Wonke umntu uyazi malunga neenzuzo zokuxilisa. Kwakhona akuyona imfihlo ukuba ukusikwa kweenyawo kunceda umntwana ukuba afunde ukuma nokuhamba, engakhankanyeli ukuba le nto yinto encedo. Ukuxiliswa kweenyawo zokuphucula abantwana kuya kunceda ukususa ithoni eyongeziweyo, ukuvuselela okuchaseneyo, kuya kuqinisa imilenze.
Ukusikwa kweenyawo zintsana
Ukuhlaselwa kweenjongo zokukhusela kunconywa kubo bonke abantwana. Yaye ungesabi ukwenza oko ngokwakho, ama-masses asebenzayo angasetyenziselwa kuphela kwiziganeko eziyimfuneko kakhulu-xa ukusikwa komzimba kumiselwe ugqirha.
Ukusilalisa kwansuku zonke kunokuqala ukuqhutywa kwinyanga yesibini yobomi bentsana, emva kokuba intambo yomlomo ikhula.
Nayi imigaqo efuna ukuba ilandelwe xa uhamba ngeenyawo zezinsana:
- Igumbi apho i-massage iqhutyelwa ngayo kufuneka ibe yomoya, kodwa ingabanda. Umntwana kufuneka akhululeke ehamba ze.
- Izandla zomama zifanele zifudumale, zingabikho zipikili ezide, amasongo kunye namasongo.
- Ixesha lokukhetha le nto xa umntwana esesimo esihle.
- Xa uhlalisa, ungakhohlwa ukuthetha nomntwana.
- Yonke imihla, ngaphambi kokuba uhlambe, zama ukwenza ukuhlambalaza okuphumayo-kuya kuba luncedo kwinkqubo yeentlanzi zemivumba.
Indlela yokwenza umlenze womnxeba ngomntwana?
1. Qalisa ukusilalisa ngokubetha okulula.
2. Ukuphakamisa umlenze womntwana nge-perpendicular to surface. Ngesandla sakho sokunene, sithinte umlenze womntwana ukuze ube phakathi kwesikhumba kunye nayo yonke iminwe. Qalisa ukukwenza lula ukukhangela ukusuka phezulu phezulu (oko kukuthi ukusuka kwintsimbi ukuya enyaweni), ngokunyuka ukwandisa isantya sokunyakaza kunye namandla ocinezelo. Ukufikelela kwinqanaba, buyela kwindawo yokuqala, unyawo ngokwalo de luchukumise. Ukuzivocavoca amaxesha ama-5-6 ngeenyawo.
3. Beka isandla sakho sokunene kumlenze womntwana kunye nomnye kwenkomo yomlenze ofanayo. Khangela ngokukhawuleza kwaye uqale njengokungathi "ucofa" umlenze. Yenza amaxesha ama-3-4.
4. Thatha unyawo lomntwana ngakwesokunene, ngakwesobunxele uya kwenza ezi zilandelayo, ukuqala ngesithende, ukunyuka:
- ukuhamba okufutshane okufutshane, okukhumbuza ukucoca kweerrotti;
- Yenza iminwe yeminwe kuyo yonke indawo yonyawo, iguqula rhoqo amandla ocinezelo.
Bobabini basebenzisa izihlandlo ezi-3-4.
5. Iminwe yesandla sokunene idlula ngeminwe yentsana, iphosa ngokukhawuleza, kwaye uye kwiindawo zokuxubha kunye neminwe emithathu-enkulu, ephakathi kunye nesalathisi.
6. Ezi zifundo ziya kuphuhlisa amanxeba enyawo kunye neendolo, kodwa kufuneka zenziwe ngenyameko.
- Thatha unyawo lomntwana ngakwesokunene ukuze iminwe yakho ibambe iminwe yomntwana. Beka isandla sakho sobunxele kwidibeneyo. Qala ukwenza iisetyhula ukunyakaza kweenyawo ukuya ngakwesokudla, ke ukuya ngakwesobunxele;
- Isandla esisodwa sinamathele umntwana ngesithende, esinye sisidolo.
Sebenzisa ummese ukwenza intshukumo echanekileyo kwimiqathango yomibini.
7. Ukuze ukhulule izihlunu ezixutywe emva kokusilalisa, faka zombini izandla zakho phantsi kweesile lebhola. Ndibethe. Emva koko, gxininisa izandla zakho kwitshixo kwaye uswayipha ngaphaya kwemilenze, uqale, njengoko uqonda, kunye nabafundisi kunye nokuphela.
8. Sigqiba iseshoni yokusilalisa kunye nokuqala kwethu - ngokunyakaza kokukhanya.
Futhi ungakulibali ngokutshajaza: i-circular motions kunye neenyawo zombini ngexesha elifanayo, umdala uhlolisise "ibhayisikili" -zo zonke ezi zinto zikwazisa kwakhona, zenziwa kuphela kwifom yemidlalo.