Yonke intombazana, ukuba ingafuni ukuziva nje, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ibe yintombazana enhle, kufuneka ukuba zonke zihambelane nephimbo elihle. Namela ama heroines efilimu ezindala okanye amafilimu anamhlanje ngamaxesha adlulileyo - ahlala eziphatha ngokugqibeleleyo, alandele ukuziphatha, ahlonipheke, amomotheka. Ngokubanzi, nje u-zalyubueshsya, ubuhle obunjalo. Kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, phantse onke amabhinqa afuna ukuba afana nawo, njengama-Melanie esuka e-Gone kunye ne-Wind, okanye njenge-heroine ye-Downtown Abbey. Oku kungafezwa njani? Kulula - makhe sijonge kwimithetho elula yokunambitheka, okufuneka igosa lenene lilandele.
Imigaqo yentleko yamantombazana
Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuqonda okokuqala ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba kubekho indawokazi, kwaye kwindawo ethile-ukuphazamisa imigaqo. Ithembo elungileyo kufuneka lilandelwe kuyo yonke indawo: emsebenzini, ekuhambeni, kwizithuthi zikawonkewonke, nakwikhaya, ekudibanisaneni nezihlobo. Ngoko lungele usebenze ngokwakho, ngokokuba unelungelo lokuzibiza ngokuthi uyintombi.
Ukuze ube lula, imigaqo yokuziphatha kunye neetoni ezilungileyo iya kwahlulwa ngamaqela amancinci. Ngaloo ndlela, unokukwazi ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza kwimigaqo efunekayo yokufundisa kuqala:
- Imigaqo yoqhagamshelwano olufanelekileyo. Mhlawumbi, ngexesha lethu - le ngenye yeengxaki ezinkulu. Abantu abaninzi banokulibala malunga nendlela yokuthetha ngokuchanekileyo, kwaye umntu, mhlawumbi, akayazi le mithetho. Kodwa apha konke kulula. Okokuqala, ungalokothi ukhohlwe "ngamazwi omlingo". Ngale ndlela asinakho kuphela "mbulela" kwaye "nceda", kodwa "hlonipho", "hamba" kunye namanye amagama-zashalochki nayiphi na ingxoxo. Ixesha lisoloko lithatha inhlonipho kwaye linesidima, ingakumbi ixhamla noqhagamshelwano nabantu abangabaziyo okanye ngabaphathi bentloko emsebenzini, ekubeni ekuxoxaneni nabahlobo kukho imfihlelo kunye nemithetho. Smile - iya kulungiselela abantu. Ukuba ukhona kwintlanganiso yezoshishino, ngoko uhlala uthetha ngokucacileyo, ngokukhawuleza, nakwi shishini. Kwintetho kwifowuni, ungalokothi ukhankasele kwifowuni, kwaye uzame ukuthetha ngezothutho zoluntu ukuba unokubuya emva koko.
- Imigaqo yentle enhle kwitafile. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukwazi indlela yokuziphatha etafileni. Akunandaba nokuba usemkhosini, kwivenkile yokutyela ngomhla okanye ekudleni ekhaya - kufuneka uziphatha ngokubaluleka. Mhlawumbi imigaqo eyona siseko: musa ukucima, musa ukugubha, musa ukuthetha ngomlomo wakho ugcwele, ungathethi ngokukhawuleza, ungafaki izibonda kwitafile. Konke oku kwaziwa kwabaninzi ukususela ebuntwaneni, kodwa kungekhona wonke umntu owaziyo imithetho, ekugqibeleni elandela. Ukuhlala etafileni, qi niseka ukuba ulandele i-posture yakho - awukwazi ukuxhomekeka phambili ukuthatha isiqwenga kwifoloko, kufuneka uvelise ifom emlonyeni wakho. Ungaze uvumele ukuthetha kakubi malunga nezitya ezithile kuba nje andithandi - oku kukuphakama kokungafanelekanga. Ukuba ufuna ukuxhasa incoko etafileni, ngoko uthetha ngezihloko ezingathathi hlangothi, ngaphandle kokuphazamisa ezopolitiko, izifo, iinkcukacha zentsholongwane okanye ubomi bomntu bomntu.
- Imimiselo yentle yokuzonwabisa kwimpahla. Ewe, ekugqibeleni, makhe sikhulume ngendlela yokugqoka igosa lenene. Ewe, kwaye kwiingubo kukho umyalelo ogunyazisiweyo. Ngokomzekelo, awukwazi ukuza kusebenza kuma-pajamas kunye ne-slippers, ngendlela efanayo inkokheli ayinakukwazi ukugqoka ingubo yokubiza. Ngokomzekelo, iingubo ezimfutshane nezifutshane, kwakhona izihloko ezivulekileyo, ii-T-shirts, iingubo zokugqoka. Ukukhetha iingubo kufuneka kulungele, zikhumbule izinto ezinjalo,
njengesitayela kunye nokuziphatha. Kungcono ukugqoka i jeans elula kunye nekhati, kunokugqithisa ngokugqithiseleyo mini. Okokuqala, ihambelana ngakumbi nelo nkosikazi, kwaye okwesibini, ungazifihla iimpazamo zomfanekiso wakho, kwaye ungazifaki kwisiboniso sikarhulumente.
Ngokomgaqo, oku kunokubizwa ngokuba yimigaqo eqhelekileyo yentleko yabasetyhini, ekufuneka bahambelane nayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, olu luhlu lunokuxhaswa ixesha elide, njengoko i-etiquette ifanele iqhube ngokufanelekileyo elunxwemeni, nakwizithuthi zikawonkewonke, emsebenzini, nakwiqela. Kodwa, kwanamathela kule miyalelo embalwa elula yokunambitheka, uya kuziva unenekazi, kwaye ubonise abanye.