emoyeni. Qinisekisa ukuthatha ikhefu emsebenzini kwaye ungathathi iintsuku zoshishino. Vumela iSabatha kunye neCawa ibe yimini onokuphumla ngayo.

Iincwadi ezifanelekileyo kwixesha lolawulo

Kwinqaku, ungatsho kuphela ngezinto eziphambili zexesha lokulawula, ngesihloko sinzulu kakhulu kwaye sinomdla. Ingcaciso engakumbi ngombuzo, ukuqonda intsingiselo, iya kunceda iincwadi ezifanelekileyo kwixesha lolawulo. Nazi ezinye zazo.

• "Ukufikelela njani kwiziphumo" - Mark Forster;
• "Izakhono ezisixhenxe zabasebenzi abaphezulu" - uStephen Covey;
• "Indlela yokubeka izinto ngokufanelekileyo: ubugcisa bokuvelisa ngaphandle koxinzelelo" - uDavid Allen;
• "Ixesha lokuqhuba: indlela yokulawula ukuhlala nokusebenza" - UGleb Arkhangelsky;
• "Ulawulo olupheleleyo, isicwangciso sangeveki sokulwa nemingcipheko emsebenzini, ekhaya nasekhanda" - uRegina Leeds.