Uninzi lwabantu abanegama elithi "alimony" linxulumene neCawa uPapa kunye neentsapho ezingabodwa. Enyanisweni, kukho into enjalo kuluntu lwethu njengokuhlawula i-alimony kubazali. Indlela inkqubo yokuqokelela eyenzeka ngayo kwaye zeziphi izizathu ezifunekayo kule nto, siza kuxubusha eli nqaku.
Uthini umyalelo onxulumene ne-alimony kusebenza kubazali?
Ngokomgaqo-mthetho, abazali banokuxhomekeka kwinkxaso-mali evela kubantwana babo. Ngelo xesha, abantwana kufuneka babe seminyaka yobudala kwaye baqeshwe. Kukho iindlela ezimbini zokusombulula le ngxaki: amalungu omndeni angavumelana ngokuthula okanye aphendulele kwiintambo zenkundla ukuqokelela isondlo sokugcinwa kwabazali.
I-Alimony yolondolozo ihlawulwa kuphela kubazali abakhubazekileyo. Kule meko, igama elithi "khubazekile" kufuneka liqondwe ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:
- Abazali baxhasi-mali (kuba bafazi baneminyaka engama-55 ubudala, ngamadoda - iminyaka engama-60);
- abazali kunye namaqela okukhubazeka kwam;
- Abazali abanokukhubazeka kweqela III, ngaphandle kokuba bangakwazi ukufumana umsebenzi ogunyazisiweyo yikomishoni yengcali yonyango kunye nezobasebenzi;
- abazali abangazange banqatshelwe amalungelo omzali.
Kodwa le nkqubo ayilula. Inkundla inokukwenqaba ngokukhawuleza intlawulo yommangalelwa. I-Alimony kubazali beempesheni okanye abantu abakhubazekileyo baya kubalwa ngokweemeko ezininzi. Imeko yezinto eziphathekayo, imibutho yengeniso, ubukho okanye ukungabikho kwabaxhomekeke kubantwana, kunye nesimo somtshato sabantu ababini baqwalaselwa.
Inkqubo yokuqokelela isondlo yokugcinwa kwabazali
Isixa sokubambisana kwabazali kubantwana sichazwe yinkantolo kwaye siyanqwenela ukuba ummangalelwa ukuba akhokhe imali ngenyanga. Ukongezelela, ukuba ummangali unabantwana abaninzi, inkundla inokubakhokelela ukuba bahlawule kwakhona, nokuba ngaba ibango laziswa kuphela.
Amanqaku amaninzi kufuneka angeniswe ngokufakela ibango lokuxhaswa kwabantwana kubazali beempesheni okanye abakhubazekileyo. Amaphepha aya kufunwa apho ubudlelwane beentsapho, ukungaphumeleli komzali kuqinisekisiweyo, kunye neirisithi yokuhlawulwa kwentlawulo yelizwe. Kwezinye iimeko, amanye amaxwebhu angadinga.
Isixa sokubambisana kwabazali kubantwana kwiimeko ezininzi kunokungancinci okanye inkundla iya kukhanyela ummangalelwa ngokupheleleyo. Ezi ziquka ukungahambi komsebenzi okanye umvuzo phantsi kwezinga lokuphila labantwana, ukungaphumeleli ukuzalisekisa uxanduva lwabazali kumandulo walommangalelwa. Kwakhona, xa ucacisa inani le-alimony yokugcinwa kwabazali, kubalulekile ukucacisa ngokucacileyo oku kubonisiwe: izigqibo zonyango malunga nesidingo sokwenza unyango okanye ukufumana imishanguzo, ezi ziza kuhlolwa kwizinto zokutya nezambatho, ukutya okunjalo okanye ezinye izizathu. Oku kuya kuseka inani leentlawulo kwaye ziqinisekise ukuba ummangali ufuna uncedo.