Akukho mnye umama ongeke alinde ngentliziyo ecocekileyo kumntwana wakhe, xa uthetha amagama okuqala. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba umntwana uthini igama lokuqala, lihlala lihlala njalo kwinhliziyo yomama, kunye nokumomotheka kokuqala, ukuhleka kokuqala, isinyathelo sokuqala.
Umama uqala ukuthetha nomntwana ukususela ngexesha lo kuzalwa kwakhe, xa engakwazi ukuziphendulela okwangoku - achaza izenzo zabo, bathethe ngehlabathi elijikelezile, bancedise ngokweencedo zomzimba. Ingane eneminyaka engama-1000 iyamkela kwaye isebenzise ulwimi lwezandla ngokuqaphela, ngokuyifaka ngqalelo kwenyameko lomama, ivakalise isicelo sokwenza okuthile okanye ukuchaza. Ukujamelana nokungaqondani, umntwana uqala ukukhwaza aze aphinde aphinde aphindwe. Xa umntwana efunda intetho, ininzi yesenzo iya kuhlala kwixesha elidlulileyo, kuba unako ukufezekisa into ayifunayo ngamazwi.
Oku kwenzeka ntoni?
Ixesha apho umntwana ethetha ilizwi lokuqala, kuza ngokuqhelekileyo ngaphambi kokuzalwa kokuqala komntwana. Kule minyaka, umntwana uqala ukudibanisa ngamagama amagama alinganayo (ma-ma, pa-pa, ba-ba, ku-ku) kwaye achaze izinto ezithandekayo, izinto, iziganeko, abantu. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo, igama lokuqala lomntwana ngumama, emva koko, ngumama ombona ngokuqhelekileyo, uninzi lwayo uvuyo kunye neemvakalelo zidibene naye. Emva koko intetho yomntwana ibonakala ngamazwi okuqala achaza isimo kunye nemvakalelo yomntu (oh-oh, bo-bo). Xa umntwana ebiza igama lokuqala, kuxhomekeke kwisini somntwana - kuphawulwe ukuba amantombazana aqala ukuthetha phambi kwamakhwenkwe - kwiinyanga ezili-9-10 malunga ne-11-12, kunye neemeko ezijikelezileyo, kunye nenani lentlawulo ehlawulwe kuyo, nakwiimpawu zalo.
Phakathi kwonyaka wesibini wobomi, inkunzi izama ukukhulisa isigama sayo. Ngethuba eliphakathi kwesinye nesiqingatha ukuya kwiminyaka emibini, isitokethi samagama sanda ukusuka kumazwi angama-25 ukuya kuma-90. Ekuqaleni konyaka wesithathu wobomi umntwana sele sele esazi indlela yokwakha isivakalisi sokuqala samagama amabini, ngokunyanisekileyo ukuwadlulisela kwigama elihlanu.
Indlela yokuthetha imvumba?
Indlela yokufundisa umntwana amagama okuqala? Udinga ixesha elingakumbi lokuthetha naye, musa ukuhlambalaza ukuthetha zonke izenzo zakho, funda kumntwana wakho weengoma ezilula kunye nemifanekiso eqaqambileyo. Musa ukulibala malunga nokukhuthazwa kwesikhungo sokuthetha engqondweni ngokuncedisa ukuphuhliswa kwe-motility ye-handles. Ukudlala nebhokhwe kwiminwe yeminwe, ukudweba okanye izinto ezichaphazelayo ezahlukileyo kumgca, usebenze isikhungo senkulumo uze uncede umntwana athethe. Khumbula ukuba bonke abantwana ngabanye, ngamnye unalo ixesha lokuthetha igama lokuqala, kwaye kuya kuba yiphutha elikhulu ukuthelekisa umntwana wakhe kunye nabanye, ukulungiswa kwithemba lokugqithisa ibhokhwe lommelwane. Umonde omncinci kunye nokunyamekela-kwaye amagama okuqala omntwana uya kuba ngumvuzo wakho.