Ngolunye usuku i-intanethi yatshutshiswa yiindaba zokuba umntu ohlala e-UAE uqhawule umfazi wakhe emva kokukubona engagqithwanga.
Isibini sasihlalise elunxwemeni e-Sharjah. Umyeni wamangaliswa xa ebona umfazi emva kokuhlamba. Amanzi ahlamba i-makeup yowesifazane, kwaye wabonakala kuqala phambi komyeni wakhe ngaphandle kokwenza. Ubuhle bemvelo bomfazi abuzange bummangalise loo ndoda, kwaye xa ifumene ukuba le ntokazi yayenze iiplastiki ezininzi, kwaye yambethe iilensi ezinemibala kunye ne-eyelashes yamanga, ngokukhawuleza yafuna umtshato.
Nangona kunjalo, izahlulo ngezizathu ezinjalo ezikhohlakeleyo zenzeka kumazwe ase-Arab lonke ixesha. Ukuze ahlukane nomfazi wakhe, kwanele ukuba umyeni wakhe abize igama elithi "Talak" (umtshato) kathathu, kwaye umfazi kufuneka ahambe ngokukhawuleza kwindlu. Nangona kunjalo, ngelo xesha uya kufumana imbuyekezo yemali, echazwe kwisivumelwano somtshato.
Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba amagama abulalayo umyeni uyakhala ngokukrakra, aze agijime ngeenxa zonke enkundleni kunye nesicelo sokuqhawula umtshato ngenxa yokuba unesimo esichaphazelayo.
Yintoni enye enokubangela ukuqhawula umtshato kwisiArabhu?
Ngentsasa emva kobusuku bomtshato
Icandelo elikhankanywe ngasentla alilo linye kuphela lolu hlobo. Kunyaka owedlule i-algeriya yafaka umtshato emva komtshato emva komhla. Watshitshiswa xa, kusasa, emva kobusuku bomtshato, umfazi wakhe wahlamba i-makeup yakhe. Akakwazanga ukumbona.
"Ndicinga ukuba isela lingena kwigumbi lam. Ngaphambi kokutshata, wayebukeka enhle kwaye enomtsalane. "
Enkundleni, umntu okhungathekileyo wayefuna ukuba umfazi angaqhawule kuphela, kodwa kwakhona umvuzo wokulimala kokuziphatha kwama-20,000.
I-photosession yomtshato
Esixekweni saseMedina (eSaudi Arabia), umyeni wachaza ukuba uhambisa umtshato, ngokukhawuleza emva komtshato. Njengoko kudla ngokukwenzeka kumazwe aseArabhu, umtshato wahlelwa ngabazali bancinci kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, akukho mntu unomngcipheko wokuzisa umtshakazi kumyeni. Ngexesha lomthendeleko womtshato, umfaki-zifotshane wabuza abo basandul 'ukutshata ukuba baphonse isigqubuthelo ebusweni bentombazana. Xa umyeni osandul 'uyenzile wenza oko kwaye wabona kuqala ubuso bomfazi wakhe omncinci, ngokukhawuleza wathi:
"Awuyintombazana endifuna ukuyitshata. Ndicinga ukuba uhlukile. Ndiyaxolisa, kodwa ndifuna umtshato. "
I-Smartphone
Omnye indoda evela eSaudi Arabia wagqiba ukuqhawula umtshato ngobusuku bokuqala bomtshato. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba abasandul 'ukutshata bathathe umhlala-phantsi kwigumbi labantu abasandul' ukutshata, lo mfazi wathatha i-smartphone waza wangena kwingxoxo kunye nabahlobo bakhe, ngokulibala ngokupheleleyo ngomfazi wakhe kwaye engayithobeli ngothando lwakhe. Emva koko isibini esandula kutshata sacela ukuba ngubani obaluleke kakhulu kuye: yena okanye ngabahlobo. Umfazi onomsindo waphendula wathi ungumhlobo. IArabhu enjalo eyaziqhenyayo ayimelanga. Washiya ihotele waza waqhawula umtshato ngosuku olulandelayo. Ijaji yazama ukumkhusela, kodwa apho apho! I saziso sanelisekile.
