Abazali bahlala belinde ngokuthuthumela ngenxa yamanyathelo okuqala omntwana, lo mzuzwana ubonakala ngathi luhlobo lomda, esithi umntwana ukhule. Ukuze ufikelele esi siganeko esibalulekileyo, umama uholele umntwana ngeeyure, exhasa inkxaso, okanye elula umsebenzi wakhe ngokuthenga abantwana abahambahambayo. Kodwa umbuzo wokuba umntwana ohambayo ufuna umntwana usuvule ixesha elide: oogqirha baneengcamango ezifanayo, oomama bahluke, abavelisi bempahla yabantwana baneengcamango sesithathu. Ukuze ukwazi ukuyibeka ingcamango yombono wakho, makhe siqwalasele ngokubanzi umxholo: abahambahambayo- "ngokuba" kunye "nokuchasene."
Iziphakamiso ze-Walker
Ukuqala ngoku siza kuqwalasela, kutheni kufuneka i-kittens iyimfuneko, kwaye siza kubhala uluhlu lwezinto ezintle zokuveliswa:
- Ngona umama onothando ukhathala ngamaxesha onke, abahambahamba banikela ithuba lokukhulula izandla zabo ixesha elithile baze baphumle okanye benze izinto eziyimfuneko.
- Umntwana ufuna ukuba kwindawo ebonakalayo ukuze abone ihlabathi elijikelezileyo, abahambahamba banelisa le mfuno.
- Kwakhona kumntu ohambahambayo unako ukusebenza kakhulu, okubaluleke kakhulu kuye.
- Ngandlela-thile, abahambahambayo banokukhusela umntwana, isakhelo sisebenza njengesigxina, singavumeli umntwana ukuba afumane izinto eziyingozi.
Iingxabano malunga noMhambi
Ngelishwa, ukuhlalutya nokuba ngabahambahambayo benza ingozi okanye okulungileyo, iingxabano "ngokuchasene" zininzi kakhulu:
- Ukusetyenziswa kwabahambahambayo kubangela umthwalo ogqithiseleyo kwisantya somntwana kunye nesistim se-musculoskelet yonke, ngenxa yeso sizathu esingaba sisiphumo.
- Abahambahamba banokubangela ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza kokuhamba ngokuzimela, ekubeni umntwana akufanele nje afunde indlela yokuhamba, kodwa ufunde ukuhamba ngaphandle kwenkxaso.
- Into elandelayo eyenziwa ngabahambahambayo kukuphulwa komsebenzi we-cerebellum. Umntwana, ehamba ngokungaqhelekanga ngenkxaso, akafundi ukugcina ibhalansi, ngoko ke i-cerebellum iphantsi ihambelana nokuhamba.
- Ingxabano engentla ngenjongo yokuba uhambahamba aqinisekise ukuba ukhuseleko lolutsha luya kwelinye icala - abahambahambayo banokungena kunye nokulimaza umntwana.
- Ngokumangalisayo, ngelixa umntwana efunda ukuhamba, kufuneka afunde ukuwa. Kwiminyaka emncinci, ngelixa ukuwa kungengozini, kubalulekile ukufunda indlela yokwenza iqela, kodwa kuhambahamba ezi zakhono azifumaneki.
Zonke ezi ngasentla zibhekiselele kwimimiselo yenyama, kodwa iingqondo zeengqondo zikholelwa ukuba umbuzo wokuba unobungozi ukubonelela abantwana abahambahambayo kufuneka uqikelele kwinqanaba lokujonga uluntu:
- Ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo epheleleyo yengqondo yomntwana, kubalulekile ukuhamba kwinqanaba lokukhwela, xa kuqhagamshelana ukuxilongwa kweengqondo zengqondo. Ukuba eli nqanaba lixesha elifutshane okanye alikho, ngexesha elide umntwana ubhekane neengxaki ngokujonga ulwazi kunye noqeqesho.
- Ukuphuhliswa kokuvisisana komntwana, ukunyakaza kufuneka kube yinto eyahlukeneyo, ukuzithemba kwezinto ezihambahambayo kubathinteli, kuthintela kwezinye izinto, ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo.
- Xa umntwana ekhwela kwi-toy eqaqambileyo kunye nemigudu, ufunda ukufezekisa injongo ekujoliswe kuyo, kwii-carts kulula kakhulu ukuba ufinyelele injongo, ngenxa yokuba imiba engokwengqondo yokubunjwa kobuntu iphulwa.
Iingcebiso zokusebenzisa umhambahambayo
Kakade, akubona bonke abazali abanethuba lokuyeka ngokupheleleyo abahambahambayo. Nangona kukho konke ukungalungi, izibonelelo zabo azikwazi ukuxhaswa. Kule meko, ama-orthopedists ancoma ukugcina imiqathango yokunciphisa ingozi. Okokuqala, izifo ze-musculo-