Kwihlabathi lefashishini, njengemathematika okanye yezopolitiko, kukho imigaqo nemithetho eyenziwa ngesizathu. Kufuneka ukwazi oko kukuncika kuyo kunye nento ozama ukuyenza.
Imithetho yokwakheka kwengubo
Ukuhambelana kwezambatho ngowomnye wemithetho ebalulekileyo yokwakhiwa komfanekiso. Ubukeka obuhle kunye obukhangelelene buhlobene ngokuvisisana kwazo zonke iinkcukacha, kubandakanyekanga kuphela iimpahla kunye nezixhobo, kodwa kunye neenwele, ukwakheka kunye nokuhlobisa. Kubaluleke kakhulu isitayela, ukubunjwa, imibala, iimifanekiso kunye nokuzihombisa. Kodwa ukubonakala kwakho kunye nomlingiswa yindlela yokuqhagamshelana eyona nto, ekufuneka ihambelane nayo yonke into. Ukubunjwa kwiingubo kukudibanisa zonke izinto zokugqoka kunye nezesekeli zibe yinto enye. Kukho isikhokelo sokubumba, apho kukho ingqwalasela ekhethekileyo.
Unokwakha isikhungo sokwakhiwa phakathi kweso sibalo, ngaloo ndlela ugqithise ingqalelo kwinquma, isinqindi okanye isifuba. Ukuba ufuna ukugxila ingqalelo kwizantsi, ufumana umfanekiso ozinzile nesisiseko. Kodwa uhlobo lwentloko, inwele yokuqala okanye ukuzenzela ikhangele ubuso, intamo kunye neenwele.
I-Elegant Audrey Hepburn ibilokhu ifuna ukubeka isikhokelo sokubumba phezulu, ngoko kukutsala ingqalelo ebusweni obuhle. Kulo uncedwa yiinqayi kunye nemicu. Kodwa inkwenkwezi eyaziwayo yefilimu uBrigitte Bardot inqamle wonke umntu ngeefirst style. Ingqungquthela "i-babette" isacingelwa ikhadi lakhe lebhizinisi.
Kukho imigaqo emithathu yokwakheka kwengubo:
- Ukwahlula - umdlalo onokudibanisa umbala, ukuma okanye ukuthambisa. Ngokomzekelo, iibhloko zemibala eyahlukileyo ziya kunceda ukufihla iimpazamo zalo mfanekiso, kunye nokunika ukulungiswa komfanekiso. Kuyafana nokuhlanganiswa kweempawu ezahlukeneyo (ubomvu kunye ne-velvet, i-leather and denim fabric). Kuyo nayiphi na imifanekiso kuyimfuneko ukuhambelana nemithetho yokudibanisa umbala kwimpahla.
- Ukufana naso xa sonke isambatho sezakhiwo zakhiwa ngokubumba, ukushicilelwa, umlo okanye ubungakanani, okanye ukuphindaphinda kombala omnye.
- I-Nuance yinguqu ekhohlisayo ukususela ekucaleni kuya kufana. Ukufana phakathi kweempawu kubonakala kucebile kwaye kukhulu.
Imithetho yohlobo lwefestile
Ukubonakala komntu rhoqo kubangela impembelelo emzimbeni kwabanye. Isiqingatha esihle sabantu asikwazi kuphela oku, kodwa siyayisebenzisa njengesikhali esibalulekileyo.
Ngaphambi kokuba uphuthumele ukuhlola iindlela ezintsha zefashoni, kufuneka uzibuze malunga nesitayela sakho, nokuba unayo. Ukuba awukwazi ukuba ungaqala kuphi, ngoko ngokuqinisekileyo uqwalasela imithetho esemqoka yesitayela:
- Isitayela esikhethiweyo kufuneka sihambelane nehlabathi elikujikelezayo. Okokuqala kuzo zonke iinkxalabo zomsebenzi nomsebenzi wakho. Ukuba ufuna ukuphumelela, akufanele ulawule imithetho ekhoyo yekhowudi yokugqoka. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka udibanise ne-gray mass! Kufuneka nje ufunde ukujonga ukugqithisa ngakumbi kwaye kunamanye amazwe kunabanye abantu.
- Ngokuncediswa kweempahla kufuneka ube nokukwazi ukubiza iinkampani eziyimfuneko. Ngokomzekelo, ngoncedo lwezambatho zoshishino ungabonisa injongo enzulu malunga neemeko okanye umbuzo uphendululwe, kodwa ngoncedo lweengubo ezimnandi ungayifumana imibono yabantu.
- Isimbo somntu ngamnye kukufunyanwa kwehlabathi lakho langaphakathi, kwaye ungayixelisa nabani na. Kufuneka uzive ukhululekile kwaye ukhululekile. Funda ukubonisa isithunzi sakho kwaye ufihle iimpazamo.
- Ungesabi uvavanyo! Kukho izitayela ezininzi kwiingubo, ngoko unokuba ngumfazi weshishini emsebenzini, kwaye ngokuhlwa kusiqhenqa esinomdla. Kwaye akukho mntu onqanda namhlanje ukuba uzame ngomfanekiso wecala lokukhwabanisa, kwaye ngomso intombazana encinci yothando. Into ephambili ukuba yonke into ifanelekile kwaye iguqule.
Ungazikhumbuli le mithetho, kufuneka nje uziqonde kwaye ufumane into ethile kunye neyodwa! Inhlanhla kuwe!
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