Kuya kuphi inyanga yokukhulelwa unokwenza ngesondo?

Ubuhlobo bobulili bubaluleke kakhulu ebomini nasiphi na isibini. Ixesha lokulinda lomntwana alukho. Abanye oomama bexesha elizayo balahlekelwa ngumdla ekuthandaneni, kwaye ezininzi, ngokuchaseneyo, zandisa umnqweno wesini. Kodwa njengokuba abatshatileyo banoyiko benoyiko lokulimaza iimvuthu, banomdla kumbuzo wenyanga leyo yokukhulelwa unokwenza ngesondo. Abaninzi baya kuba nomdla wokufumana ulwazi ngalesi sihloko.

Yintoni ekufuneka ikwazi malunga nesondo ngexesha lokukhulelwa?

Ngamanye amaxesha ugqirha unokucebisa umama ozayo ukuba angafuni ukulala ngesondo. Kukho izizathu ezahlukeneyo zezi:

• izifo ezithathelwanayo;
• isongelo sokuphuphuma kwesisu, ithoni yesisu;
• placenta previa;
• ukuba ukukhulelwa kwangaphambili kwaphazanyiswa ukukhulelwa komzimba.

Kukho ezinye iindlela zokuchasana, oza kugqirha ugqirha ngazo.

Kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo zempilo kamama ozayo, oogqirha abanqatshelwe ukulala ngesondo. Kodwa ukuba le mbhangqwana ilindele ukuzalwa kwamawele, isondo kufuneka singasebenzi. Kukholelwa ukuba kungcono ukunciphisa ubuhlobo obusondeleyo kumanyathelo okuqala.

Kufuneka ukhethe iimeko apho umphumo wesisu ungabandakanywa. Kwakhona kunqweneleka ukusebenzisa iikhondom.

Zingaphi iinyanga zokukhulelwa unokulala ngesondo?

Ngokuqhelekileyo, ootata baya kuba nobunzima bokuthandana nomfazi wakhe, ngokukodwa kwimimiselo kamva. Bakhathazeka ukuba banokulimaza umntwana. Kodwa ukuba ibhinqa ivakalelwa kakuhle, inomdla wesondo, kwaye ugqirha akayi kubona nayiphi na into echasayo, ngoko ukulala ngesondo kuya kwenzeka malunga naso sonke ixesha.

Ezinye iingcali, ukuphendula umbuzo wenyanga yintoni ekwazi ukulala nayo nabasetyhini abakhulelweyo, bathi ezintandathu (kwiiveki ezingama-36) kubalulekile ukunciphisa isondo. Oku kubangelwa kukuba i-orgasm ibangela ukuphambana okunzulu kwesibeleko, kwaye oku kunokuvusa ukuzalwa kwangaphambi kwexesha elifanelekileyo. Kukholelwa ukuba ngeli xesha umntwana usungulwa, kodwa kungcono ukuba ungathathi ingozi. Kwiintsana ezizalwe eneminyaka eyi-8, inkqubo yokuphefumula iyahluka kwalawo azalwa kwiiveki ezingama-40, kwaye umntwana unokufumana iingxaki ngokuvula imiphunga.

Kodwa oogqirha bancoma nokuba nesondo ngaphandle kwekhondom kungekudala ngaphambi komhla othandekayo. Emva koko, ukuzalwa kwangaphambi komama ozayo akusekho kubi, kwaye izinto ezikhoyo kwisidoda, zigalelo ekunciphiseni umlomo wesibeleko.

Ukuba ibhinqa linakho ukungathandabuzeki, inokuhlala ihlolisana nomntwana wesifo somzimba, zingaphi iinyanga olala ngesondo nabesifazane abakhulelweyo.