Umtshato womanyano, uvavanyo lweeminyaka, ungabizwa unamandla kwaye unokwethenjelwa. Emva kokufikelela kwinqanaba leminyaka emininzi yokuhlala kunye, ubudlelwane phakathi kwabatshatileyo buba namandla kwaye buqhelanisekile, ngoko bafaniswa nentsimbi eshushu, kwaye umtshato ubizwa ngokuba yintsimbi.
Ukucinga ngombuzo - ingaba iminyaka emininzi kuyimfuneko ukuba uphile ngesandla ukuze ubhiyozele umtshato wesinyithi, impendulo ibe yinye - 65 iminyaka. Kulo thuba ulwalamano phakathi kwendoda nomfazi alusayi kuphulwa, iintliziyo zothando zithandana "ngokukhula" komnye nomnye. Kwiminyaka emide ubudala abafazi bafumana ubunzima kunye neengxaki ezininzi, kodwa ubudlelwane babo buqinisiwe, bafunda ukuxhasa nokunyamekelana, ngoko uhlobo lwentsapho lwabo lunyamezelo lwentsimbi.
Ngenxa yobomi bemizuzu emfutshane, iibini ezibambalwa kuphela ezibhiyozela lo mhla ophawulekayo. Ngoko ke, ukuba uvuyo olunjalo luya kwintsapho yakho, ke uququzelele umthendeleko ongenakulibaleka, ozinikezele kwisiganeko somtshato wootatomkhulu.
Cinga ukuba ubudala bentlokontle abuyi kuvumela ukuba silungise iqela elimnandi, kodwa umthendeleko oqhelekileyo uya kwamkeleka. Qinisekisa ukumema bonke abantwana, abazukulu, abazukulu-nkulu kunye nokuba ngaba banamakhulu amakhulu. Ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuba neentsapho ezivela kwisizukulwana sokugqibela esiya kudibana kuphela okokuqala. Iintlanganiso zokomoya ezinobubele ziyimfuneko kubantu abadala kunye nabantu abaselula, kuba lo ngumzekelo opheleleyo kubafana nabasetyhini bentsapho efanelekileyo. Emva kokubheka abantu asebekhulile, kodwa bevuya gqitha kookhokho babo, ulutsha luya kufunda ukuqonda uthando kunye nentlonipho, ukuqonda ukuba ubomi akufanele kuchitheke kwiimvakalelo ezidlulayo, kodwa kungcono ukudala nokugcina umanyano ohlala njalo.
Ukuqwalasela iminyaka emininzi "abatshangatshangelwe" bhiyozela umtshato wesinyithi, kwaye eli lidala li malunga neminyaka engama-85 ukuya kwe-90, iziganeko eziqingqiweyo zisetyenziswe kakuhle ekhaya okanye kwintsimi. Into ephambili kulo mbhiyozo kukuhlonela kunye nobutyebi okhokho bethu-kubalulekile ukudala umoya wokufudumala kunye nentuthuzelo kumfazi nomyeni ohlonelweyo.
Fumana kwangaphambili malunga neenqweno zentlokontsi, zibuze-mhlawumbi ugogo uya kufuna ukugqoka isigqubuthelo sakhe somtshato, kaninzi kunzima ukufumana kwi-attic, ngenxa yokuba abantu besi sizukulwana bahluke ngo-frugality, kunye nomkhulu-makhulu, mhlawumbi, amaphupha okutshaya i-cigar okanye ukuzama i-rum. Ezi zihluthulelo "zabatshatanga" kufuneka zizaliseke kuqala.
Yintoni ongayinika umtshato wesinyithi?
Ngokuqinisekileyo, isipho esiyinhloko seJubhi siya kuqwalaselwa kwizizukulwana zonke. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abadala abakunakekelwa ngokwaneleyo kubantu babo abasondeleyo, kunomdla ngakumbi ukubona abancinci abalandeli bentsapho. Bambalwa abantu abanethuba elingaqhelekanga lokuqonda abazukulwana-makhulu, ukuba bafakwe kunye nabo kwisithombe.
Njengesipho sokukhumbula umtshato wensimbi, nayiphina imveliso enesinyithi iya kwenza. Isikhumbuzo esihle kakhulu esiyikhunjulwayo siya kuba yintonga yehashe eqoshiwe okanye umfanekiso wesitrato obonisa isibini esithintekayo.
Abaninzi banikela iifowuni zesitrafti, zinezandla ngokubhala umfanekiso wizard. Kulo hlobo lwesakhelo sithombe kufanelekile ukufaka ifoto engavumelekanga yerubhi, umzekelo, i-collage eyenziwe kwiifoto zexesha elihlukeneyo lobomi kunye namacandelo
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Isipho esihle kakhulu kubantu abadala kwixesha elifanelekayo lokuba ngumhla wokuba ngumfanekiso ukuba umculi angabhala ngefoto ukuze angabi nako ukuhamba. Lo mfanekiso unokuqulunqwa ngesakhelo sesinyithi esicwebileyo.