Wonke amaphupha umntu abonelayo angabelana ngamacandelo amabini: abo bathatha ulwazi oluntle kunye neendlela ezikhethileyo malunga neengxaki. Ukuqonda intsingiselo yephupha, kuyimfuneko ukuyichaza ngokuchanekileyo. Ukwenza oku, ngaphandle kwezinto eziphambili, kufuneka uqwalaselwe ezinye iinkcukacha, umzekelo, ukuba ixhala ngephupha malunga nemibala, khumbula indlela abajonga ngayo, apho babekho, kunye nendima yakho kunye nemvakalelo .
Kutheni sifuna iintyatyambo kwiindimbi?
Kwiimeko ezininzi, iphupha elinjalo libhekwa njengesigqirha esihle, esibonisa ukufumana izinto ezintle kunye nokuzonwabisa. Ukufumana iintyatyambo njengesipho kwizimbiza, ngoko unokulindela iindaba ezivela kumntu lowo umphupha engazange ambone ixesha elide. Siza kuqonda ukuba zeziphi iindwendwe ezigulayo ezipilini ziphupha-oku kukudumala kwezinto eziphoxekayo kunye nokulahleka. Ukuba kukho iintyatyambo ezibonakalayo ebhodweni, kufuneka uqikelele ngokunyaniseka komntu othandekayo, mhlawumbi ukukhohlisa. Iphupha apho iintyatyambo kwiibhothi zatshintshile zibonisa ingxaki yempilo. Kubantu abangatshatanga, iphupha apho isityalo esineziqhamo ezingapheliyo, sichaza ukuzalwa kobuhlobo obutsha obuhle. Ukubona indlu yakho, apho kukho iintlobo ezininzi zeentyantyambo kwiibhotile, yinto enobomi obonwabileyo nolonwabileyo. Ukuba kwakufuneka unike umntu intyatyambo ebhodweni ephupheni, ngoko kudala uza kufuna uncedo lokwenene. Umbono wasemhlabeni, owawunesityalo esomileyo ngokupheleleyo ebhodweni, waxwayisa ngeengxaki zemali ezinzulu.
Kutheni ufuna ukuphupha ngeentyantyambo?
Iphupha elinjalo kuthetha ukuba kuya kufuneka usebenze nzima ukwenza ubudlelwane obuqinile. Enye iphupha, apho ndafuneka ndiyisele khona iindidi kwiintonga,
Ziziphi iintyatyambo eziqhakaza kwiibhotile?
Ukuba isityalo siqhakala ngokuluhlaza, kufuneka ulindele ukuhlaselwa okanye ukuhlukana. Izimbali zombala obomvu ephupheni zibonakalisa iimvakalelo ezinzulu. Isityalo sihlanganiswe ngeentyantyambo ezimhlophe, ngoko ke umntu ufumana iimvakalelo ezinamandla kunye nokunyanisekileyo.
Kutheni i ntombazana iphupha ngeentyantyambo ezinentyantyambo ebhodweni?
Kwintombazana eyedwa, iphupha apho kwakukho izimbiza ezininzi kwiifestile kubonisa ubukho beentlambo ezininzi, kodwa nangona kunjalo, kuya kubakho ukufumana umphefumlo wakho umlingane nokudala intsapho eqinile.