Namhlanje, inkolo enye yezinto ezichaphazela kakhulu indlela yobomi abaninzi. Ukutyelela kwecawa kwakungekho nje umkhosi wokholo, kodwa kunye nethuba lokuzisa iingcamango, ukhulule, kwaye ube yedwa. Kwaye, ku funeka kuqatshelwe ukuba ngoku, uxanduva lweziganeko ezinjalo lukhule kakhulu, kuquka onke amabini, kunokuba, umzekelo, iminyaka elishumi edlulileyo. Nangona kunjalo, kusekho abo, ukuba bayifake ngokuthobeka, abaziqondi ngokucacileyo ubunzulu bokutyelela icawa. Kwaye ininzi ibonakaliswa ngokubonakala. Enye yezinto ezixinzelelekileyo zabasetyhini banamhlanje befashoni sele, kunokwenzeka ukuba ibandla libe ngamafutshane.
Ingaba ibhinqa linxiba iifutshane kwicawa?
Ukuqonda ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba ungene ecaweni ngamafutshane, kuyimfuneko ukuqonda ububanzi bezinto ezivumelekileyo, ngakumbi ngokubhekiselele ekubonakaleni komfazi "kwindawo yokuhlala kaThixo." Njengoko uyazi, nawaphi na amagumbi anxulumene nenkolo athatha ukuthozama, ukusondelana nokungabikho kwanaluphi na uhlobo lwesondo, olunobungozi nolungileyo kumfanekiso. Ngokufanelekileyo, umfazi kufuneka ahambe ecaweni enekhanda elikhuselekileyo, iingalo kunye nemilenze efihliweyo. Ngako oko, ikhabethe elimkelekileyo eliqhelekileyo naluphi na iziganeko zonqulo namhlanje iingubo ezinde okanye igqoke, izicathulo ezivaliweyo, ishidi. Akufuneki kubekho ukusika kunye nokucutswa. Khumbula - ukuthozama okukhulu.
Ngoku makhe sithethe ngeengubo, njengendwangu yokubhinqa yabasetyhini ebandleni. Iingubo zazihlala zibhekwa njengezambatho zabantu. Kwamazwe amaninzi, ibhinqa elineengqungquthela yayingabantu abanobuqhetseba nabangcolileyo. Namhlanje le ngcamango yashiywe kuphela kwimibono yonqulo. Iicawa ezininzi zinyanzela amadoda phezu kweengubo zabo ukuba agqoke ingubo okanye ingubo ende.
Ukucaphula, sinokugqiba ukuba icawa emfutshane ayinakukwazi ukukhetha. Kwaye kukho ubuncinane izizathu ezibini zezi. Okokuqala, iifutshane zihlobo lweebhulukhwe, kwaye okwesibini, ikhabethe elifanayo livula imilenze, engavumelekanga "endlwini kaThixo."