Ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva, umntu ngamnye ucinga malunga nendlela umdlalo owenziwa ngayo intombazana. Lo mbandela awuhambelananga nje kuphela ekufikeni ubuntwaba-banomdla kwindlela yokubonisa ubulunga kwiqabane lawo. Kodwa iingcinga zolu hlobo, ngokuchasene nombono oqhelekileyo, ngokuqhelekileyo zifika engqondweni yengcamango enhle, kuba kungenxa yempilo yakhe kunye nomtsalane.
Iindlela zabasetyhini abanomdla
Inomdla yowesifazane ibonakala kwizigaba eziliqela. Okokuqala, ibhinqa kufuneka ikwazi ukuziva umzimba wayo, yayazi imimandla ephazamisayo. Olu lwazi yindlela yokuzonwabisa.
Ukuze ujonge intombazana ofuna ukuyikhathaza umzimba wonke: intamo, emva kweendlebe, isifuba, i-elbow fold, iminwe, emuva. Inqaku elivuyisayo kubafazi basendaweni ezahlukeneyo. Ukuzifumana, zama ukukhathazeka, ukuphulaphula umzimba wakho, phumula, uhlambe. Umzimba uya kusabela, kukunika uvuyo olukhulu.
Ibhinqa ayinanto yecala, kuninzi. Ngethuba lomxhesho ophezulu, umzimba wesetyhini uvalele ngokupheleleyo. Yintoni intokazi evakalelwa ngayo xa evuyayo, inokubonakala ngokukhawuleza - ukuguquka kokuziphatha, uyayiphendula ngokunyanisekileyo kwintetho yintanda ethandekayo, umzimba wayo uphendule ngokukhawuleza ukunyamezela. Kumele azive nothando kunye nesimo sengqondo esikhethekileyo kuye ngexesha lokuqulunqwa, indoda kufuneka imqinisekise ngokuhamba kwayo kunye namazwi.
Indlela yokujamelana nokuzonwabisa
Yintoni enokuyenza kunye nolonwabo luyaziwa ngabathandi abanobuchule abanomzimba wabo. Kukho imibala emininzi apha, kodwa ukuba ufuna ukukrazula ngokupheleleyo umnqweno omkhulu, zama ukutshintsha iingcamango zakho kwenye. Ukuvuswa kwezesondo ngumsebenzi wengqondo kunye nenkqubo yesifo. Ngako oko, uvuyo olunamandla lunokupheliswa ngcamango ethile. Unokulawula njani umonakalo oza kukuphazamisa ngokutshatyalaliswa kweemvakalelo ezithandekayo ngexesha elingekho mfuneko? Cinga ngezinto ezibalulekileyo, gxininisa. Ukongezelela, ukuxinezeleka, uxinzelelo, ukuxhalabisa, iingxaki, ukuxhalabisa ngokwexhala kukuphazamisa ukuvuswa kwesondo.