Cishe zonke iinkonzo azixhomekekanga nje kwezinye iicawa, kodwa nakwezinto eziphambukayo kwiingxelo zabo zehlabathi. Yingakho onke amacandelo amasonto amatsha abonwa njengento ephikisayo.
Ukuguqulelwa ukusuka kwisiLatini, igama elithi "ihlelo" lithetha "ukufundisa," kwaye eli gama lithetha iqela lenkolo elinemfundiso yalo, ukuchazwa kwalo kwenkolo, ngoko ke lihlula kwiinkonzo zonqulo eziphambili. Inani lamacandelo enkolo namhlanje likhulile ngokukhawuleza, ukongezelela, amanqaku amaninzi namhlanje anokubhekwa njengonakalisayo kwaye akanobungozi.
Amacandelo enkolo enobungozi
Nangona amanye amacandelo enkolo enempembelelo enempembelelo yenkcubeko, ekwakheni izithethe zabantu kunye nokuguquka kwintlangano enokholo (njengokuba, umzekelo, iProtestanti), amanqaku amaninzi anamhlanje angabonakaliswa njengengozi, kuba abaninzi babo abahambisani imithetho yelizwe, kodwa uya kulwa nabo. Lawa mahlelo njengamaNgqina kaYehova, "uMzalwana oMhlophe", njl.
Amanye amacandelo awonakalisa, ngokucacileyo ebiza ubundlobongela, ukunqula amabutho amnyama, njl njl. ("Ibandla likaSathana"). Iimpembelelo eziphazamisayo kubantu ngamanye amaxesha kungekhona nje kwingqondo, kodwa nakwizinga lemvelo. Iinqununu zezi ntshukumo zijwayelene kakuhle neengqondo zezolawulo lwabantu. Injongo yala macandelo kukulawula phezu kobomi bunye ubuqu, ukuzithoba kwimfundiso ebhaliweyo, kunye neenkokheli kunye nobunkokheli. Ukongezelela, enye yeenjongo eziphambili zamacandelo ezinamhlanje ziyanceda kwaye ziyanelisa izifiso zesigxina esincinci sabantu ngokusebenzisa iindlela zenkqubo yokuthengwa kwenethwekhi (inani labantu abandakanyekayo lihambelana ngqo nendawo yakho kwinkqubo yesigidi). Kule nto, iincwadana zikhutshwa, kwaye amahlelo azama ukuguqula (okanye, kunoko, ukubamba) abantu abaninzi ngangokunokwenzeka ezitratweni. Ngaphumelela enye ngaphandle kwekhulu iqinisekisa ukuqhubeka kwecala.
Ulwahlulo lwamacandelo enkolo
Kukho ezininzi izigaba zamacandelo akhona ngezizathu ezithile:
1. Ngexesha lokuvela:
- Classic (ezininzi zala mahlelo ziye zaba yinkolo eyahlukileyo);
- emva kwemfazwe;
- entsha.
2. Imithombo:
- amacandelo ezinkohliso;
- amacandelo eBhayibhili;
- amaHindu angamaqhinga;
- Amacandelo amaKristu;
- eclectic.
3. Kwiengozi kuMbutho:
- nga hlangothi;
- eziyingozi;
- yecawa lokubulala.
Izimpawu zehlelo
- ukuthengiswa kwezenkolo kunye nolawulo lolawulo;
- u bukhosi;
- uxinzelelo lweengqondo;
- Amabango akhethekileyo (ukubandakanyeka kuhambelana nesithembiso sezodwa ezikhethekileyo) kunye nesiphakamiso sokomoya wobuntu;
- Ukucinga okuhlukileyo: "thina singabo";
- uqhagamshelwano oluvaliweyo;
- ulawulo lobomi.
Izimpawu zabantu abachaphazelekayo ngamacandelo atshabalalayo:
- ukulangazelela ubuqhetseba kunye neziganeko ezingavamile;
- imeko yokudandatheka kunye neengqondo ezingaqinisekiyo;
- ukuphakanyiswa okuphezulu;
- imeko yengxaki yobomi (iingxaki zempilo, ukungquzulana kwemindeni okanye yezemali, njl);
- ukuxhatshazwa kweziyobisi (kubandakanywa, kudlula);
- Ubukho babantu abasondeleyo abaye babandakanyeka kweli qela okanye basuswa kuphela ngongcamango.
Ukuba uqaphela ukuba izalamane zakho ziye zawa ngenxa yecawa elithile, akufanele ubangele ubundlobongela, uqale iingxoxo eziphosakeleyo okanye usebenzise izisongelo. Endaweni yoko, hla nganisa ulwazi oluninzi ngemisebenzi yehlelo kwaye, ukuba kunokwenzeka, qhagamshelana neengcali. Ngamanye amaxesha kunceda ukufumana iintsapho zabantu abajongene neengxaki ezifanayo. Ukongezelela, kubaluleke kakhulu ukufuna uncedo kwisifo sengqondo ukuze ulungiswe ngakumbi ukulungiswa kweengqondo. Khawunyamezele kwaye ulumkele intsapho yakho ukukhusela iimeko ezinjalo!