Unqwenela ukunceda
Ukuba kwimeko yangaphambili umyeni wafaka umtshato ngenxa yokungakhathazeki komfazi, ngoko kwimbali umfazi omncinci, ngokuchaseneyo, wabonisa ukunyanzeliswa ngokungathandekanga kwabathembekile. Kwenzeke ngobusuku bokuqala bomtshato. Abangenamava abasandul 'ukutshata babengenakukwazi ukujamelana nokuvuyisa kwaye abazange bakwazi ukufeza umsebenzi wakhe. Umfazi wakhe wagqiba ukumvuyisa waza waqala ukuchazela oko wayenokukwenza. Mhlawumbi, wayidonsa le ngcaciso kwi-Intanethi. Kodwa endaweni yokumbulela, lo mntu wavutha ngumsindo: wagqiba kwelokuba umfazi uziphatha ngokugqithiseleyo, wamxosha ngaphandle kwendlu, kwaye ngengomso wafaka isicelo sokuqhawula umtshato.
Umncedisi weTV
Umhlali wase-Saudi Arabia uqhawule umfazi wakhe ngenxa yokuba wayeyedwa ejonga inkqubo yethelevishini, eyayikhokela kuyo indoda. Umyeni onomona wambona njengoluhlu, ngenxa yokuba uSharia uyawavimbela abafazi ukuba bahlale bodwa kunye namadoda angaqhelekanga.
Iglasi yamanzi
E-Kuwait, umyeni wacela umtshato emva kokuba umfazi wenqabe ukumhambisa iglasi yamanzi. Umfazi oziqhenyayo wathi le nto ayiyona inxalenye yemisebenzi yakhe: kukho intombazana endlwini.
Pepsi
Omnye umArabhu wanikela ngokuqhawula umtshato emva komfazi wakhe, naphezu kokuvalwa komyeni wakhe, wagqiba ibhotile yePepsi. Le ndoda yayicinezela ukuba abathembekile abazange bamthobele.
UmNyango oPhezulu
Abafazi abama-Arabhu, abanabantwana abasixhenxe kunye nabatshatileyo iminyaka engama-25, baqhawula emva kokuba bafunde ukuba benomhlengikazi omnye. Ngaphantsi kwemithetho yase-Arabhu, le ndoda nomfazi bahlobo lwezobisi, imitshato phakathi kwayo enqatshelwe.
Inqweno yomlingane
Kwaye le ngxelo yasendle. Ibhinqa elivela eSaudi Arabia lafuna umtshato kumyeni wakhe. Isizathu sokuba emva kweminyaka engama-30 yomtshato ekugqibeleni ... wabona ubuso bakhe. Eli bhinqa wayenombono oqinileyo kwaye akazange abonise umyeni wakhe ubuso. Indoda enomdla ayikwazanga ukuma, kwaye ngolunye usuku, xa elele, wayisusa isigqubuthelo kuye.
Kwiinkathazo, umfazi waphaphama waza wamshumayeza ukuba wayeqhawula umtshato kumyeni okhohlisayo. Kwenzeka kungekudala nje ngo-2008.
Umnyango wemoto engavaliweyo
Intsapho yaseArabhu yayibuyela ekhaya. Umlingane washiya imoto waza wahola umntwana ekhaya, ngaphandle kokuvala umnyango wemoto. Umyeni wam wafuna ukuba abuyele aze avaliwe umnyango. Wayephikisa ukuba unokukwenza ngokwakhe, njengoko wayekufuphi imoto. Emva koko umyeni wathukuthela waza wathi ngaloo nto wayenanto engayenzayo endlwini yakhe. Ibhinqa lafuneka lihambe.
I cigarette
Esinye isibini esahlukana nomtshato emva kokuba umyeni ufumene i-cigarette kwisikhwama somfazi. Le ntokazi yazama ukuzithethelela, yathi wayengazi ukuba yintoni i-cigarette evela kuyo. Kodwa le ndoda yayinyanisekile: ilandelwe ngumtshato.
Isiteketiso sokuthuka
E-Saudi Arabia, ibhinqa lifuna umtshato emva komnxeba womyeni wakhe. Wambiza ehambayo kwaye wafumanisa ukuba indoda yakhe yayishiye ifowuni etafileni, kwaye umbhalo othi "iGuantanamo" yayisesikrinini. Ngaloo nickname, le ndoda yamlethela iqabane kumnxeba wonxibelelwano. Khumbula ukuba iGuantanamo ijele eCuba, apho kuqhutyelwa intlungu. Umfazi wayecaphukile kangangokuba wayefuna umtshato. Ewe, okanye ubuncinane umvuzo.
