Ukungabikho kwesondo ebomini bomntu ngqo kuthintela imeko yakhe yengqondo. Kwimpilo nganye, kwakukho kwaye kukho ixesha apho kungekho buhlobo obusondeleyo, kwaye kwithuba elizayo alindelekanga, apho kuyimfuneko ukwazi indlela yokunciphisa uxhatshazo ngokwesini.
Kukho iindlela ezintle zokujongana nale ngxaki:
- Zifumana umntu onokuhlangabezana nayo iimfuno zakho, kodwa akukho. Ngaloo ndlela, ngokwenene, kukho abafazi abaye bahluke ngokungazimeli kunye nokungabikho kwezakhiwo. Namhlanje, kukho amadoda amaninzi aphinde akhangele amaqabane kuphela ngesondo, ngoko ukukhangela akuyi kudala. Mhlawumbi umntu ucinga ukuba olu khetho, njengowesifazane ukuba asuse ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini, ayilungile, kodwa uyasebenza.
- Enye indlela yokuziphatha ngokwesini , kodwa inezinto ezininzi eziphosakeleyo. Ngokomzekelo, unokufumana udumo njengentombazana enhle kakhulu, suleleka nasiphi na isifo kwaye usitshintshe nesimo sakho sengqondo sesondo. Ngoko ke, olu khetho lokususa uxhatshazo ngokwesini, akufanele lube ngumthetho kuwe, kodwa kunokuba lube lukhetho.
- Inketho elandelayo, indlela yokulahla ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini, mhlawumbi ifaneleka wonke umntu-ukwaneliseka. Izinzuzo zolu khetho:
- ungasebenzisa le ndlela nangaliphi na ixesha;
- Ukwazi umzimba wakho, unokuzonwabisa ngokukhawuleza.