Amalungiselelo entsapho nguHeringer

Yonke into entsha inokulibala elidala, kwezinye iimeko nangaphezulu. Kunzima ukucinga, indlela yokwenza ilungiselelo laziwa ngo-5000 kwiminyaka eyadlulayo kwaye yayisetyenziswa ngama-dervishes ase-Asia Ephakathi, kwaye yafumana ukuthandwa kuphela kwi-90 yekhulu lokugqibela. Ngokuqhelekileyo umxholo weenkwenkwezi zentsapho unxulumene negama likaBert Hellinger. Kwakungokungeniswa kwakhe ukuba le ndlela isetyenziswe kwi-psychotherapy. Kodwa, ukongeza kubalandeli, le ndlela inezichasana zeqhinga ezicinga ukuba ukusetyenziswa kwazo akuvumelekanga. Makhe sibone okulungileyo kwindlela yeenkwenkwezi zentsapho yiHeringer kunye nokuba ingaba yingozi njani.

Ingundoqo yendlela yokwenziwa kweenkomfa zentsapho ngeHeringer

Akukho mntu uya kukhanyela ukuba intsapho inempembelelo enkulu ekubunjweni kobuntu, kwaye nayiphi na ingxubusho kuyo ithinta wonke amalungu entsapho, ngakumbi abantwana. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abakwazi ukujamelana neengxabano ngokwabo, kuba abanalo ithuba lokujonga ingxaki ngamehlo omchasi. UBert Hellinger kule njongo usebenzisa indlela yeenkwenkwezi zeentsapho. Isilungiselelo samandulo sithatha ukhetho lwamagosa ngendima yamalungu entsapho yomxhasi. Emva koko, ukubekwa kwenziwa ngokwentetho enembile yophila okanye umxhasi, kwaye ke isekela ngalinye liqala ukubuza iimvakalelo zabo, iingcamango neemvakalelo. Ngaloo ndlela kuvela ukufumana ukudibana phakathi kwelungu ngalinye kwinkqubo.

Izilungiso zeHellinger zingaqhutyelwa kwiqela, kwaye zinokuthi zibe ngabanye. Kwimeko yokugqibela, endaweni yokubambela abantu, amanani, iingcamango, ama-anchors, izihlalo, njl. Kodwa i-Hellinger ilungiselelo elungiselelwe kwifomati yoqeqesho luyakwazi ukuphumelela ngakumbi. Ekubeni kungekho rhoqo ngomsebenzi ngamnye umntu ulawula "ukungena elukhumbeni" komnye.

Kubonakala ukuba yonke into ayimbi, abantu bafumana ithuba lokudibanisa le nkcukacha ngokubanzi, ukufumana kuyo ukuphuma okuya kuhambelana nawo onke amalungu entsapho. Ngaphezu koko, akukho mnye umzekelo, xa amalungiselelo e-Hellenberg ashintshile ubomi bomntu ukuze kube ngcono. Kutheni na ke baninzi abantu abanganelisekiyo abathi le ndlela ibubi?

Iingozi ze-Hellingser Family Constellation Method

Incwadi yokuqala yeHeringer ngeendlela zeenkwenkwezi zentsapho yayibizwa ngokuba ngu "Myalelo woLuthando", kwaye yabeka imigaqo-siseko yale ndlela:

1. Umthetho wokuba ngumntu. Yonke ilungu lentsapho linelungelo lokuba nalo. Ukuba naliphi na ilungu lentsapho lixothwa, abo basalayo banyanzeliswa ukuba bathathe indima yakhe, ngandlela-thile baphinda i-future.
2. Umthetho wolawulo lolawulo. Intsapho entsha inokuqala phambili kundala. Ukuba abantwana, ukusekela intsapho yabo, bahlala benamathele ngakumbi kumzali, ke iingxaki kulutsha olutsha aluphephekiyo.
3. Umthetho wokulinganisela. Ilungu ngalinye lentsapho kufuneka linike inani elifanayo lemali njengoko ayifumanayo.

Ukuphululwa kwezi migaqo kubangela iingxaki kunye neengxabano, kodwa ukufumanisa umthombo wokuphikisana, kubalulekile ukwenza imizamo eninzi. Ngaphezu koko, umsebenzi unzima kakhulu kukuba iimpazamo zenziwa ngaba bantu abangasaphila. Kwi nkqubo iindawo ezikhethiweyo zinyulwa ukuba zenze indima yazo, ngoko ke zininzi ziphazamisekile. I-Bioenergetics inomsindo, ithi le ntshukumo iyafana nokuthanda ngokomoya, ngoko ke abantu bathatha iiprogram zeentsapho ezifayo. Ngenxa yezizathu ezifanayo, i-Orthodoxy ibona ilungiselelo likaHiringer njengento engavumelekanga, kuphela bambalwa kakhulu abanokholo beengqondo beenkolelo ezithembekileyo zokuthatha isigqibo sokusebenzisa iindlela ezithile kule ndlela ekusebenzeni.

Kuliphi iqela elihambelanayo ekujonganeni nawe, kodwa khumbula ukuba ingqondo yomntu yinto efuna unyango olunyamekileyo, ngoko ke akunakulungele ukuthembela kwiinkxalabo zengcali ezingenzi-nzuzo ezizama ukwenza imali kwiingxaki zabantu.