Kim Kardashian
Omnye umfazi wase Saudi Arabia waphawula ukuba umyeni wakhe uthanda uKim Kardashian.
"Ndabona ukuba uyamthanda njani, ngoko ke wanquma ukufana naye ..."
Ukufana neenkwenkwezi zeTV, elinye ibhinqa latshintshe iinwele zakhe, zenza uphando lweplastiki kwaye zazama ukuhamba ngendlela efanayo neKardashian. Kodwa esi sicwangciso esilungileyo asizange sisebenze. Umyeni wam wayengathandanga ukubukeka komfazi wakhe kwaye wafuna ukuqhawula umtshato.
Ihlaya elingaphumeleli
Omnye umfazi ovela eSaudi Arabia watsho umyeni wakhe ngokukrakra ukuba ikamela likayise lithanda ngaphezu kwakhe. Indoda ephosakeleyo yathatha umfazi wayo kwifama yekamela yomkhwe wakhe, yamkhokela kwikamela yaza yaqhawula umtshato.
Iqhawe leqiniso libonisa
Kwaye nenye ibali elikrakra lomtshato. Indoda yaseArabhu yabuyela ekhaya yafumana umfazi wayo ekhala. Wayecinga ukuba intlungu eyenzekayo, wagijima waya kumfazi wakhe, waqala ukumthulisa aze abuze malunga noko kwenzekile. Kwavela ukuba lo mfazi wayebukele kwiTV inqaku elilandelayo lomdlalo owaziwayo, kwaye inxaxheba yakhe eyithandayo yashiya iphrojekthi. Ukufunda ngezizathu zezinyembezi, umyeni waba nomsindo:
"Lowo uthatha inxaxheba ushiye umboniso, kwaye ushiya indlu!"
Ukungayithobeli imiyalezo kwi-Whatsapp
Umyeni wathumela umfazi wakhe umyalezo kwi-Whatsapp, waqinisekisa ukuba uyayifunda, kodwa akafumani mpendulo. Iqabane elixhatshazayo lenze isigqibo sokuba into ethile embi yenzeke kumfazi wayo, waza wabuyela ekhaya. Ekhaya, wabona ukuba umfazi wayebukela ngethelevishini ngokuzenzele aze athethe nabahlobo. Wathi wayengeke akwazi ukuphendula kwisigidimi sakhe, kuba wayebhalelane nomhlobo wakhe. Umyeni waphoswa waza wagqiba ukuqhawula umtshato. Kubuhlungu ukucinga ukuba umtshato weminyaka emibili ungasindiswa nge-smiley kuphela!
Ukuqhuba imoto
Abafazi baseSaudi Arabia bavunyelwe ukuqhuba. Enye intokazi, engayinaki umthetho, yathumela indoda yakhe ividiyo, apho ilawula imoto yayo. Umyeni ogcina umthetho wayethusa. Kuye kwenzeka ukuba utshatile kwisigebengu! Qhawule umtshato!
I-Kiss yeHhashi
Omnye umAradi wahlukana emva kokubona isithunzi apho umfazi wakhe wamanga u-Arabia! Wayeyicinga njengento yokunyaniseka! Eli bhinqa lathi akazange azisole ngezinto azenzileyo kwaye akazange akhungathekiswe ngumtshato umntu ongahlukanisi phakathi kwesilwanyana kunye nendoda.
Khangela ikamela
Kwimeko efanayo xa kwenzeka umfazi osemncinci ewanga ikamela phambi koomama wakhe. Uninazala wayethuswa waza wafunwa kwindodana yakhe ukuba waqhawula ngokukhawuleza. Indoda yamthobela unina.
Ukukhutshwa kwiqela kwizentlalo. amanethiwekhi
Indoda eyaziwayo yaseArabhu yaxosha umfazi wayo endlwini ukuze abuyisele umntakwabo. Amadoda ayehlala kwindawo efanayo kwi-Whatsapp, kodwa emva kokuxabana nomntakwabo umfazi wayedlala indoda yakhe kwiqela. Umyeni othukiweyo wambi wambi wamxelela umfazi wakhe ukuba aphume.